Yesterday i started with a clear introduction to the title of my post "Peril Of Undefined Relationship. Today by God's grace i will continue from where I stop to the final stage which will be the conclusion on this post. 
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Yesterday I take a pause on some words which we should try and avoid that can possibly cause misinterpretion such as; 

Sweetheart 

Sexy 

Honey 
Baby 
Cute etc 

 To you, your head might be correct, but you making the head of that other person to go abnormal. And the more this keeps coming,  such person will pays you an attention that will buy your intelligence and hand over to your lack of understanding toward what you can't control anymore.

 >This is the mystery of deception

 Devil helps you to complete the project you are proposing. I want to dable into a session of this spiritual operation. I want you to know that you are a system operating on the platform of the spoken words.

 There are two personels that control the system of men with spiritual laws.

 The first is God 

The second is devil

 Here comes the power of the spoken words. God in his wisdom gives us the clue of the kind of words that should/must comes out of our mouth

 >Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life. Proverbs:4:23

 The above scriptures tells us the system at which life matters are form. So the words we use in our daily life has an implications to our life.

 That lady you are using those words for, times to come, she will begin to think according to the system you are introducing to her if she lack the maturity of controlling,  shurning the users towards her. And once she's responding, the brother that is responsible for this can't escape it.

 Bro, sis Let be mindful of our words, the way and the act we perfom toward ladies and guys else we affect ourselves bitterly. Let me quickly talk about the general life.

 Note: love is a command, relationship is a choice.

Not every man you walk with, but you are commanded to love every man. Most of us enter into relationships with friends that is leading us out of destiny. Over familiarity makes a man valueless.

 Over availability makes men disvalue what you carry. There are ways of life. There are pride of life.

Maturity in dealings is what makes a man Balance his ways of life with fellow men. Every relationship requires maturity, and understanding. Everybody are not meant for you in the way to destiny.

 The inability to know the right people, right atmosphere, right things can make you make your enemy the epicentre of your glory. Who enters your life and quench your hunger for the things of God.

 >If God will help a man, he introduces men. If devil will destroy a man, he introduces men.

What makes you know and who is your spiritual sensitivity towards spuritual things. Another part I will like you to know is that, Men in our life do expire.

 If you keep who is meant to leave your life in your life,  you can loose your life. If you sent out those who are meant to remain, you will likely get lost in the ways of life. No man comes into your life without a purpose 


The question is how do you the assignment of men in your life??

 Be spiritual

Be discerning 

Be watchful

 If you because you don't want to loose friends and keep some relationships, you will end up walking against your destiny.

 There are three levels to friendship
 1. Inner court 

2. Outer court 

3. Hollies of hollies

 There are relationship that their existence must never pass the realm of your outer court, whatever makes you allow such relationship in your other court is a danger to your destiny.

 There are relationship that only exist in the realm of your inner court, which must never pass that realm,  the inability to bridge them within that system can cause dangers to your life.
 The other part is that, there is a realm in destiny whereby the people permitted in that realm are so few in numbers, that the part your hollies of hollies.
 The realm of of your hollies is that part where correction , decision, plans, and agenda are established with those in that circle.

 It's a system where your destiny battery and life is. Those in that circle are your destiny builder, lifter and helper. Keep them close and powerfull.

 >Note this:Relationship is spiritual 

>Life is spiritual 

Take your life spuritual,
 If you are not spiritual, or unstable spiritually , you are really exposing yourself to danger