Experience is best and it can be the worst teacher.

Good morning everyone. I am so excited to publish my content this morning. I believe your night was blissful.
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Until you experience something before you could share with others or witness by yourself.
This is true, at some point, most people won't learn until they catch a glimpse of experience in one way or the other.
At times, experience humbles and calms the storms of one's life.

Some need to experience to walk out of their doubtful attitude.
Life is of many parts and the best way to learn is by experience. 
Experience requires our optical eyes to be observed, touch, change and give maximum attention. 

This is not like a textbook we read and close. There must be something that you are holding unto, that might have given you a ground to be firm.

Reading books has its advantage, and it can never be compared to the feeling of it. Just like medical students who are studying medicine would have to undergo countless practical and from practical to experience to be able to stand with boldness, whenever they are called upon for presentation.

Experience breeds success, in the sense that, things will be done with ease and appropriately when require to be. Any man without having experience of life will definitely become a fool.

# My experience towards relationships!
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I was in a relationship with this gentleman just to learn and understudy him, I so much trusted him not to behave the other way.

When I love someone, I can defend that person, with a hundred percent reasons. This gentleman of mine, that I so much cherished, and I always stand the ground of defending him at any point of time.
I didn't know that the hearts of men are desperately wicked. Until something happens that I was like, wow, I never knew this up to this point. I was not surprised, though. My experience at that point becomes wider and strengthen. This is an experience because I decided to stay close to him, If I didn't do that, I wouldn't have had such experiences.

Seeing a movie or reading a textbook about relationships, break-up, and other silly acts can be easy, but when you have your personal relationship, you know the profound experience you're going to get. This is when you know that reading or seeing a movie about relationships is simple.

This experience of relationship has taught me how to be in relationship with men, especially. It will be a shameful thing for a woman to have such an experience and then still behave like a kid in a relationship.

This is a gateway for me to know how to model my relationship wisely. 

My experience I gained this week about relationships is what I should give up, never to be in a relationship with a man, but I refused to succumb to the feelings. I know that people are of different kinds. 

My happiness is that, the relationship didn't go somewhere, and I believe that my soon relationship will be much better than. 

Experience is the best teacher, it shapes you to be a better person.

This post is in response to hivelearners contest, week 55 editions 2.

Thank you for reading through.

**I love, I care, and I forgive.**

**I remain @peckypeace.**