Awwweeee that's miserably sweet though.  You shovel that poop. So what do you like to do??? I mean youve got freaking horses man, take off on them. Have fun. Live life and if its not the life that you completely want, tell her. Then maybe theres room for compromise. The love is there, so tell her you want a studio, man cave crypto work barn. Like try to find some joy of your own out there too so you can work together,  two by two. It can be hard, relationships when things seem unbalanced. Then things like resentment and unappreciation of one another can happen. Find a balance so that while you're poop scouping, you know your fun is just around the corner too. Lolol. 
 Compromise,  communication and I think you can be a little more happier. I know you may not care about youre happiness because  You love your wife and you want her happy but in the end if you're not happy you won't be able to give her that period so try to find something there on the farm just for you that you life even if it's a man cave crypto studio/or your equivalent of happy. Hope the advice helps.