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「Vicky's Life」生活碎片｜从朝颜联想起转瞬即逝却绚烂无比的爱情💓 by nostalgic1212

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依然是前几日散步途中拍到的花，非常常见的牵牛花。说来有些乌龙，看到她的时候我脑中想起的是多年前看过的一部名为《昼颜》的日剧，无端端的想到**夕颜**二字。

在写这篇文章标题的时候，为保准确性检索了夕颜是什么话，意外发现居然搞错了。**夕颜**指的是葫芦花，而牵牛花的别名是**朝颜**，花语倒是很接近的。

说到朝颜的**转瞬即逝的绚烂**花语，我很难不想到爱情。


之前刷到过十年爱情出轨视频，听着那个女生歇斯底里的怒吼，着实让人唏嘘不已。车里坐着新欢，男方漠然的态度，那辆车甚至还是女方买的。

充斥在互联网中关于女子孕期、分娩、哺乳期男性漠视乃至家暴的新闻，每每评论区都会看到大量「不谈恋爱最好」抑或是「不结婚保平安」的评论。

作为坚定的不婚不育（现在是没法孕）的人，我对爱情本质上是不信任的。这不仅仅源自我的原生家庭和周遭，也是因为过去110指挥中心的工作让我看了太多婚恋纠纷。

永恒的爱情是不存在的，剩下的是责任心和道德感。


前阵子有个许久不联系的朋友突然说结婚了，聊起来他总有些郁郁寡欢的味道。问他为何如此仓促，对方支支吾吾半天，不是家人逼迫却处处透着无奈。

这样的爱情会牢固婚姻会持久么？我觉得是不会的，不然这个朋友也不会在交友网站上活跃。类似soul之类的交友网站上，也的确活跃着很多有恋人/配偶的人。

他们是什么心思，昭然若揭。

你觉得爱情是历久弥新还是转瞬即逝呢？给我留言叭🖊️


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