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「Vicky's Life」生活碎片｜如何跟一只INTP成为朋友呢？本INFJ绿老头表示…还在摸索中！ by nostalgic1212

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「Vicky's Life」生活碎片｜如何跟一只INTP成为朋友呢？本INFJ绿老头表示…还在摸索中！
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图片是之前跟麻麻在小麦田里拍的啦，那组我比较满意就拿来先发掉了。这组我拍的不算太合心意，但抱着拍都拍了就要发出来的念头，最后也没舍得delete掉。

尝试了些小红书看到的拍照角度，总的来说还可以，就是前面的杂草有点毁构图。我还是不太擅长面对镜头，修图的风格还有些糖水片的嫌疑，图片故事感还不够足。

最近两个月想到拍好多照片，一方面是因为想留下一些好看的自己，另一方面是最近认识了新的朋友A。A是个很有趣的人，爱好是摄影，我就想有机会可以交流看看。


A是我原单位的软件维护人员，以前觉得他挺好说话的，现在想来只是人在职场里的保护色而已。因为上赛季带着我一起上分，聊得也就比过去几年多得多。

听他吐槽过几回前同事坑他的事，从绿老头的我的角度出发，先安抚给情绪价值再给出具体解决方法。我觉得要让人打消对人的失望，最好的办法就是做个靠谱的朋友。

也许是聊得有些多，作为变色龙的INFJ居然最近一次测出了INTP的结果。内向和直觉型选手我不反驳，近一年半越发从感情向理性过度，我一度怀疑从F变T了。


现在想来我不是变成T了，而是从低阶F变成了高阶F罢了。关于从J变成P这点，我觉得还是INFJ的被动技能——我可以随心所欲改变计划，但内核应该是J不会变。

为了交这个朋友，我花了好多时间去了解这个我过去完全不了解的人格。我发现A不喜欢聊日常，抑郁找了很多强逻辑或是比较有趣的话题来聊天，也及时给予肯定。

我们从选择的十字路口聊到平时世界和时光机，也会关于猫咪会不会听懂人话展开辩论，有时候也会闲聊“如果可以穿越对方想去什么时代”，看得出对方知识储备很多。

至于能不能成为朋友，只能用时间来证明啦👀


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