凤凰男这个词已经出现很久了,意指那些原本出身寒微后来通过在学历或事业努力提高自己取得成功,但却在思想、性格、观念多个方面与后来的生活环境有着极大的矛盾的男性。其间大概率全家的资源和希望都寄托在他身上,因此塑造凤凰男也多与其家庭有关联。 其实我个人理解的凤凰男与其他大多数取得一定成就的男士最大的区别就是“对待自己的看法”。以前我总觉得这个概念不够真实,可现如今我真的察觉到身边真是有这样的男士,细细一品真挺令人难受。 ![IMG_8868.jpeg](https://files.peakd.com/file/peakd-hive/mrpointp/23tm9TufiKFkMqjMuRTqbB3hehNjcQCMf1NjKd8So7YPRWW9Ndm8u3ECB42HwDjASCetC.jpeg) <a href="https://pixabay.com/zh/photos/coffee-hot-chocolate-cup-drink-2179009/">Source</a> 那是一位女性亲戚的老公,他算是典型的用知识改变命运。来自四川偏远农村的他,靠着自己的努力上了重本,后来定居在了大城市,也正是在工作时与这位女性亲戚相识相恋结了婚,现在已经结婚十年了。 以前我还挺佩服他,因为算是农村学子的榜样了,于是我总想着他日后肯定是越来越好。 近两年我感受到,他是典型的大男子主义,尤其对自己的妻子总有种呼来唤去的感觉。还感觉到他的功利主义,聊到工作、钱这些事情,话里话外都能感到那股现实的味道。 还有个最明显的特点,他对天生家庭条件比较好的人有种很强烈的轻蔑。比如当聊到那些关系户在官场上升迁的多快,大多数人可能也就会说“羡慕,有关系就是不一样”,这些话带点玩笑而已。 可这亲戚的老公就不会这么玩笑,而是很正经严肃的对这些自带资源的人展开吐槽。不仅聊到这类专题时会吐槽,其他话题也能感受到他骨子里“只有靠努力得来的才正大光明”的认知。哪怕一个人家庭算不上大富大贵,就是个工薪阶层在他眼里也直接定义为“娇生惯养”。 我不知道他这算不算标准的凤凰男,因为了解不算太多,但跟他聊天时挺难受的,时时刻刻都带着一股压抑劲。
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