Sorry to here of another family being pawned by the eugenicists. They would appreciate it if you would quit  reproducing for population control - at least, that's their story & they're sticking to it. Personally, I think they are just a bunch of sick, sadistic bastards but who am I to judge?

Speech from 1969 via Planned Parenthood:

"Dr. Day said sex will be separated from marriage and reproduction ( i.e. "sexual liberation") to break up the family and reduce population. Abortion, divorce, promiscuity and homosexuality will be made socially acceptable. Gender-neutered and promiscuous, fewer people are able to bond permanently with a member of the opposite sex for the purpose of procreation. 

He said that there are always two reasons for anything the Illuminati do: the pretext which makes it palatable to the gullible public and the real reason. Thus, we are being turned into homosexuals in the name of "women's and gay rights." 

 "Homosexuals will be given permission to act out. Everyone including the elderly will be encouraged to have sex. It will be brought out into the open. Anything goes." [The "Stonewall Riots" which unleashed the "gay rights" movement, took place three months later.] The ultimate goal is to have sex without reproduction. Reproduction without sex will occur in laboratories. Family size will be limited as in China."

http://henrymakow.com/confirmedrockefeller_plan_to_g.html#sthash.WGHKfOcp.dpuf

Paper written in 1930 on control over individuals by the state & how it relates to the family:

"This applies in particular to the family relations. A man's part in the care of children is little more than financial, and his financial obligations will be enforced by the law if necessary, so that they make little demand upon his personal sense of duty. A woman, if she is vigorous and intelligent, is likely to feel that the truncated maternal duties remaining to her are inadequate as a career, the more so as most of them can be performed more scientifically by experts. This feeling would operate much more widely but for the lingering feeling on the part of men that they like their wives to be financially dependent upon them. This is, however, a kind of feeling surviving from an earlier age; it is already much weakened and likely to disappear before very long.

All these developments have diminished the reasons which led people to avoid divorce. As divorce becomes more frequent and more easy the family is still further weakened, since in effect it usually results in a child having only one parent.

For all these and other reasons set forth in Dr. Watson's contribution, it seems inevitable, for good or evil, that the family as a unit should more and more fade away, leaving no group to interpose its authority between the individual and the State."

http://www.utilitarian.org/texts/newgeneration.html

"Gloria Steinem - How The CIA
Used Feminism To Destabilize Society"

"In the 1960´s, the elite media invented second-wave feminism as part of the elite agenda to dismantle civilization and create a New World Order." 

http://www.rense.com/general21/hw.htm

Of course, no one likes to hear that their personal relationships were intentionally sabotaged by a group of social engineering think tanks & psychological propagandists: sorry.

A very good read, thank you! I'm printing this and giving it to a good friend of mine at lunch Saturday.

everything happen have a reason. we need to accept it always. nice post

Some very good advice. I'm currently going through break-up with my girlfriend of 4 years. Broke up a month ago but still living in a same flat which most certainly doesn't help  and kind of makes it worse to see a person you have strong feelings for. 
Anyway my stress and anxiety was to much to handle for myself. I decided to seek some knowledge. I started to read a book 
"How to Learn Life's Lessons and Become Life's Favorite" Alexander Sviyash Ph.D. English version (i'm reading in Lithuanian) 
  Already feel much better, I accept the world the way it is and with every event in our life we need to see and understand what universe want from us. I highly recommend this book to anyone who wants to have peace within or just going through a difficult time.  In the end everything will be fine, if not it's not the end.

One of the worst things a parent can do is talk in a negative manner about the child's other parent. The child is half that person and the child might either resent you or feel alienated.

I recently went through a very amicable split after an 8 year relationship.  I received a lot of advise from my friends who had went through divorces.  The common theme was always ... think about the value of any item your partner would like to take - and don't sweat the small stuff.    I shrugged it off - we were very amicable. (Better friends after the split than we were in the relationship)

The advise came back to me on the day she moved out.  We had everything packed and ready to go.  She then went through the spice rack (I was the person who cooked in the house).   Of all the things, this was what bothered me... Why was she taking MY spices.   Then, I paused, took a deep breath, realized that it was about $20 of ground spices that were likely a year old and should be replaced anyways.

Icecream and chocolate can help indeed :) I discovered another superhero : garderning! I just published it 2 minutes ago : https://steemit.com/life/@herverisson/how-a-breakup-helped-me-to-realize-the-values-of-plants-and-gardening  I just came across your post and think they complement each other quite well. Cheers!

This is very helpful!

It's no big deal!!   With me to meet you.

I actually started writing.  Sometimes, like when I was going thru my divorce, you don't have anyone that understands.
My friends really tried but they had never been thru it themselves so they had no idea how I was really feeling.
I found that writing out my feelings, even sometimes sharing them as I have done here, helps to not only get encouragement from others, but it may reach them so they know they are not alone in their feelings.

No contact really does work wonders... for both parties

There are things that may hurt on its initial occurence but is beneficial in the long run. Most of the time if not all the time, everything happens for a reason and that reason is always on the good side. You may feel the pain of course because we are humans but that will teach us something that we could not have learn in the absence of that painful experience.

Good advice,  I broke up with my boyfriend years ago it broke my heart the way he did it but felt better when he cane round a few weeks later asking if we could try again  I wasnt going to give him a second chance but thankfully There were no kids involved.  Once you get yourself over it go out treat yourself to a brand new hairstyle and make over to make yourself feel great again

Hey @msgivings. Unfortunately I couldn't find a way to contact you privately.

I'd like to make a guest post in your blog which goes into relationships and dating category. Would it be possible for you to contact me to check out an article I wrote and perhaps publish it in your blog if you like it?

maxlewski@gmail.com

Find the good in every situation. Accept it as a gift.  It happened for a reason and now you are destined for another journey.  Later you may look back and see why it happened and discoverer it was the best thing that could have ever happened to you.

Thanks for the tips!

Just realize why you broke up. There must be a reason. If the relationship was not succesful from the start, don't feel down, it would have ended anyway eventually. If the relationship only had a small drawdown, then it might still be salvageable.

Good quality post.  Thank you.  I went through a divorce and i lived on my bicycle.  That and a few friends and my  new job helped me so much.

I could relate to your article, I also just wanted to thank you for following me.

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Thank you for the article.  Divorced over 4 years ago and still adjusting emotionally.

you forgot to mention icecream and chocolate, the real superheroes after a breakup.

Great post upvote and a follow from me 💚

Love the advise. Dont wish anyone to go through this but if this is the case you provided with with some positivism! Thank you