<liketuimages> <center>   </center> </liketuimages> 今天这个社会，人与人之间的相处模式早就与几十年前不同，陌生人之间互相防范，邻里之间也有些冷漠，人们似乎都在努力的维持与外界的“边界感”。 事实上这并不见得是退步，把它看作社会发展必经之路比较客观，就像每一次科技革命之下会带来无数人失业一样，总是有副作用的，事物的两面性体现得淋漓尽致。 昨日我的一位好哥们向我吐槽，自己的领导（男）怎么怎么，听完之后我没有当即作出评价，只是默默倾听。但我心里还是很清楚的，朋友所述的事情，他自身的问题居多。 朋友在一家规模几十人的单位，他算是领导跟前的心腹，并且近两年来与领导的私人关系越来越好。比如经常一起吃早饭、午饭，他们聊天从工作到家庭，从现在聊到过去，总之一切看起来都很平衡。 在近两年，他时不时地向我“炫耀”自己在现在的岗位上多么如鱼得水，最关键的是和领导关系融洽。可是最近，他的领导在开会时却连续两次对他作出负面评价，这让朋友很是不爽。 一问原因，朋友说工作任务没问题，领导评价的只是上班迟到这件事。朋友说领导是双标，以往领导偶尔也会带着他在上班时间吃早饭，但自己独自去吃早饭就遭到批评，非常不公平。 最初我听着朋友的倾诉，也只是陪着他一起说他领导双标，这也是个事实。但后来我也坦诚地告诉朋友，其实这是你自己没有把握好边界感。 在单位里，领导往往是有独特的权利的，职工管理制度对他们来说不适用，制定制度的目的是为了管好下属，而不是自己。领导愿意带你打破规则，那是他在运用权力，你若是自作主张搞特殊，就算是对他的挑衅。 所以说，若是不想被这种不公平事情恶心到，那就一开始就避免享受特殊，你越觉得舒服就越看重自己，可一旦触碰到领导的敏感神经，就不会把你当朋友看待了。 --- For the best experience view this post on [Liketu](https://liketu.com/@mrpointp/4qufkd)
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<a href="https://tipu.online/hive_curator?mrspointm" target="_blank">Upvoted 👌</a> (Mana: 0/59) <a href="https://peakd.com/hive/@reward.app/reward-app-quick-guide-updated" target="_blank">Liquid rewards</a>.
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保持边界感的重要性
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很重要😁
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