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第一次“体验”做父母的感觉 / The First Time for Being a "Parent" | 谷歌点名 by mrpointp

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第一次“体验”做父母的感觉 / The First Time for Being a "Parent" | 谷歌点名
<blockquote>古人云“养儿方知父母恩”，字字珠玑。人生是一段旅途，沿途会经历许多的风景，有的人欣赏得来，而我愿意做会欣赏的人。过去你不理解的东西，细心体会生活，总有一天你会明白。</blockquote>

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十几岁的时候，总爱和妈妈顶嘴，总觉得父母说的每一句话都是多余的，可能这是不少人都曾有的感觉。初中时还想不念书了，我妈哭着骂了我一顿，后来还是念了下去。现在回想一下，真的是感谢她的，十三、四岁的我闯入社会，如今会如何呢？

还是来说说我要写的<b>“第一次”</b>吧，当然了，我只是体验了一把当父母的感觉。今年五一，表哥表嫂有事要出门，第二天才能回来，于是把不到四岁的侄女交给我和我女朋友。
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那天早上，侄女望着进入电梯的父母，立刻不安了起来，她哭丧着说：“妈妈，我不要在这”，侄女挣脱着我的手。我抱起涕泪横流的侄女嘴里轻声安慰着说，没事没事，妈妈不是让你乖乖的吗，爸爸妈妈给你买玩具明天就回来了。坐在沙发上的侄女还哭个不停，我和女朋友交换着安抚那受伤的小心灵，可并不奏效，此时此刻我只感觉心力憔悴啊！

侄女眼泪大概是哭干了，我安慰地嗓子也有些难受，我将她的眼泪擦干，严肃地对她说：“一妹，你听表叔说，如果你不哭不闹，那表叔和阿姨就带你出去玩，然后回来但是你要继续哭的话，那你自己就在家里，我们出去玩。你选择哪个？” 侄女眨巴她湿润的眼睫毛，还是妥协了。

孩子很单纯，但也像猴子一样，说变脸就变脸，一妹（侄女）就是典型的例子。我们带她去了万达，她就像换了个人似的，一点也看不出来刚刚哭了接近一个小时。我们准备给她买一身衣服，是一家海绵宝宝服装店，看得出来一妹很喜欢，很顺利地买了一套衣服，我很意外她这么听话。后来带她去了一家饰品店，真的是错误的选择。我们原本是进去买点车摆件，但小女孩被这家超大的饰品店深深地吸引，各式各样的小玩意，有水彩笔、卡通印章、贴画......她扭着我们说想要。虽然我还没有孩子，但我一向认为孩子是绝对不能惯的。我哄着她，说家里有很多，这里的东西不好。她依然睁着干净纯粹的眼睛仰视着我们，我知道侄女是铁了心想要。劝说无效后，我也做出了让步，我表示只能选择一样东西购买。她把卡通印章拿在手里，我终于松了口气，没想到她又拿起水彩笔。我坚持说只能拿一样，一妹却哭了起来。顷刻间，店里的人都看着我们，我终于感受到这种电视剧情节的尴尬。我蹲了下来说，你妈妈给我说了明天会给你买许多的玩具，所以今天我们就只能买一个，如果你现在要两个，那我就打电话给你妈妈不用给你买任何东西了。看来小孩还是得威逼利诱的，侄女听见这话立刻安静下来，放下了手中的水彩笔。一天才过去了一半，都把我弄得身心疲惫，后来吃晚饭和睡觉她也闹腾，这里我就不写那么详尽了，想想都心累......

其实想一想，我们何尝不是从小孩子长大的呢？我的父母也曾煞费苦心，也曾心力憔悴地一次又一次哄我、教导我，直到我长大不再为一个玩具而哭闹。遇见小朋友在公众场合哭闹，别恼怒，因为很多年前的你也是一模一样的；当面对父母的唠叨和教诲时，别烦躁，因为他们包容了你一生。
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PS: 在上回的“谷歌点名”游戏中，我幸运地获得优秀奖，谢谢@jubi对我文章的肯定！
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@htliao · 
額，看標題還以為你都有孩子了。
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@mrpointp · 
题目最主要是有引号，哈哈！😏
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@ihatebanana · (edited)
以前叛逆的時候，媽媽都念我，"你以後當媽就知道了"
現在自己在外面生活，偶爾照顧男友弟弟的女兒，做著媽媽做的所有事情，真想跟我媽說:媽我知道你多辛苦啦! 😭 哈哈
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@mrpointp · 
人生真的是一个漫长的成长过程，有些事情只有到了那个时候才明白。
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@rivalhw · 
虽说是体验做父母，但通过此，方才真正体会到做父母的不易。
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@mrpointp ·
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确实是这样，父母包容了孩子的一生。
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@sweetieprincess · 
照顾孩子真的不简单呀！可是过程是享受的😊
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@mrpointp · 
是的，希望以后我有孩子了，她/他不要太调皮捣蛋，哈哈。
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