「生活」记录参加第N场婚礼 by mrspointm

hive-105017 · @mrspointm · Jul 11 '24

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「生活」记录参加第N场婚礼

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大学毕业到现在，参加过婚礼已经数不胜数，有的是同学，有的是好友，有的是亲戚，婚礼的档次形式也很不一样，但是除了几场比较昂贵的婚礼以及草坪婚礼之外，大多数婚礼并不能让我印象深刻~~

看来看去，对于客人们来说婚礼婚宴都差不多，仪式感的情绪价值主要是由那两个小家庭去感受。参加的越多，越觉得无感，尤其是自己结婚后更是如此。


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点哥那边亲戚的婚礼其实我很少参加，因为大多数时候都与我的工作时间冲突。一般婚礼在12点左右进行，而我们下班时间大多临近12点，上课与其他工作不一样，总不能上到一半提前走。

有时候我也会小小担心，他们那边亲戚会不会觉得我太高冷，哈哈哈。


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这次是参加点哥表弟婚礼，一整天都在下雨，婆婆妈说结婚遇到下雨天，说明新人很小气，但以我们的了解，表弟可不是小气之人。

他们选择在婚礼堂举办仪式，这种婚礼堂费用较低且大气，唯一的弊端就是一个场景会让很多新人使用，有的人或许不太喜欢这种千篇一律的感觉。

婚礼仪式比较简单，唯一让我们感到小惊喜的是新郎的父亲（也就是点哥的姨夫）发言时出奇的流畅。因为一直以为他姨夫都是嘻嘻哈哈的一个人，讲话内容页过于接地气（喜欢带不文明字眼），但这次发言却讲得头头是道。

点哥那边的兄弟姐妹很多，一共十几个，大多数都已结婚，这些年轻人又有了下一代，真的要搞个家庭聚会，真是一屋子都站不下。

婚宴的举行，对一个家族来说不仅是见证新人幸福，也是聚会的好契机。爱打牌的人找到了搓麻将的机会，而七大姑八大姨更喜欢拉家常，一聊就是一下午，直到晚宴之后她们才意犹未尽地各回各家。

祝，表弟两口子新婚快乐！

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