![](https://images.ecency.com/DQmYsa3wzn8Yfzme1UzcjtULGiqj6ubJJ4sJ6WRtiZMyuxy/image.png) <a href="https://pixabay.com/zh/photos/dandelion-flower-seeds-cypsela-7529879/">Source</a> 大多数人可能都会有偶像包袱,这种心理状态就像是我们在社交中的一道沟壑,想要跨越但是感觉很难,但是当我们真的跨过去了也就觉得一身轻松。 从小我们就接受“不要太在意别人的看法”这种思想教育,到现在我也觉得它是正确的,但是想要做到可不是什么容易的事情。 刚刚从事教师这一职业的时候我就在想,一定要塑造自己“严肃、认真、稳重”的形象,因为在我心里教师就是这样的,而且那时候我也认为一定要hold住学生,不然的话就没办法管好学生。 然而当我教了第一届学生之后,猛然发现大家对我的印象都是“凶巴巴”,不禁怀疑自己是不是用力过猛,把严肃认真表现成了凶巴巴。 于是在第二届任教的时候我就调整了自己的状态,变得喜欢与学生在课堂上多互动,课外也会更亲和的与一些学习上存在问题的学生沟通,果然,这一届学生对我的印象主要以“温柔、耐心”为主。 现在我已经工作十年了,仔细一想觉得自己已经不再会为别人如何看待自己而过度浪费精力,即便是面对学生也是表现自己真实的一面,发现这才是最轻松的方式。 说到偶像包袱,我印象最深刻的就是我决不允许任何人在我没有准备好的时候给我拍照,我甚至会觉得这是不尊重。但是我内心是很清楚的,像网上那些很好看的照片都是抓拍的瞬间,但是奈何我们不像网上的人那么漂亮。 平心而论,我希望有一天我不再会在乎“别人眼中的我是怎么样的”,因为这肯定是一种很轻松的心态。以我现在的智慧、能力、自信肯定还达不到这个目标,但是我相信有一天会实现的。
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abit | 0 | 7,272,775,675,296 | 30% | ||
mangou007 | 0 | 623,893,826 | 20% | ||
deanliu | 0 | 2,400,304,721,184 | 60% | ||
laoyao | 0 | 16,346,848,756 | 30% | ||
midnightoil | 0 | 57,671,134,489 | 30% | ||
xiaohui | 0 | 5,104,512,069 | 30% | ||
oflyhigh | 0 | 1,149,189,605,283 | 30% | ||
rivalhw | 0 | 1,423,097,960,438 | 100% | ||
nextgen622 | 0 | 413,212,791,866 | 50% | ||
helene | 0 | 331,610,286,038 | 30% | ||
ffcrossculture | 0 | 120,445,293,212 | 100% | ||
sweetsssj | 0 | 11,216,753,256,590 | 33% | ||
cnfund | 0 | 93,830,037,732 | 50% | ||
btshuang | 0 | 746,785,498 | 50% | ||
azazqwe | 0 | 44,888,615,272 | 100% | ||
da-dawn | 0 | 68,299,795,821 | 23% | ||
elizacheng | 0 | 76,864,206,181 | 50% | ||
passion-fruit | 0 | 11,531,355,313 | 100% | ||
htliao | 0 | 2,119,021,503 | 14% | ||
fortune-master | 0 | 10,727,902,900 | 100% | ||
exec | 0 | 88,342,767,047 | 30% | ||
alphacore | 0 | 1,134,480,662 | 1% | ||
aaronli | 0 | 180,535,552,261 | 50% | ||
eturnerx | 0 | 52,492,874,079 | 2.8% | ||
mrpointp | 0 | 349,072,236,025 | 100% | ||
mygod | 0 | 743,197,974 | 50% | ||
catwomanteresa | 0 | 193,889,454,345 | 50% | ||
idx | 0 | 6,338,039,849 | 30% | ||
mangoanddaddy | 0 | 2,029,436,371 | 50% | ||
aafeng | 0 | 437,891,823,376 | 50% | ||
cn-reader | 0 | 13,840,134,659 | 50% | ||
tvb | 0 | 5,503,237,129 | 40% | ||
karja | 0 | 2,386,921,050 | 5% | ||
floatinglin | 0 | 6,846,901,278 | 100% | ||
mrspointm | 0 | 351,548,664,921 | 100% | ||
kimzwarch | 0 | 14,981,755,965 | 4% | ||
chenlocus | 0 | 69,284,577,309 | 100% | ||
mawit07 | 0 | 109,456,245,461 | 25% | ||
malos10 | 0 | 41,529,455,399 | 100% | ||
jychbetter | 0 | 210,030,103,662 | 50% | ||
winniex | 0 | 199,271,831,698 | 50% | ||
windowglass | 0 | 335,820,246,732 | 50% | ||
halleyleow | 0 | 6,149,368,299 | 90% | ||
angelina6688 | 0 | 21,427,820,807 | 50% | ||
auleo | 0 | 22,483,823,572 | 50% | ||
cheva | 0 | 90,185,157,674 | 50% | ||
jim888 | 0 | 830,179,425,115 | 22% | ||
wilhb81 | 0 | 8,042,254,182 | 50% | ||
cherryng | 0 | 28,236,545,329 | 50% | ||
nostalgic1212 | 0 | 186,233,749,518 | 50% | ||
aellly | 0 | 26,474,162,789 | 50% | ||
abdullahj | 0 | 515,055,392 | 50% | ||
tresor | 0 | 52,351,876,242 | 20% | ||
archisteem | 0 | 1,264,603,079 | 7.5% | ||
emsonic | 0 | 593,085,553 | 50% | ||
graceli | 0 | 24,957,302,026 | 50% | ||
harkar | 0 | 183,886,844,660 | 20% | ||
julian2013 | 0 | 50,149,998,703 | 50% | ||
pet.society | 0 | 95,036,755,790 | 40% | ||
annepink | 0 | 266,508,789,894 | 100% | ||
cherryzz | 0 | 40,847,405,852 | 50% | ||
memeteca | 0 | 5,554,553,963 | 20% | ||
bsfmalaysia | 0 | 5,087,546,444 | 50% | ||
wherein | 0 | 6,403,028,180 | 8% | ||
cnstm | 0 | 12,014,176,534 | 8% | ||
ladyyunajay | 0 | 2,273,354,189 | 45% | ||
lovelemon | 0 | 17,166,404,307 | 20% | ||
dailyke20 | 0 | 1,309,009,548 | 50% | ||
hybrintelligence | 0 | 1,165,925,642 | 50% | ||
maxwellmarcusart | 0 | 218,168,603,243 | 25% | ||
atyh | 0 | 221,404,048,452 | 100% | ||
moleah | 0 | 666,034,382 | 100% | ||
bilpcoinrecords | 0 | 729,580,155 | 16.5% | ||
marygong77777 | 0 | 14,602,639,211 | 100% | ||
lnakuma | 0 | 28,031,484,266 | 100% | ||
gloriaolar | 0 | 2,057,149,279 | 15% | ||
lovequeen | 0 | 109,587,919,840 | 50% | ||
logicforce | 0 | 1,389,879,812 | 25% | ||
hive-108278 | 0 | 510,301,132 | 30% | ||
badstrategylive | 0 | 770,480,653 | 50% | ||
hivevote | 0 | 18,052,947,433 | 50% | ||
iris085 | 0 | 19,200,250,877 | 100% | ||
blogstats | 0 | 282,343,626 | 100% | ||
philipmak | 0 | 662,754,701 | 25% | ||
emma-emma | 0 | 22,520,574,431 | 50% | ||
pancovideo | 0 | 750,394,802 | 50% | ||
morogambler | 0 | 840,726,563 | 50% | ||
ricestrela | 0 | 18,639,147,608 | 50% | ||
nicklyons | 0 | 806,362,598 | 50% | ||
ericaliu | 0 | 16,401,829,473 | 50% | ||
abundancelife | 0 | 20,944,501,498 | 50% | ||
lovelingling | 0 | 14,361,809,843 | 50% | ||
tina1219 | 0 | 20,590,061,126 | 100% | ||
linna188 | 0 | 2,108,007,154 | 50% | ||
everlandd | 0 | 11,923,556,975 | 50% | ||
celeste413 | 0 | 9,842,066,401 | 37.5% | ||
zhangyan-123 | 0 | 39,759,561,581 | 50% | ||
pishio | 0 | 558,696,066,512 | 10% | ||
alpha-omega | 0 | 13,387,796,019 | 50% | ||
bai123 | 0 | 4,687,106,044 | 100% | ||
lazy001 | 0 | 2,734,837,113 | 100% | ||
attentionneeded | 0 | 866,319,323 | 10% | ||
waivio.welcome | 0 | 1,184,079,716 | 2.25% | ||
waivio.com | 0 | 800,587,095 | 2.25% | ||
love5200 | 0 | 18,963,404,859 | 100% | ||
xiaoyaodidi | 0 | 9,485,083,000 | 100% | ||
huolian | 0 | 19,140,877,277 | 50% |
是的,不要太在意别人的意见,但当你想做出某些决定时,你必须考虑到它。 哇,所以你是老师?那很好。
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是的哦~~I'm a teacher😁
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That's cool, weldone 👍
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