「生活」霸道有时候可以转化为安全感 by mrspointm

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hive-105017 · @mrspointm · Apr 19 '21 (edited)

$21.32

「生活」霸道有时候可以转化为安全感

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霸道总裁这类角色是万千女性对另一半的憧憬，这个人经济实力强且对自己霸道，这种霸道不是欺负和压迫，是一种可以激发荷尔蒙的个性特征。
 
但是呢，所谓憧憬基本上就是和做梦没什么区别，因为现实生活中很难遇见这样的人，而且也很少有人体会过这种人到底适不适合恋爱结婚。
 
言归正传，今天想要说的是我家@mrpointp的“霸道”。
 
平时我总是喜欢指示他，也就是俗称的“使嘴”，我觉得这叫任性，这不叫霸道。虽然小P对我基本上是服从的，但他也有霸道的一面。
 
比如比较匆忙着急的时候，像以前孩子发烧感冒啥的，我们都很着急，人在这个时候总会做出比较事倍功半的决定和行为，但有时候小P会言辞凿凿的指令我怎么下一步怎么做。
 
刚开始的时候我问他为什么要这样做，用我说的种方式不好吗？但他不多解释什么，我也就只有按照他说的做，往往大部分他的决定是比较高效的。
 
时间长了我便不再疑惑什么，他做的决定我也就先做在想吧，或许是一种依赖心理，就像有人帮你洗衣服你就不想主动洗了。
 
这种霸道我想是生活必要的东西，它会转化为安全感，更重要的是它一点也不耽误平时我对他的指挥，哈哈。

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@cshin · Apr 20 '21

我是没啥主见的人，需要另一个直接给我意见的人😂

👍 peasuwarl2837

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@mrspointm · Apr 20 '21

我是在大事面前做不了主 超级没主见🤣

👍 cajj

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@emma-emma · Apr 19 '21

这根本是在放闪啦 😎
So sweet 🥰

👍 prinzsyfon

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@mrspointm · Apr 20 '21

🙈🙈

👍 triumphantdavid

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@hqy · Apr 19 '21

夫唱妇随！

👍 mohiuddinmukul

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@mrspointm · Apr 20 '21

$0.33

😁

👍 justyy, joshuagb

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