「生活」我的第一次 —— 初为人母 by mrspointm

hive-105017 · @mrspointm · Sep 21 '20

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「生活」我的第一次 —— 初为人母

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有些事情有了第一次，或许就会有第十次、第一百次，比如游泳、滑雪、潜水等等，而为人母这种事情一般情况下不会过多体验。（这里说的是指生一个baby当一次妈妈）

我爷爷奶奶那一辈，生三四个属于普遍，生八九个也不见怪，但我生了这一个孩子都让我感受深刻了。

真正生了孩子我才体会到为什么那么多产后女性会抑郁，因为那种感觉真的难以言表，经常会莫名其妙地哭，那时每当谁把小孩抱起来，我都感觉他们在跟我抢夺她。

这大概是一种角色转换的过度困难期，在此之前我还是个少女心态，应该说是自由自在，但是生了孩子就会从潜意识中一直为孩子着想。

我想要爱我的孩子，但又从心底感到很疲惫，这种感受大概维持了两个月，有时候也会莫名其妙地哭，连自己都觉得匪夷所思。

我开始习惯天天给孩子换尿不湿、洗屁屁、洗澡，研究如何搭配辅食更加健康营养，随时要为她买一些生活必备品，比如牙刷、指甲刀。

好在时间会让我适应生活，孩子一天天长大，和我们有更多的互动了，我开始适应这个身份，并感到很幸福。

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