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| json_metadata | "{"app":"Musing","appTags":["love"],"appCategory":"love","appTitle":"Is happiness only for married couples?","appBody":"<p>No, happiness isn't only for married people. And even more, everyone should be happy without a partner. </p>\n<p>You are the one who should make you happy, you are the only one responsible for your happiness.</p>\n<p>Putting the responsibility of your happiness on someone elseโs shoulders, puts too much pressure on that person, and on the relationship.</p>\n<p>Love yourself, and you can be happy without a partner. And once you are happy and love yourself, you, your partner and your relationship will bloom beyond imagination, because they are no longer based on needing something from the other one. </p>\n<p>Be careful, I didnโt say that when you love yourself, and are in a relationship that is not based on a need, you will not grieve when the relationship ends, no matter what way it ends. But then you grieve for the loss of a loved one, not for the loss of your happiness.</p>\n<p>There are many things you can do to have more self-love. For instance: always use nice and positive words when you are talking about yourself. Or make sure your kitchen is always clean, the place you eat is always clean, and your bed is made each morning. Show respect to yourself, to what you do, and to what you own. And there are many many more things you can do! A good place to start: [Coaches In The City - Self-love: 21 different things to do to love yourself more](http://coachesinthecity.com/en/21-different-things-to-do-to-love-yourself-more/)</p>","appDepth":2,"appParentPermlink":"fkhnlc6lx","appParentAuthor":"priya1","musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","musingAppVersion":"1.1","musingPostType":"answer"}" |
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| author | diamondray |
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| json_metadata | "{"app":"Musing","appTags":["love"],"appCategory":"love","appTitle":"Is happiness only for married couples?","appBody":"<p>Falling in love is the the most euphoric feeling in the world. You just want to be with the person every single second. Being away physically for even a short while will seems so long. For that temporary separation, there is a feeling of emptiness and void that only be fulfilled by the presence of the other person. A pang of emptiness is hard to explain but the evidence is seen by the feeling of lost. </p>\n<p>But that quickly change , as there is certainty in the relationship. The moment you know that the person is always there, you tend to take them for granted over time. The passion becomes less intend unless there is continuous effort to keep the flame going. The same person that makes you feel all quizzy inside can become the very person that invoke a strong negative response. Thats its why marriages break up. </p>\n<p>I have been married for 21 years and during the journey , there are many moments of ups and downs. It was like a climate change. There was a time in my life when the storm seems never ending to the point of giving up. As the quarrel die down, there is a time to reflect on what had happen. There are triggers that cause unhappiness. Behavioural triggers by my wife that did not meet my expectation. I had to learn to let go and focus on defining happiness. </p>\n<p>After 21 years of marriage, i realise , happiness does not depend on the other person or circumstances. It depend on my interpretation of the situation. I am now much free because i do not base on my wife meeting my expectation. Its not an easy to let go and trust the other person. But that is marriage , trust is the foundation in any marriages. Yes, trust can be taken for granted and be needs to be tended to every single day. It is a daily commitment to do something good and beautiful for your partner. Is so obvious that marriages is seen more of a contract rather than a bond. Contract gets broken every time when either party do not fulfil the requirement. So the solution is just divorce. Sometimes marriages is treated like tv game show. In the olden days , marriage are sacred and meant for life. I think nowadays, it is treated as a convenience.</p>\n<p>Is marriages for married couple? the answer is no. You can still obtain happiness while being single. But the joy of having a family and having someone to love is another plane of experience. Be ready to expect stormy weather ahead but as you become more skilful in relationship ,you will be able to navigate the storm skilfully and hopefully you will be able to witness the most beautiful rainbow at the end of the storm. </p>\n<p><br></p>","appDepth":2,"appParentPermlink":"fkhnlc6lx","appParentAuthor":"priya1","musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","musingAppVersion":"1.1","musingPostType":"answer"}" |
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| author | erikah |
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| json_metadata | "{"app":"Musing","appTags":["love"],"appCategory":"love","appTitle":"Is happiness only for married couples?","appBody":"<p>Happiness is a state of mind, not a place on earth (and most definitely not a question of marriage or not). I'm always telling people this when I hear so much complaining.</p>\n<p>You can be happy regardless of your status, by only seeing the good side of things and not being negative and pessimistic all the time. Little things, tiny details can bring happiness if you're willing to see them and don't always complain about what you don't have.</p>\n<p>A little mental training should do the trick and allow you to see things in a positive way.</p>\n<p>If course, marriage has its own benefits but that doesn't mean if you are not married, you can't be happy.</p>","appDepth":2,"appParentPermlink":"fkhnlc6lx","appParentAuthor":"priya1","musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","musingAppVersion":"1.1","musingPostType":"answer"}" |
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| author | resuscitate |
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| json_metadata | "{"app":"Musing","appTags":["love"],"appCategory":"love","appTitle":"Is happiness only for married couples?","appBody":"<p>How can happiness be only for married people? Happiness is for everyone. Every living human has a right to be happy but each individual is responsible for his/her own happiness. Don't wait for someone to make you happy or expect happiness from someone. If you don't have happiness within you, someone can hardly make you happy. </p><p>When you first strive to make yourself happy, then it will be very easy for some to add to the happiness that you already have. Everyone has the right to be happy not only married couples alone: but everyone is responsible for their happiness. That is, if you can't make yourself happy, someone else can hardly make you happy </p>","appDepth":2,"appParentPermlink":"fkhnlc6lx","appParentAuthor":"priya1","musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","musingAppVersion":"1.1","musingPostType":"answer"}" |
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| author | sinzzer |
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| json_metadata | "{"app":"Musing","appTags":["love"],"appCategory":"love","appTitle":"Is happiness only for married couples?","appBody":"<p>Happiness is a state of mind, what everyone can achieve on the moment when they are satisfied with what they have or when they reach their goals. That can be the man who goes to the moon, or the woman who lives with 30 cats! Marriage is just one of the many goals anyone can make, what could make someone happy or even stressed the F... out! So the only way to be happy is not by reaching a goal, and more by understanding that satisfaction will create a happy feeling. And if you manage to be satisfied with anything/everything you have on this moment, then you will be the most happy person on this planet!</p>","appDepth":2,"appParentPermlink":"fkhnlc6lx","appParentAuthor":"priya1","musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","musingAppVersion":"1.1","musingPostType":"answer"}" |
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