#### Happy Thursday my friends!

The importance of communication is one of the very best spices and strategy in our way of living. Without communication, you are like living under the tomb.

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*credit to @ecotrain*


#### How it affected my life?

Looking back the first time going abroad. I came here without knowledge of the Arabic language but through communication, I learned quickly in just a month. My employer had three children before. They were the source of my knowledge in speaking Arabic. Imagine, I had no friend that I share. It was like a prison cell that I was lockup. I couldn't talk to anyone because they did not know the English language. It was extremely difficult for me but the three little children whom I communicated, helped me overcome and understood.

#### Lack of communication ruined our relationship

There was something unpleasant situation about our relationship with my husband. There was no mobile phone before and the only source of communication was writing letters via post office box. It took a month or two when it arrived in my hand. That was the cheapest way. I called them through landline telephone but it cost so much amount.

The worst thing happened when we got misunderstood. It caused pain in me when I didn't hear their whereabout. I lost my appetite, I became thin losing 15 kilos in a month. I cried a lot missing my family back home without communication. That was the hardest part of my life. The relationship that lack of communication resulting severe injuries in my heart. Then, after 7 years of that dramatic changes, my husband died.

#### New Era with all means of communication

We have now a lot of resources to have constant communication. It became a bad source sometimes. But this is what I was looking for. When it came, it's too late, my husband is no longer here. The constant communication this time is also alarming. I can prove it by myself. So let us use it in good and right conduct. Use it for a purpose in life that beneficial for a pleasant living most especially in connection with family members.

#### Negative effect 

I knew one friend of mine. When she came here, they had a good relationship with her husband. She had no mobile phone before. After her first salary, she bought the phone to use for communicating with her family but all of the sudden, she was tempted by someone who flirted with her and she believed it. It became a gun and roses that almost break her family. When she spent her vacation, she had an agreement meeting with another man. Her sister who was also working here caught her act and it was prevented before it happened 

#### On my new way of life

I enjoyed my life communicating with some friends in this blockchain. I learned a lot of so many new things and as part of my late development in this world. I never had social life since I got married too earlier. At this moment, I tried to be a better person and make use of it. Communication is good if we use it on the right track that will give us convenient living. 

That's all I could share today and thank you @ecotrain for the great question again.
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