「生活」都是幼小衔接惹的祸 by mrspointm

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hive-105017 · @mrspointm · Jul 12 '24

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「生活」都是幼小衔接惹的祸

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说起来还是挺矛盾的，作为家长，我一方面希望孩子健康开心就好，另一方面又很内卷，生怕自己的小孩做的比别人差，这就让我现阶段很焦虑。

今年9月Sheya就读大班了，9月前出生的她可以直接从大班过度到一年级，而大多数孩子都会先读学前班，学前班会提前教一年级的知识，这边有个挺出名的私立学前班，很多家长挤破头都要把孩子送去，并且说效果很好，一年级老师上课节奏快也跟得上。

可我不愿意再多读一年，明明岁数都到了就直接去小学了，那就意味着我在假期需要给她补幼小斜接的内容，于是趁着这个假期慢慢渗透一些，我们两母女在学习这件事上经常闹得不愉快，大部分原因在我，我辅导作业经常炸毛，总希望讲一遍她就能听懂，可能是要求太高了，而她太小了，不可能啥事都一点就通。


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我给她制定了7月暑假计划，每周一至周五下午去课外班学画画，每周六日上午爵士舞，其余时间我安排的大多是文化课，比如当天如果有口语课，我就会取消自然拼读教学，免得一天负担太重，数学主要是让她练习用描红本规范写数字，以及教10以内的加减法和数字分解，反复操练，语文重点是陪她绘本阅读《神奇的校车》和古诗，不打算教她拼音，怕和英文字母搞混淆的，还是开学交给老师负责~~


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这个计划仅仅才开始了几天，我就明显感觉到很心累，总是急于求成，我的急性子遇上她的慢性子真的很不合拍，经常答不上来就上头，开始情绪爆发，完全控制不住，而她就只会沉默，无限拖延时间...

等哪天冷静下来想想又无比后悔，我这不是在鸡娃吗？假期轻松一点不好吗，而且她中班才上完，我就开始要求她做幼小斜接，是有点拔苗助长，哎！

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@acactus1013 · Jul 13 '24

哇 这个安排表 好牛

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@mrspointm · Jul 13 '24

结果实行起来火冒三丈

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@jychbetter · Jul 13 '24

点太太伟大的母爱，体现到鸡娃上了，哈
顺其自然就好

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@mrspointm · Jul 14 '24

估计她可讨厌我了 天天念叨学习 o(╯□╰)o

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@love5200 · Jul 13 '24

放假啦，让小朋友好好玩乐玩乐😂

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@mrspointm · Jul 13 '24

今天给她放了假

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