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Why I forgive by proza

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· @proza ·
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Why I forgive
Welcome to another amazing week my wonderful hive family.I am very happy because this is my first time writing in our Ladies of hive community and it is an amazing opportunity, I really like this week prompt.

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Honestly not everyone deserves forgiveness and not everyone is worthy of forgiveness but the fact that forgiveness is necessary is something we can't ignore.

There is this peace that comes with forgiveness, forgiveness gives a particular type of joy and happiness that money can't buy.

Some people really don't deserve forgiveness but most times we need to forgive for our own good because the trouble it brings to the heart is mostly unbearable.

The moment I can't forgive someone or let go of something,I find it difficult not to think about it and it gives me trouble, mostly taking away my happiness and joy. If I am not careful I end up being sick.

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I thought to myself why hold a grudge on someone that he or she is probably not even regretful about their actions,why carry pains that are not worth it? I get to realize I am doing myself harm then good.

I don't forgive because he or she is worthy of my forgiveness but I forgive because nothing is worthy of my peace of mind.

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@balikis95 ·
That's it. Why hold a grudge and make yourself miserable? It is better to forgive.
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@proza ·
Grudge hinder growth 
Thank you for reading 
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@brema ·
Well said. Forgiving for the sake of our own peace is one of the best gifts we can give ourselves. Holding on to anger only hurts us more.
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@proza ·
Yes
Thank you for reading ๐Ÿ™
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@cautiva-30 ·
I agree with you, it's not worth carrying the pain of resentment, especially for someone who doesn't repent of the harm done. Forgiving is more about peace of mind. Thanks for sharing your experiences.
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@proza ·
And thank you so much for reading โ˜บ๏ธ๐Ÿ™
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@german-osas ·
Not good to hold anger cos it only robbs u of your joy 
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@proza ·
And is not even worth it 
Thank you for reading I really appreciate ๐Ÿ˜Œ๐Ÿ™
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@temmylade ·
I love how you admit that forgiveness isnโ€™t always deserved, yet you lean into it because of the peace it brings. That awareness choosing your own well-being over carrying restless thoughts is so wise. You make such a clear case that holding onto pain doesnโ€™t hurt the other person nearly as much as it hurts us. Thank you for sharing this steady reminder that peace is more precious than grudges.
!ALIVE
!BBH
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@proza ·
Thank you for stopping by I really appreciate โ˜บ๏ธ๐Ÿ™
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