 我家女儿八个月了，有一天我忽然发现我给她买的衣服粉红色居多，其实我在买的时候也并没有想太多，就想着“她是女生”，这个衣服也挺好看，于是就下单了。 昨天我和 @mrpointp以及我婆婆在讨论我给孩子买的新衣服，是各种纯色的短袖，婆婆忽然说了一句：还是要给Sheya买带花花的衣服，这种衣服偏中性化。 我明白她这句话的言外之意，是想表达要在这个时候帮助孩子树立自然的性别意识，当然，我并不反对这样的做法。 其实我婆婆这种强烈的意识也是有其原因的，因为某个亲戚的孩子从儿童时期就喜欢穿中性化的衣服，如今二十几岁了，仍然是假小子的打扮，没结婚，没谈恋爱。 且不说性取向，但穿着打扮有时候的确客观地影响一个人的情感发展，亲戚孩子的情感现状也确实很让长辈们担忧。 但我依然不赞同颜色、爱好、朋友圈就一定会影响一个人性别意识乃至性取向的说法。举例那些为国争光的女性体育健将，她们在力量方面胜过部分男人，穿着可能也不那么有女人味，但这并不能说明任何问题。 我们不应该以“性别差异”这个理由阻止孩子拥有自己的喜好，甚至阻止孩子的合理选择。假如我的女儿以后想学篮球、跆拳道、滑板，只要是正向的爱好，我都支持。 也许有些人会不理解，就算不让女孩打篮球又会怎样？我想说的是，一个人兴趣爱好可能是天生的，比如也有男生对网游毫无兴趣，也有女生对粉色毫不感冒，反观，做自己感兴趣的事对于孩子的天赋发掘和潜力激发非常重要。 至于“粉红色口罩”，个人认为这根本不应该被嘲笑，喜欢粉色的男生一大把，但这也根本不能说明什么。
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