<center></center> <a href="https://pixabay.com/zh/illustrations/yada-yada-board-insignificance-1432921/">Source</a> 不知道这句话的出自哪里，我是在电视剧《康熙王朝》中康熙一角嘴中听到的，这句话太经典了。 剧中，康熙皇帝开启了“风闻言事”的参奏规则，意思是大臣A可以随意参大臣B一本，无论是否据实都不予以惩罚，这样的政策就是想消除臣子因畏惧皇权之下的一团和气。 果然，大量的臣子开始互相弹劾，有的据实，有的子虚乌有，此时对于康熙皇帝最重要的不是真相，而是这样的现状让他难受，这说明当朝的内患一点也不轻。 他说了一句话：谁人背后不说人，谁人背后无人说。 这句话让我联想到今天的社会，似乎也让这句话给套住了。从小学开始，很多人就学会了背后说同学的话，某某人多少天没洗澡、某某同学总是抄作业… 稍微长大一点，到了高中和大学，人们就更喜欢背后说人，只不过说的东西没那么幼稚了。比如某某同学家中有长辈是做大生意的，某某同学周六和谁约会了等等。 参加工作后这种现象就更多了，同事之间互相猜忌、说闲话，甚至可能会凭空捏造一些风言风语，所以这就是为什么和同事交心很难，因为利益至上。 虽然这是常见现象，但我还是一点也不赞同背后说人，总喜欢背后议论别人的人，其本身的性格也不会受太多人待见，时间一长也不会被人信任。 所谓言多必失，别人说我权当建议采纳，我仍不愿意在背后说人，做一个敞亮的人多好。
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>谁人背后不说人，谁人背后无人说。 >所谓言多必失，别人说我权当建议采纳，我仍不愿意在背后说人，做一个敞亮的人多好。 很多时候真的是，说多错多，不如不说。即使是好心相劝，也会适得其反。
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同意 我觉得有些东西说了也没有太大意思
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@tipu curate 3
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<a href="https://tipu.online/hive_curator?mrspointm" target="_blank">Upvoted 👌</a> (Mana: 0/28)
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| root_title | 「生活」谁人背后不说人，谁人背后无人说 |
| beneficiaries | [] |
| max_accepted_payout | 1,000,000.000 HBD |
| percent_hbd | 10,000 |
| post_id | 98,068,885 |
| net_rshares | 0 |
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