It is another weekly prompt of the @hivenaija community.
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When i heard about the death of the Osinachi's, i had a discussion with my sister. I was so pained not because she died, but because nobody said anything about the marriage, now she is dead everyone started exposing the cause of her death
Why didn't they say it since or report the man to the police.

They say marriage is for better for worse but not in the term of losing your life all in the name of marriage. 
I have even seen people dating, where the guy beats his girlfriend and the girl will still remain in the relationship believing the boy will change.
My sister, an adult can hardly change, you are lucky you aren't married yet so you can run for your life.

***What will people say?***
Many women remain in abusive marriage considering what will people say.This shouldn't be an excuse to be in a marriage where you are not respected.Those people will be living if you die.
Another reason is being desperate for marriage. Many woman who run into marriage do not even consider who the man really is, they just want to answer MRS.
**It is better to remain single than marry the wrong person**

***What about my children??***
This is another reason people stay in abusive marriage. It is true that disvorce can cause physiological effect on a child, but you can go to court for your children.
Make sure there are evidence for the case you are filing.
You can take pictures or videos unknowing to him.

I advise to anyone in a relationship or marriage,please talk to someone don't keep mute still it takes your life.
No matter the threat, you are the one that will suffer most.