 都说“童言无忌”，那是因为孩童天真无邪，所说的话其实不需要太在意，但事实上往往孩子的话才是大实话。 孩子觉得一个女生长得漂亮那就是漂亮，当然，如果这个孩子的审美有问题那当我没说。 然而作为成年人的我们，早已没有了“童言无忌”这样的挡箭牌，说话做事都需要经过思考，所谓饭可以随便吃，但话不能随便说。 因此也就有了“情商”这样的衡量产物，会说话的人让听的人感觉舒服，既不难听也不会好听到变味。 可每当夜深人静的时候，只剩下自己和内心的交流，或许你会质问自己，你过得快乐吗？不快乐，为什么？是不是因为活得不真实？ 你要活得真实，也行，房贷不用换？结婚不花钱？养孩子不花钱？作为一个承担了家庭责任的人，我们就没办法做到百分百的真实。 你再讨厌一个客户你也得捧着他，再不喜欢某个同事也不能主动撕破脸，一般的朋友问你她身上的衣服好不好看，你通常都会说好看。 可怕的不是你在外面需要隐藏自己，而是回了家你还是要说违心话。父母关心你问你累不累，你说累但父母也帮不上忙，倒不如让他们省心。 在孩子面前，你一样需要做到强大，即便是表面的强大，这不仅仅是面子问题，而是父母对压力的承受能力会影响到孩子的承受能力，你是孩子的榜样。 没有活成自己想要的样子有太多原因，可能是能力不足、学识不够、运气不佳，但一蹶不振的人往往是输在了无法坚持。 如果你觉得说违心话恶心，那就想偏了，那些销售最会说话，我也很羡慕他们，业绩好的销售一个月领几万、十几万的工资。如果你无法改变一些现状，那倒不如去适应它。
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