<center></center> Picture from pixabay.com 这几年人人都在说“情商”这个词，而很多人并不能真正理解这个词，情商是与智商对应的词汇。 智商是指一个人或动物在智力上的商数，而情商是从心理学上测定一个人情绪上的商数，两者不冲突也没有必然的联系。 智商很好理解，比如你小学时代同年级有一个奥数做得特别好的人，还有那种对不怎么听课也能考高分的人，这些人通常都是智商超群。 在学生时代，智商高的人很占优势，因为这个时候学习成绩最重要，而智商高可以有效提升成绩，但也有智商高不想学的。 情商的范围其实蛮广的，不光是大多数人理解的“会说话”，甚至有些人会理解为“会奉承”，这些理解过于片面。 心理学上讲情商与一个人的“意志、情绪控制、处理社交关系”等多方面有关系，也就是说情商高低不容易界定。 从沟通的角度说，情商高表现在：说该说的话，在该说话的时候说；从情绪的角度说，情商高表现在：可以有情绪，但懂得适度隐藏；从社交的角度说，情商高表现在：谈吐得当，懂得换位思考。 我遇到过情商高的人，这样的人通常很难被别人讨厌，因为对方懂得适度表达自己的想法，而我也不想与情商高的人成为过于亲密的朋友，因为这样的人所说所做未必是其内心所想。 但我很乐意向情商高的人学习，掌握一些社交技巧，对自己工作、交友都是有好处的。 智商和情商，在不同的领域，两个商数的重要性也不同，而我认为在普通人的生活工作圈中情商高优势更大。
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| author | mrspointm |
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