「生活」边界感被打破 by mrspointm

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hive-105017 · @mrspointm · 2025-07-20T06:40:39+00:00

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「生活」边界感被打破

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最近老是遇到一些没有边界感的人。上次学案那件事，就弄得大家都很尴尬。人与人之间的相处，始终有一条隐形的线，可这条线一旦被打破，就会让人觉得特别不舒服。

前段时间要去其他学校监考高考，我联系了一位不算太熟的同行，我们具体是怎么认识的，我已经记不清了，反正彼此不算很熟悉。

当时监考有规定，不能带手机进考场。可我要是出门不带手机，路上打车不方便，家人想联系我也没办法。于是我就找到她，问她方便的话，能不能让我把手机放在她办公室，我每天监考完再去拿。恰逢她那段时间没有监考，休假在家，她就把办公室钥匙给了我，让我可以去他办公室休息。

这件事我一直挺感激的，后来就跟她说，平时要是有什么需要，有我能帮上忙的跟我说就行（真的不想欠人情）。就这样，我在之后的一个月内连续被麻烦了四次...当然这也不是说我矫情，只是我觉得这个频率是不是有点太高了啊。

之前她要去送教下乡，需要准备一节关于建议信的公开课，她问我要资料，我当然把自己收藏或者自己整理都一并发给她了，隔了几天，她说她还没构思，就让我提意见，合着是我来给她想理思路啊，我让她先去公众号上搜索相关话题找找灵感，然后再借助于AI查找语料库，之后需要课件修改我再帮她看看，这件事就这么过了。

后来，因为每年暑假省里都要举办讲好中国故事的演讲比赛，师生都可以参加，我之前带过强基班的孩子参加，获奖的还挺多，他们中最好的是省级特等奖。

她像带学生参加今年的这个比赛，于是给我打电话，问我询问有相关事宜，问的很详细，我把流程全都跟她说了一遍，包括剪映的使用，她这才去准备。这种其实不需要老师花太多时间的，我们能做的无非就是改改稿，给学生的视频提提意见啥的，实在不会的我们再辅助就行了。

又隔了没多久，她很着急地联系我，问我在不在学校，让我替她去签个承诺书，说是孩子在我们学校参加初二竞赛培训，我甚至还没弄清楚这件事情是谁负责，她就一个劲地让我去1201签字，我心想要不要先问问负责的人是否同意代签，我再去不是更好吗，她说她住得远，现在又赶着出门，让我先去看看，不想她再过来。

那也行吧，我赶紧跑去1201，里面正在上课，哪来的签字啊。最后，我给了她办公室电话，她去问清楚才知道是1102，啊！！趁着下课时间赶紧帮她填表签字。

又到了今天，她跟我发信息，让我没课的时候给她打个电话，我心想应该很着急吧，看到信息的时候就给她打过去了，这次又是很匆忙，她本人也要参加这个中国故事比赛，让我给她找8-10个学生，陪她录制，她的学生都放假回去了，还说方便的话让我找个空教室给她录也行...

我一听不妙，即便是我愿意，领导肯定有意见，其他学生老师参加比赛，我们的学生去打配合，视频里还穿着印有我们学校logo的校服，这不是很尴尬吗？我只能婉拒。

我始终觉得帮人是情分，不帮是本分。我很感念当初她给我带来的方便，也真心想要去回馈，可这并不代表对方就可以不加节制的索取，尤其是最后一件事，我觉得有点太越界啦。

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@celeste413 · 2025-07-20T08:28:42+00:00

有时候有些忙真的没办法帮😮‍💨拒绝是对的💯💯

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@mrspointm · 2025-07-21T05:51:54+00:00

是啊 适当say no

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@hellotryli · 2025-07-20T15:42:51+00:00

讲的有道理呀，我自己也要反思一下了💯

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@mrspointm · 2025-07-21T05:52:48+00:00

🤣有时候适当拒绝

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@hellotryli · 2025-07-20T15:43:09+00:00

讲的好有道理的样子💯

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@kgakakillerg · 2025-07-20T06:42:36+00:00

You captured some beautiful photos thanks for sharing 😎👍🏾

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@mrspointm · 2025-07-21T05:51:21+00:00

$0.02

Thanks for your appreciation

👍 kgakakillerg

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@kgakakillerg · 2025-07-21T06:09:33+00:00

You are more than welcome 🤗 I hope you enjoy your day

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@liangzi · 2025-07-22T22:25:18+00:00

图片上的鸟是个什么种类呢？怎么没见过，有点像水鸭子😂😂

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@mrspointm · 2025-07-23T05:15:48+00:00

我也不知道哦 就是坐在湖边的时候 它站在那里没走

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@love5200 · 2025-07-21T13:05:39+00:00

不是啊，对方咋的还“得寸进尺”的感觉尼。。😂帮忙也都是相互的，最后一件确实是过界了哦。。有时候确实要礼貌的拒绝，还有一种可能对方可能还没意识到不对劲。。因为我之前遇到过这类的。。

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@mrspointm · 2025-07-23T05:15:21+00:00

是啊 每次就跟我说 太感谢我了 都不知道怎么感谢🤣

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@sahi1 · 2025-07-20T06:56:39+00:00

There are all kinds of people in this world and there is no doubt that help is like a kindness and we should try to repay this kindness. 
I really liked the pictures of duck that you have included in your blog.🥰
Best wishes for you my sister.❤️

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@mrspointm · 2025-07-21T05:51:42+00:00

Thanks for your appreciation

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@snowli · 2025-07-20T09:19:21+00:00

有些人就是没有边界感，他们是精致的利己主义者

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@mrspointm · 2025-07-21T05:52:12+00:00

哎 避而远之

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@wangdingfeng · 2025-07-20T08:42:09+00:00

学会拒绝，也是一种境界呀😂😂😂

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@mrspointm · 2025-07-21T05:52:00+00:00

就是

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@wangzikun · 2025-07-20T12:35:30+00:00

确实要学会拒绝🙅

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@mrspointm · 2025-07-21T05:52:24+00:00

赞同

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