「生活」两性对于婚姻的看法 by mrspointm

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hive-105017 · @mrspointm · Oct 3 '21

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「生活」两性对于婚姻的看法

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最近表妹又因为结婚那些事情而感到烦恼不已，倒不是什么新鲜事，只是家里父母长辈还是觉得对方男生的家境一般又是外省人。

其实表妹的问题是反反复复的，我记得去年她父母基本上是默许了两个人在一起，但是今年怎么又...

昨天跟他们这对情侣一起吃饭聊天，才了解到我表妹是希望早点回川定居，并且尽快买房子，其他的也没什么要求，实际上买房也算不上什么要求，毕竟现在年轻人基本上都要买房结婚。

但是我感受到男生是比较尊重表妹的想法的，并且同意回川发展，只是觉得不想那么快速。

两个人的想法都没什么毛病，一个是希望早点稳定，另一个人怕尽快回川压力太大，主要是两地的工资差距不小，这边的房价也更高。

从根源上来说这是男方女方的思考出发点不一样，女方总是担心青春耗不起，要早点稳定算是给自己打基础，而男生觉得只要两个人在一起其他的都不用那么担心。

但是在这种事情上，我是觉得男生应该更多的为女生考虑，毕竟婚姻对于男性和女性的意义本身就不一样。

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@mao317 · Oct 4 '21

这是很多年轻人的通病，本质的原因在我看来还是不够深爱对方，如果爱，那么一定会优先考虑对方。

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@mrspointm · Oct 4 '21

我也有这种感觉

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