 我算是朋友行列中晚婚晚育的人，有些人问我晚育是种怎样的体验，我会说自己在最初也感到恐慌，但随着肚子慢慢变大，这种感觉也就逐渐消除。 我认为晚一些生孩子有一个好处就是自己在思想上和教育上都会更成熟一些。以我和@mrpointp的经验来说，生孩子并没有影响夫妻感情。 个人认为大部分夫妻生孩子之后会产生两种情况（并没有绝对的意思），要么感情越来越好，要么感情越来越差，其他情况没有讨论的必要。 对于普通家庭来说，有了孩子就意味着未来十几年将要在养孩子这件事上只支出不收入，就代表压力更大。 不仅经济上有压力，在教育引导、性格培养等方面都会产生压力，因为养孩子是两个人的事，甚至也关系到双方父母，于是分歧就产生了。 两个人的感情向左向右要取决于感情基础到底有多牢固，思想观念差异有多大，是否可以持续互相包容。 我们属于感情基础比较好，虽然有时候意见会存在分歧，但他一向比较包容我。他不属于那种谈不到一起就回避的人，他比我善于沟通。 反之，有的夫妻会因为这些来自孩子的压力发生争执，感情自然会受影响。但事无绝对，每一对夫妻的性格不同，遇见的压力不同，没有比较的意义。 我这是属于通过现象总结理论，而非通过理论推断实际情况，且不要对号入座。
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