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「生活」母爱的两难
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所谓的母慈子孝是一种理想状态，在现实生活中与孩子之间的矛盾和冲突无法完全避免，做到波澜不惊好像对我来说太难了，虽然这段时间我已经在极力控制自己的情绪，耐心地跟她沟通交流。

有天晚上我给她放着助眠曲，给她讲睡前故事，她突然跟我说，妈妈，我有点想哭！我问她为啥呢，她说我好感动喔，妈妈今天好温柔喔~我内心的OS：我平时是有多凶啊，难不成真变成了她心中的母老虎麻麻。

这一切都在于她没有先犯错和越界，我和Sheya就这样和平共处了三天，直到前天下午放学回家，我跟她说6点半有钢琴课，她一下子情绪就不好了，跟我说今天不上去上课，想去玩轮滑，还没等我继续说完，她便大哭起来。

首先她轮滑鞋统一放在学校的，而且此刻已经放学了，钢琴课是每周固定时间，而想去玩是临时的决定，无论我怎么跟她说，她都不接受，弄得我火冒三丈，但我也尽量以平和的语气和她讲。

我说我让钢琴老师早点来，吃完饭我先联系老师看看还能不能去学校拿鞋子，这样上完课就能玩轮滑，她算是勉强接受，但情绪不高，这件事也就过去了。

昨天早上我一直在家备课，突然收到微信通知，提醒说10点有线上口语课，好吧，那赶紧打开平板上课。课程前半段还挺配合的，中途有点走神，需要时不时地提醒她，突然让我生气的一幕发生了，她把脚翘起来对着屏幕，这一举动很不尊重老师！！

等下课后，我跟她沟通，先是问她为什么要这做呢？她低着头不说话，我接着说这样做了老师会伤心的，因为看不到她可爱的小脸蛋，看到的是臭脚丫子呢。无论在哪里都要对别人尊重，这是最起码的规矩，何况别人还是长辈。

这又让我想起她吃饭坐姿的问题，总是喜欢歪着扭着坐，我直接在网上搜了个脊柱侧弯导致手术的视频给她看，这下给她吓得，又哭了，我说你自己敢做又不敢接受后果……

哎，现在但凡提及她的缺点，问她为什么这样做，她就只知道回答不知道，要么就是沉默，真是拿她没办法！当我的情绪还没过去时，她早就已经跑到房间打开小度听故事了。

而写下文章的此刻，我带着她在万达撸小动物（我已经备了大半天的课），真是尽量抽时间配带着她玩，安安静静玩耍的时候真的很乖。

这当妈就是一场修行，一边要守住原则生怕孩子走偏了，一边又怕自己急火攻心伤了她，尺度好难拿捏啊。

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@celeste413 · 
我家娃更加娃应该同龄😂同样的头疼，现在我都不纠正了，让她自己决定吧😏其实她很会汲取教训，出去爬山非要穿个长裤子，原因是以前别蚊子咬过，吃菠萝只吃一片，担心嘴麻等🥺事教人，几次就学会了😂
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@mrspointm ·
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是的 得按照她的节奏来才行 不然真的每天都要气安逸！
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@jingjing1616 · 
人精人精的😂
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@mrspointm · 
随时都可以和她吵起来🤣
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@love5200 · 
看了小朋友的大长腿，这未来的身高至少在173左右。。也是大高个美女。
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@mrspointm · 
我不希望她长太高 尤其是在四川 你懂的 哈哈
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@yumingli · 
小孩会慢慢自己长的
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@mrspointm · 
嗯嗯
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