最近发生了几起和借钱有关的事情,并且几件八杆子打不着的事情之前竟然有一些神奇的关联,我给列位看官分享一下。 ![image.png](https://images.hive.blog/DQmcQRTRp38CKyJa5MN5YLfeZHvgH9gTiamP1j21hcGuVXZ/image.png) (图源 :[pixabay](https://pixabay.com/)) # 事情一 第一件事情,是我大学寝室好友的爱人在朋友圈转发了一篇文章,大意是一个女人借给了闺蜜60W,然后一直要不回来,甚至下跪恳求只还50W都不可以。然后我看我的好友在下边回复了一句:“都怪我😭”。 这就引发了我的好奇心,难道这篇文章中借钱出去的女人是我好友的爱人?于是和朋友聊了几句,所幸的是朋友爱人不是文章中的主人公,不幸的是朋友爱人也借出去几十万,现在死活要不回来。 我给好友出主意,实在要不回来可以去起诉啊,毕竟现在法制社会,还怕不还钱吗?朋友回答:“可不是去起诉了嘛,然而对方死了心的不还钱,也没有资产可以执行,没办法了”。我除了安慰朋友几句外,也没法多说啥了。 这事让我不由地思索,能借出去几十万,大概也是非常铁的朋友或者闺蜜了,然而一旦出现这样的情况不但朋友/闺蜜做不成,钱也打了水漂。所以借钱出去一定要谨慎小心啊。 # 事情二 然而第二天,我就接到我另外一个朋友的电话,开口要借10多万,说是要买房,可能是因为征信什么的他不能有欠款啥的,要先用一些钱过一下流程,然后不到1个月就能还我。 这可难住了我,其实要说和这个朋友的交情,借十多万过去也没啥大了不得的,以前有次他公司周转有问题,我也曾借给过他十多万块钱,大概一个月后也愉快地还钱了。 况且这个朋友有好几个公司,名下至少已经有8-10套房产,所以借钱跑路的概率还真就不大,毕竟公司就不说了,那么多房产一时半会也跑不了啊。😀 可是最近这个一两个月内,我也有一项计划的开销,大概要几十万的样子,如果借他十多万,到时候我可能就有十多万的豁口,会是个麻烦事,虽然朋友保证一个月内肯定归还,我还是有点担心,于是就和他说了我的情况,婉言拒绝了。 拒绝了朋友,感觉万分愧对他,于是向他表示歉意不说,还承诺等疫情过去,安全的时候请他吃大餐,这样总算觉得不那么尴尬了。 不过尴尬的是,时隔两三天,朋友又打过来两次电话,大意是能借到的都借了,还差这么十多万的缺口,要我帮他补上。我这才知道,原来他差的不止是十多万啊。 可是我这边真的不方便啊,朋友又建议我给他刷信用卡,可是刷信用卡是要还的啊,并且最近招行去掉了信用卡的临时额度,现在的额度我将将够用而已。 朋友又建议我把要用的钱先借给他,他用后马上还我,并且信誓旦旦保证用几天就还。可是还有个问题,我的钱基本上都在股票、基金、黄金、币市中存着呢,如果自己用,割肉也就罢了,给别人用割自己的肉,总觉得怪怪的。 我把的两股票账户发给我朋友看,他看了我两个股票账户一个盈利负20多万,另一个盈利负7万多,他表示不敢找我借钱了,赔偿不起我的损失。 # 事情三 这事就算过去了,不过当天晚上我刷朋友圈的时候看到另外一个和这个朋友没交集的朋友发了一条圈: >张嘴借钱的人都咋想的啊,一个个的资产都过千万的人也和我借钱,都怎么想的啊,我就是个卖车的,知道刮着一天的柳絮毛毛,我在外面站一天眯了多少次眼睛吗,老板看我顺眼还行,有时看我不顺眼就和你拉拉脸知道啥滋味吗?还有我过生日是你们给我买蛋糕,买榴莲,发红包送祝福了吗,如果没有,为啥和我借钱啊,不借就像对不起你们是的。你们知道买房子在那增值,别人就不知道吗? 哈哈哈,如果不是确定这两个朋友不认识,我都觉得我那个朋友管她借钱了呢。 ![image.png](https://images.hive.blog/DQmX6cjhfRKhJFNCtTX2QkAgAvk4NcQsXw4FCjTfxW1WmYm/image.png) (图源 :[pixabay](https://pixabay.com/)) 原本互不相干的三件事,但是因为都和借钱有关,竟然奇妙的关联到了一起,回想起来好像这三件事情组团发生的一样。第一件事先打个预防针,再发生第二件事,第三件事再做一个结论。 那么,如果朋友借钱,你会怎么办呢?如果自己也要用到钱而没法借出,怎样拒绝才能避免尴尬呢?😅 还有你遇到过借钱出去要不回来的情况嘛?
author | oflyhigh |
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voter | weight | wgt% | rshares | pct | time |
---|---|---|---|---|---|
abit | 0 | 26,839,553,765,748 | 100% | ||
adm | 0 | 34,412,930,721,458 | 100% | ||
gerber | 0 | 244,190,751,666 | 3.5% | ||
daan | 0 | 57,828,387,854 | 8% | ||
ezzy | 0 | 268,901,215,330 | 3.5% | ||
livingfree | 0 | 121,083,304,815 | 1% | ||
fundurian | 0 | 143,603,154,867 | 94% | ||
arcange | 0 | 81,305,585,511 | 3% | ||
fiveboringgames | 0 | 35,356,274,008 | 8% | ||
deanliu | 0 | 2,667,918,381,219 | 100% | ||
exyle | 0 | 1,202,909,535,205 | 12% | ||
raphaelle | 0 | 2,344,449,512 | 3% | ||
lemooljiang | 0 | 544,129,854,713 | 88% | ||
ace108 | 0 | 641,470,125,384 | 26% | ||
laoyao | 0 | 47,159,980,364 | 100% | ||
somebody | 0 | 8,718,876,811 | 100% | ||
skysunny | 0 | 113,535,360 | 88% | ||
midnightoil | 0 | 165,494,994,349 | 100% | ||
xiaohui | 0 | 936,452,379,744 | 100% | ||
jphamer1 | 0 | 3,612,361,070,818 | 100% | ||
oflyhigh | 0 | 4,993,372,510,401 | 100% | ||
yulan | 0 | 16,734,987,097 | 100% | ||
nextgen622 | 0 | 1,361,982,794,931 | 100% | ||
helene | 0 | 1,231,936,667,693 | 100% | ||
ffcrossculture | 0 | 306,345,736,261 | 100% | ||
ethansteem | 0 | 27,168,946,627 | 100% | ||
sweetsssj | 0 | 15,393,044,339,564 | 40% | ||
netaterra | 0 | 359,503,246,442 | 16% | ||
someguy123 | 0 | 50,335,947,194 | 3.5% | ||
ebargains | 0 | 2,564,688,008 | 10% | ||
bestofreddit | 0 | 8,799,073,136 | 10% | ||
ssekulji | 0 | 17,787,914,537 | 100% | ||
judasp | 0 | 401,456,827,304 | 100% | ||
devilwsy | 0 | 3,683,634,328 | 100% | ||
janiceting | 0 | 3,698,912,995 | 100% | ||
timool | 0 | 695,070,716 | 88% | ||
lucknie | 0 | 16,620,413,169 | 88% | ||
carrotliu | 0 | 0 | 88% | ||
dumping | 0 | 1,679,379,814 | 88% | ||
jinghua | 0 | 0 | 88% | ||
blackbunny | 0 | 74,035,497,568 | 100% | ||
bxt | 0 | 222,157,020,676 | 100% | ||
lingfei | 0 | 82,548,314,021 | 100% | ||
justinashby | 0 | 18,650,266,187 | 100% | ||
yyyy | 0 | 463,859,830 | 100% | ||
alexis555 | 0 | 2,027,191,344,587 | 25% | ||
lordneroo | 0 | 2,359,454,838 | 8.8% | ||
frankk | 0 | 10,694,279,811 | 15% | ||
dune69 | 0 | 11,407,323,431 | 3.5% | ||
eliel | 0 | 18,273,424,632 | 10% | ||
mys | 0 | 887,187,280 | 0.35% | ||
improv | 0 | 1,638,850,697 | 1.5% | ||
exec | 0 | 249,106,175,344 | 100% | ||
eval | 0 | 858,184,907 | 100% | ||
mxzn | 0 | 3,829,044,263 | 5% | ||
anacristinasilva | 0 | 8,485,903,125 | 10% | ||
swaraj | 0 | 44,674,851,474 | 100% | ||
ew-and-patterns | 0 | 258,810,123,287 | 10% | ||
livinguktaiwan | 0 | 455,790,217,613 | 40% | ||
furious-one | 0 | 18,903,260,711 | 30% | ||
gniksivart | 0 | 15,302,283,584 | 10% | ||
benedict08 | 0 | 182,483,726,985 | 50% | ||
susanli3769 | 0 | 155,244,627,040 | 100% | ||
raili | 0 | 2,335,977,928 | 15% | ||
runicar | 0 | 93,468,501,038 | 8.8% | ||
mrpointp | 0 | 56,549,850,841 | 100% | ||
dado13btc | 0 | 660,818,324 | 8.8% | ||
travelgirl | 0 | 92,245,553,403 | 40% | ||
shitsignals | 0 | 1,359,049,789 | 1.75% | ||
yoogyart | 0 | 32,119,568,847 | 51% | ||
oldman28 | 0 | 29,968,476,043 | 48% | ||
stinawog | 0 | 1,537,132,365 | 10% | ||
jiangchen | 0 | 58,667,013,285 | 100% | ||
stevenmosoes | 0 | 2,754,370,341 | 50% | ||
aafeng | 0 | 239,741,985,912 | 100% | ||
pardeepkumar | 0 | 15,606,151,396 | 8.8% | ||
felander | 0 | 11,117,841,858 | 3.5% | ||
mrspointm | 0 | 45,032,185,766 | 61% | ||
nadhora | 0 | 2,413,925,836 | 100% | ||
kimzwarch | 0 | 8,492,367,416 | 4% | ||
accelerator | 0 | 69,115,461,499 | 7% | ||
yogacoach | 0 | 781,108,275 | 1.75% | ||
roleerob | 0 | 15,113,157,433 | 3% | ||
deathwing | 0 | 1,624,669,373 | 3.5% | ||
espoem | 0 | 13,321,378,444 | 5% | ||
xiaoshancun | 0 | 4,006,645,793 | 100% | ||
victory622 | 0 | 184,849,440,776 | 100% | ||
tatjanastan | 0 | 197,551,696,102 | 100% | ||
metten | 0 | 8,777,151,293 | 88% | ||
pataty69 | 0 | 1,484,623,240 | 2.62% | ||
caladan | 0 | 10,990,080,282 | 3.5% | ||
blockbrothers | 0 | 2,632,665,297 | 1.75% | ||
cn-book | 0 | 979,882,972 | 88% | ||
imisstheoldkanye | 0 | 46,254,863,219 | 11% | ||
emrebeyler | 0 | 70,709,004,059 | 3.15% | ||
cn-movie | 0 | 97,942,276 | 88% | ||
ocupation | 0 | 21,420,552,548 | 8.8% | ||
itchyfeetdonica | 0 | 66,688,648,542 | 50% | ||
vivia | 0 | 2,812,939,204 | 88% | ||
nokodemion | 0 | 42,313,880,995 | 100% | ||
enjoyinglife | 0 | 2,174,424,137 | 8.8% | ||
stupid | 0 | 8,322,242,384 | 100% | ||
korinkrafting | 0 | 796,533,285 | 22.5% | ||
nealmcspadden | 0 | 91,905,118,638 | 3.5% | ||
curx | 0 | 31,025,306,882 | 10% | ||
sinochip | 0 | 14,230,566,035 | 40% | ||
mermaidvampire | 0 | 8,622,552,697 | 45% | ||
xiaoli | 0 | 260,637,145 | 88% | ||
jimcustodio | 0 | 1,786,838,382 | 50% | ||
investprosper | 0 | 602,753,787 | 0.26% | ||
cadawg | 0 | 6,536,837,392 | 2.44% | ||
kristves | 0 | 15,778,844,445 | 13% | ||
sudefteri | 0 | 15,965,683,377 | 100% | ||
happy-soul | 0 | 92,381,599,947 | 10% | ||
ofildutemps | 0 | 872,460,494 | 10% | ||
mindtrap | 0 | 178,617,807,316 | 8.8% | ||
watchlist | 0 | 13,406,903,668 | 2% | ||
reazuliqbal | 0 | 16,016,591,668 | 3.5% | ||
bestboom | 0 | 25,199,177,854 | 3.5% | ||
freddio | 0 | 32,412,427,830 | 15% | ||
therising | 0 | 4,051,442,383,073 | 20% | ||
sustainablelivin | 0 | 545,744,755 | 5% | ||
angelinafx | 0 | 334,417,104 | 6% | ||
steem.services | 0 | 771,541,693,122 | 10% | ||
honoru | 0 | 474,088,937,892 | 100% | ||
competeapp | 0 | 61,408,633,726 | 100% | ||
futile | 0 | 11,465,062,451 | 100% | ||
swisswitness | 0 | 1,624,787,446 | 3.5% | ||
suonghuynh | 0 | 617,320,425,413 | 6% | ||
milaan | 0 | 4,423,977,243 | 8.8% | ||
steemulant | 0 | 1,085,541,430 | 50.03% | ||
gallerani | 0 | 1,713,185,433 | 3.5% | ||
daath | 0 | 1,933,653,106 | 100% | ||
smartvote | 0 | 226,688,586,694 | 6% | ||
dlike | 0 | 43,106,052,568 | 3.5% | ||
triptolemus | 0 | 1,371,093,021 | 3.5% | ||
silvertop | 0 | 106,101,257,355 | 100% | ||
elizabethbit | 0 | 99,289,497,520 | 100% | ||
bobby.madagascar | 0 | 1,305,346,532 | 0.87% | ||
aicurator | 0 | 251,153,922 | 10% | ||
pocketjs | 0 | 304,941,252 | 50.03% | ||
florino | 0 | 808,545,308 | 15% | ||
followjohngalt | 0 | 14,095,451,355 | 3.32% | ||
moneytron | 0 | 16,645,998,646 | 100% | ||
infinite-love | 0 | 586,205,651 | 10% | ||
rasalom | 0 | 15,052,734,292 | 100% | ||
zerofive | 0 | 1,174,119,842 | 50% | ||
bluesniper | 0 | 14,906,546,327 | 50% | ||
delabo | 0 | 26,320,555,015 | 10% | ||
tagalong | 0 | 2,410,503,496 | 100% | ||
determine | 0 | 1,708,188,237 | 3.5% | ||
permaculturedude | 0 | 653,362,016 | 1.75% | ||
eternalsuccess | 0 | 9,017,065,703 | 11% | ||
chocolatelover | 0 | 4,016,452,629 | 40% | ||
mia-cc | 0 | 6,459,042,321 | 50% | ||
smileyboy | 0 | 9,258,533,793 | 10% | ||
hungryharish | 0 | 772,847,793 | 3% | ||
cpt-sparrow | 0 | 11,052,405,646 | 100% | ||
kggymlife | 0 | 5,311,159,616 | 25% | ||
kryptogames | 0 | 89,482,281,431 | 20% | ||
hedgeserv | 0 | 1,364,307,057 | 100% | ||
bergelmirsenpai | 0 | 567,821,680 | 10% | ||
plankton.token | 0 | 39,923,867,801 | 30% | ||
steemindian | 0 | 1,144,322,311 | 6% | ||
vxc | 0 | 868,527,045 | 10% | ||
milu-the-dog | 0 | 1,377,341,044 | 3.5% | ||
triplea.bot | 0 | 1,182,321,634 | 3.5% | ||
steem.leo | 0 | 33,260,625,463 | 3.46% | ||
leo.voter | 0 | 15,027,167,273 | 0.52% | ||
freddio.sport | 0 | 4,406,994,913 | 15% | ||
asteroids | 0 | 23,776,961,512 | 3.5% | ||
botante | 0 | 17,410,836,955 | 10% | ||
one.life | 0 | 841,163,539 | 3.49% | ||
citrus-soap | 0 | 1,812,236,442 | 3.5% | ||
maxuvd | 0 | 12,924,863,038 | 3.5% | ||
moleah | 0 | 2,127,270,914 | 100% | ||
freedomteam2019 | 0 | 2,755,179,389 | 40% | ||
therealyme | 0 | 658,238,812 | 9.6% | ||
thegambit | 0 | 2,486,303,544 | 100% | ||
blocktvnews | 0 | 1,506,534,030 | 1.73% | ||
gerbo | 0 | 0 | 3.5% | ||
unpopular | 0 | 171,256,240,741 | 100% | ||
max.curation | 0 | 350,681,113,768 | 64.19% | ||
sacrosanct | 0 | 2,984,551,570 | 8.8% | ||
steemjiang | 0 | 0 | 88% | ||
starnote | 0 | 185,984,247 | 88% | ||
ribary | 0 | 1,096,084,975 | 1.75% | ||
kgsupport | 0 | 1,732,412,661 | 50% | ||
moochain.net | 0 | 187,494,939 | 88% | ||
moochain.com | 0 | 0 | 88% | ||
liebin | 0 | 0 | 88% | ||
dinggle | 0 | 0 | 88% | ||
steem-zh | 0 | 0 | 88% | ||
coursechain | 0 | 0 | 88% | ||
youngoole | 0 | 0 | 88% | ||
mice-k | 0 | 13,180,946,358 | 3.5% | ||
imooc | 0 | 0 | 88% | ||
willielow | 0 | 5,107,785,441 | 100% | ||
steemcityrewards | 0 | 4,949,742,653 | 3.5% | ||
dpend.active | 0 | 3,499,647,520 | 2% | ||
ronswanson92 | 0 | 25,335,201 | 100% | ||
lovequeen | 0 | 22,076,406,454 | 100% | ||
fengchao | 0 | 2,907,485,747 | 3% | ||
hellohive | 0 | 920,622,172,452 | 100% | ||
wikicoin | 0 | 0 | 88% | ||
starchain | 0 | 0 | 88% | ||
steemzh | 0 | 0 | 88% | ||
steemipfs | 0 | 0 | 88% | ||
hive-224466 | 0 | 0 | 88% | ||
greenforever | 0 | 4,076,715,362 | 50% | ||
softworld | 0 | 147,700,800,153 | 13% | ||
andrewmusic | 0 | 4,098,143,053 | 100% | ||
hive.curation | 0 | 377,177,068,761 | 18.07% |
The best cryptocurrency app! - https://kintum.io/
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真朋友都不借钱的,怕撕破脸。借钱生钱的一律不借,因病住院不够钱,可以借。
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我已經過了幾年隱居生活,極少出社交場合,但是竟然也人問我借款。 相信現時大家的經濟情況,確實相當困難。 但..... 一借不回頭,說來,我也有一筆十年前的借款,仍是追不到。
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我,贫穷的人民教师,没钱。哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈
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不會借錢給人,不會問人借錢
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