「Vicky's 影评」《我告诉你女孩子一生都要害怕些什么》：作为女性，我们正在害怕些什么，我们应该害怕吗？ by nostalgic1212

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「Vicky's 影评」《我告诉你女孩子一生都要害怕些什么》：作为女性，我们正在害怕些什么，我们应该害怕吗？

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**文/冰冰**

“你可以教孩子防备陌生人，提高警惕，但是不能让她怕穿碎花裙子，不然要我们干什么用的？

by Priest 《默读》

1月3日晚，ID为@窗帘它挡不住寒气的微博用户，发布了一则名为《我告诉你女孩子一生都要害怕些什么》的视频短片。

制作团队们第一时间进行转发，之后粉丝和路人们纷纷加入到转发和讨论的队伍中去。

截止到目前为止，该条微博转发量达到了24万次，用户留言点赞量超过40万。

随着视频的扩散，这个数字还在继续上升中。

遗憾的是，歌曲在网易云音乐和B站上，在上传后2小时内就下架了。目前视频在微博上还存留，网友们纷纷表示已缓存该短片。

我在写下这些文字的时候，其实并不确定读者们是否能看到这篇文章…

「能力摆在那里，何必拿长相说事」

在很多自媒体和主流媒体上，我们时不时会看到「美女外交官」等博人眼球的字眼。似乎人家勤学苦读了N年，倒是比不上这一身好皮囊。

在男女平等大旗都高举了N年的2020年，性别在职场中的区别待遇依然显而易见。

不信，去看看公司/单位管理层的男女性别比例吧。

女性在职场中，即使爬到了高位，也会被人指指点点称其是“睡”上去了。即便做出了什么成绩，也容易被一笔带过甚至功劳归于男性同事。

当女性工作上出了差错，等待她们的大多是“女人就是女人”、“就说事情不能交给女人去做”、“女人就是头发长见识短”、“女人就该在家带孩子，出来工作凑什么热闹”。

…

呵呵，直男癌们！

**推荐影片：《Live》、《男人要自爱》、《找到你》**

（The End）

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@angelina6688 · Jan 13 '20

现在社会说是男女平等，但是不平等的地方还是太多了，很多时候到了女生就双标了

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@nostalgic1212 · Jan 13 '20

這個短片看得我背後發涼⋯現在的小女孩要平安長大，真的太難了

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@annzhao · Jan 13 '20

@tipu curate 

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@nostalgic1212 · Jan 13 '20

謝謝支持❤️

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@tipu · Jan 13 '20

<a href="https://tipu.online/curator?annzhao" target="_blank">Upvoted &#128076;</a> (Mana: 5/10 - <a href="https://steemit.com/steem/@tipu/tipu-curate-project-update-recharging-curation-mana" target="_blank">need recharge</a>?)

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@annzhao · Jan 13 '20

可怕的性别歧视😓

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@cnbuddy · Jan 13 '20

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👍 justyy, dailystats, dailychina, superbing, turtlegraphics, witnesstools, ilovecoding, steemfuckeos, happyukgo, dailyfortune, justsoso, cplusplus

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@steemitboard · Jan 13 '20

Congratulations @nostalgic1212! You have completed the following achievement on the Steem blockchain and have been rewarded with new badge(s) :

<table><tr><td><img src="https://steemitimages.com/60x60/http://steemitboard.com/img/notifications/postallweek.png"></td><td>You published a post every day of the week</td></tr>
</table>

<sub>_You can view [your badges on your Steem Board](https://steemitboard.com/@nostalgic1212) and compare to others on the [Steem Ranking](https://steemitboard.com/ranking/index.php?name=nostalgic1212)_</sub>
<sub>_If you no longer want to receive notifications, reply to this comment with the word_ `STOP`</sub>


To support your work, I also upvoted your post!


###### [Vote for @Steemitboard as a witness](https://v2.steemconnect.com/sign/account-witness-vote?witness=steemitboard&approve=1) to get one more award and increased upvotes!

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@team-cn · Jan 13 '20

感谢代理101.66SP 给team-cn! 由于你使用CN作为你的首标签，额外获得2%点赞！ 你的帖子获得team-cn 10% 点赞！(如果不想看到这个回复，请回复“取消”)

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