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为人处事:宜心平气和,忌妄下结论 by oflyhigh

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· @oflyhigh ·
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为人处事:宜心平气和,忌妄下结论
我的一个朋友和我讲述了一件颇有意思的事情。

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# 事例一

她卖出部分BTS,然后从鼓鼓钱包提现bitCNY,总价值约1W 人民币。在鼓鼓上找了一个手续费还算合理的承兑商,就提交上去,过一会看显示承兑商已转账,然后电话语音查了一下最近一笔到账,果然已经到账,就马上给确认,之后就去忙其它事情了。

过了一会电话铃声想起,但是恰巧想了几声,电话就没电了,因为平时什么卖房的、放贷款的、卖保险的电话颇多,她也没当一回事,就放一边充电,过几分钟后,他把电话开机,结果发现收到一条新短信:

>**你好,鼓鼓你的提现我们错转成了两笔,请你把多余的钱转回来,关机是解决不了问题的,通过平台能查到你包括身份和电话在内的所有信息,这种钱你吞不下去的,谢谢你的配合,否则第一报警,第二通过收账公司上门追收。**

我朋友比较晕,这是哪跟哪啊,过了一小会,电话又响起,然后对方巴拉巴拉说是转重复了,让还回去。挂了电话后,我朋友又查了一下,果然到账了两笔,这不义之财当然不能吞了,但是她收钱的这个卡没开通转账功能,于是又打电话给对方,让对方加她的微信,**她从微信和支付宝一起给对方凑够这笔“债务”**,还了回去。

之后,她和我说起这事,并转发了短信内容给我瞧,我听后比较愤慨,拿报警和收账公司威胁谁那?我和她说,要是我处理这件事,就告诉对方我正在春节休假,等初八上班再给转账!警察也不能不让我休假吧,讨债公司也要休息吧?况且我本就没偷没抢,怕谁呀。我朋友说算了,大过年的,别给人添堵了,再说还回去除了麻烦点,也不损失啥。晕,她倒是好人一个,我白愤慨了。

# 事例二

我不由得想起我也遇到过一次承兑商多转钱给我,对方打电话过来,很客气的和我说,**我这边不小心转错账了,您看看能不能方便的时候查一下?万分感激!”**

我查了一下,果然多赚了一些,然后我加了对方微信,还了回去,对了收钱后万分感激,并且发过来一个6.66的红包。虽然6.66不多,但是让我还是很高兴,心中暗赞这人比较会做事。

# 事例三

我又想起很久以前STEEM上发生的一件事,一人错转了数百个STEEM到别人账户,然后发了N个0.001的转账联系对方,让还钱,刚开始还算客气,后来有些他的朋友一起帮忙声援,就有些污言秽语了。

可是收到钱的这个账户,并不是很活跃,过了好久才看到对方的转账,以及各种或哀求或谩骂的留言,不过这人比较大气,也没说什么废话,直接把收到的钱还给对方了。


# 结论

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我讲了这么多事例,就是建议大家同时也是警醒自己,为人处事,要心平气和的处理问题,不要妄下结论。你一个坏人的帽子扣过来,或者污言秽语冒出来,一旦遇到我这样小气的人,就难免会吃一些苦头。遇到我的那个善良的朋友,或者示例三中的那个STEEM用户,是你的福气,但是这种福气可是可遇而不可求的,所以还是多学学事例二中的老板吧。

当然,在这方面,我做得也不是很好,所以写下了也算是警醒自己吧。另外,我也要向我的那个善良的朋友以及事例三中的那个大气的STEEM用户学习,小气的毛病该改改啦!

**对方做事是否地道是对方的事,我们做好自己就可以了!😀**
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@ace108 ·
哈哈,我也转错多给别人。还好不是很多所以就当不用找了。
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@afrin12 ·
nice post.. Thanks for giving the news.. I like your post very much.. Keep it up.. Stay blessed be happy.. Thank you..
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@bestmz ·
其实我想到的是鼓鼓虽然方便,但是的确会泄露用户资料,如果被人获取了手机号,虽然未必有什么经济损失,但每天接广告电话也是挺头疼的事。现在有手机小号功能,可以申请个小号作为交易联系方式。
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@blacklei ·
一着急就容易乱来
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@catwomanteresa ·
個性急的我,可能會想要立刻處理,不過還是會注意措詞,畢竟很多情況都有可能發生,我盡量不要先有預設立場。
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@chann ·
这年头,自己弄错了先找个人发怒,是啥个理儿?
还是你的事例二的人地道:客气请求,事后答谢。- 这样才会让大家愿意做善事!
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@deanliu ·
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>小气的毛病该改改啦!

來,我幫你。快!打個10 SBD到我這裡。
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@oflyhigh ·
你应该说
>我,始皇帝,打钱!

这样多霸气
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@deepthinking ·
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前几天在鼓鼓钱包买了点币,遇到一个良心的承兑商。当时我脑子也是抽了,没问流程直接支付宝转账2k给承兑商了,结果回平台一看,根本没有这笔交易,想找客服在app里也没找到,心想这钱算是回不来了,没按流程走,找谁也没用,认栽吧。后来还是不甘心,私聊了承兑商,本以为是肉包子打狗,他不会理我,没想到他居然回我了,并且爽快地给我的账户充值。当时心里舒坦了很多,向他道了谢,后面买币也是找的他,就当是回报了。
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@fazlehassan ·
I do not understand your language but I think you have made a great post...... I have been waiting for your next post
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@habib-mahzar ·
May I ask for up vote from you ??
I really expect that from you.
thank you
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@hannahwu ·
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😶以我这脾气,如果对方脾气差,最起码得骂回去才还给他吧😄
甩他脸上,老子欠你这几毛钱么?!
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@oflyhigh ·
也甩我脸上点钱好吗?
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@hannahwu ·
😏先转来两笔呀,我保证会还的。
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@hhjjkk ·
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转错账的人心里着急,也很正常,但是最好在没弄清楚状况之前,不要就恶语相向。可能别人事先也想着要还给你,但是无缘无故就遭到了一通骂,如果是个脾气火爆的人,估计转错的账是不但不会还回去,还可能会说你活该。有事咱们和和气气好好说,也许会有意想不到的事情发生呢,比如说,经过此次错账事件,双方因此建立起了革命性友谊。再戏剧性一点,这次你转错账他收到了,没准下次他转错账就被你收到了,这也不是不可能的哟,哈哈
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@hhjjkk ·
你们说会不会有这样的事发生:这次他转错账被别人收到了,别人不还,然后互怼了起来;下次别人转错账却他收到了,然后,嘿嘿,又怼了起来,这就好玩了,哇咔咔。。咳咳,是不是有点邪恶了
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@jesusj1 ·
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@kadishakho ·
对。非常同意你的想法 最重要的是做好自己的本分!
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@laila08 ·
Great post.
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@leftbank ·
$0.34
赞心平气和。其实经历的事多了,思考多了,自然心就静了。
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@linda65 ·
我觉得还是和和气气的好办事,越是碰上不客气的,我越是想刁难几天。
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@liwen12345 ·
对的,也许这就是为什么现在”佛系“这么流行了,因为浮躁的人太多了:)
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@mazidoank ·
Awesome pictures
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@mrspointm ·
$0.34
我之前也是转给block trades没输入memo 就转了,后来留言,他很快就转过来了👍
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@nomita ·
great writing...agree with you.
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@nostalgic1212 ·
$0.68
看到这个,突然想起就在年前的一件小事。
有天回家,我爸很着急的和我说,他今天接到一个女的电话,说支付宝错转了一笔钱给他,让他退回去。
我爸说:“我给她解释了,这个支付宝是我女儿帮我注册的,我连看余额在哪里都不知道。”但是对方仍然不依不饶的,又是电话又是短信,说支付宝不会看,那就加微信退钱。
老爷子当然是没搭理,就简短地说,如果错了,不会占着不还的,但是我要下班回家让女儿帮忙看下。
我一看,就三百块不到,看对方的消息,各种难听的话都有。但是不义之财不能要,所以我给对方打电话,想问她是退回打错过来的账户,还是她电话对应的账户,对方电话一直不接。最后我按照她电话对应的账户退回去了,给她发了已转账的消息,并且将交易记录截图,让我父亲起码保存一个月。
直到最后,对方都没有说一句“谢谢”。
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@rea ·
$0.34
排排坐来听O哥讲故事,呵呵。
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@oflyhigh ·
哇咔咔,带小板凳了吗?
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@rikineng ·
vote and follow @rikineng
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@rileyge ·
$0.35
之前好像看过冷医生@coldhair写的文章,说真正的大公司都是把顾客往好的方面想,只是那些不成熟的小公司才会觉得顾客总是想骗他的钱。

同理,做人也一样吧,哈哈。。。看来我们都有待提高呢。。。
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@steembr ·
Postingan anda bagus...anda sangat jenius . terimakasih telah berbagi post.
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@tumutanzi · (edited)
$1.80
听O哥聊人生,日进一斗~哈哈。祝O哥狗年旺旺。
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@oflyhigh ·
谢谢坛子
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@tumutanzi ·
$2.39
O哥这坚持劲是我们应该学习的
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@weisheng167388 ·
Do not judge people,这些年越来越觉得这句话有道理,没有深入接触,不问青红皂白,随意给别人贴标签,都是错误的做法,尤其是别人这么对待自己的时候,更能深切体会到。

文中几个例子,所幸都有不错的结果,但明显第二个让双方都舒心愉快,因为过程中没有随意judge别人,尤其是不把别人当坏人。
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@xiaohui ·
$0.65
看来半天,原来是鼓鼓钱包的软文。 :)
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@oflyhigh ·
我擦,我写得这么隐蔽,都被你发现了
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@zainuddinibrahim ·
Postingan yang bagus ...
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