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"_If you have no confidence in self, you are twice defeated in race of life_"

-_Marcus Garvey_


It's really is hard to admit it, but no matter how much we deny it, it just that most of us really don't believe in our ownselves. That quite a pity but it's true. The ability to believe in ourselves is becoming a hurdle to our success and career, thus, failing is not out of the option. The feeling of failing is like being plunged into a horrible nightmare; night after night it haunts us, especially when we put our hard earned effort to work but still fail in the end deals a great damage towards our confidence and pride as a person. We know that there is know '1-universal-answer' but at least learn to appreciate yourself a ton. We just need to remember what the great _Theodore Roosevelt_ once said,"It's hard to fail, but it's worse never to have tried to succeed." 

How my parents preached when I failed a ton: they would just pat my shoulder and look straight to my eyes and said,"You have tried your best, it's more than enough. You don't need to feel ashamed of yourself when you fail, that's something that made life more challenging. Just don't lose hope, and if you do, then that's destiny." I always groaned when I try mimicked there,'_then that's destiny_' antics.

Last but not the least, if you're two are reading this, please change the catchphrase destiny part,mom,it's getting old... 
XO