<center>https://www.relaxedmale.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/9D6FCBDC-C67E-45E7-A79D-34C6863BF37A.png</center> <br/><p>Steven Covey wrote a book that is a great foundation on how to be a good leader. That book is the 7 Habits of Highly Effective People. In this book Steven lays out the different habits found in effective leaders. These habits are as follows. </p> <ol><li>Be Proactive</li><li>Begin with the End in Mind</li><li>Put First Things First</li><li>Think Win-Win</li><li>Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood. </li><li>Synergize</li><li>Sharpen the Saw</li></ol> <p>Now this video for this week is about the fifth habit. Seek first to understand, before being understood. This habit is great for resolving any misunderstandings. This is because you are fully understanding where the other person is coming from. </p> <p>When you understand the other person and fully appreciate their, “why” you can actually have a better relationship with that person. It doesn’t matter what side of the aisle they are on. You have a full and complete understanding and this opens the door for them to want to understand you. </p> <figure class="wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio"><div class="wp-block-embed__wrapper"> https://youtu.be/i98FAsHydlE </div></figure> <br /><center><hr/><em>Posted from my blog with <a href='https://wordpress.org/plugins/exxp/'>Exxp</a> : https://www.relaxedmale.com/seek-first-to-understand-2/ </em><hr/></center>
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ipumba | 0 | 34,314,457,550 | 100% | ||
cause-no-harm | 0 | 247,811,182 | 100% | ||
baracuda | 0 | 564,815,524 | 100% | ||
stray | 0 | 2,227,498,213 | 100% | ||
pkfoneboy | 0 | 482,524,081 | 100% | ||
breezin | 0 | 47,963,994,097 | 100% | ||
hopehuggs | 0 | 2,844,258,813 | 100% | ||
spbesner | 0 | 7,709,760,125 | 100% | ||
wig | 0 | 1,653,144,962 | 100% | ||
doryumira | 0 | 3,550,583,736 | 100% | ||
em3di | 0 | 1,284,077,284 | 100% | ||
megz | 0 | 1,589,817,198 | 100% | ||
freewheeler | 0 | 505,400,085 | 100% | ||
angelveselinov | 0 | 379,509,645 | 100% | ||
wdougwatson | 0 | 4,876,902,473 | 100% | ||
glocken93 | 0 | 69,141,442 | 100% | ||
raili | 0 | 782,300,150 | 100% | ||
jpederson96 | 0 | 3,399,193,371 | 100% | ||
emmanueloppong | 0 | 1,235,818,415 | 100% | ||
ashokcan143 | 0 | 607,016,615 | 100% | ||
moderndragon | 0 | 5,580,725,952 | 100% | ||
muhammadalikatu | 0 | 1,975,693,445 | 100% | ||
gigpen | 0 | 1,031,546,532 | 100% | ||
valorforfreedom | 0 | 1,646,023,280 | 100% | ||
qweku | 0 | 157,781,769 | 100% | ||
superdavey | 0 | 24,669,478,140 | 100% | ||
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bluntsheep | 0 | 1,468,384,718 | 100% | ||
puggle | 0 | 1,110,087,783 | 100% | ||
sultnpapper | 0 | 121,643,270,850 | 100% | ||
nicholas83 | 0 | 16,418,551,141 | 100% | ||
saintjames | 0 | 1,667,965,190 | 100% | ||
prince-opk | 0 | 1,789,581,402 | 100% | ||
majorx3thom | 0 | 4,162,571,187 | 100% | ||
grethaventer | 0 | 375,832,320 | 100% | ||
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diezeldiddy | 0 | 12,208,140,844 | 100% | ||
vampstakes | 0 | 3,578,689,168 | 100% | ||
anli | 0 | 6,877,912,920 | 100% | ||
andrepol | 0 | 12,599,018,547 | 100% | ||
khalidjr11 | 0 | 145,832,935 | 100% | ||
thettinaung | 0 | 137,405,450 | 100% | ||
steph4nus | 0 | 387,188,843 | 100% | ||
johngreenfield | 0 | 244,987,406 | 100% | ||
woe-is-meme | 0 | 547,513,027 | 100% | ||
thetravelingsa | 0 | 2,662,543,921 | 100% | ||
dwin0603 | 0 | 129,935,373 | 100% | ||
calluna | 0 | 345,856,770 | 100% | ||
sasha-lee1678 | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
soekie | 0 | 79,557,036 | 100% | ||
growroomsa | 0 | 160,526,783 | 100% | ||
streetsurfer | 0 | 248,077,543 | 100% | ||
omargalk | 0 | 208,162,651 | 100% | ||
animad | 0 | 44,793,026 | 100% | ||
sweetjoy | 0 | 183,721,289 | 100% | ||
kamalkhann | 0 | 2,751,568,471 | 100% | ||
tombdbad | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
motinkergnome | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
johangericke | 0 | 517,734,808 | 100% | ||
remora | 0 | 2,458,436,037 | 100% | ||
kettle | 0 | 1,011,532,314 | 100% | ||
maacademy | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
sagitta6 | 0 | 523,558,476 | 100% | ||
lrastriker | 0 | 927,554,852 | 100% | ||
damon9 | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
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iotman | 0 | 50,650,948 | 100% | ||
harkadam2506 | 0 | 709,169,174 | 100% | ||
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knoxman | 0 | 481,017,426 | 100% | ||
navmasterpro | 0 | 199,477,815 | 100% | ||
mari-jen | 0 | 1,088,373,846 | 100% | ||
youn | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
muzzlealem | 0 | 278,528,092 | 100% | ||
nyakrahmat | 0 | 514,037,798 | 100% | ||
armadilloman | 0 | 5,641,392,087 | 100% | ||
shadowolfdg | 0 | 9,124,697,614 | 100% | ||
fairyfeet | 0 | 3,785,342,977 | 100% | ||
str1k3r | 0 | 159,462,823 | 100% | ||
reini137 | 0 | 631,563,682 | 100% | ||
yoitsme | 0 | 266,005,285 | 100% | ||
terry00 | 0 | 95,419,812 | 100% | ||
ocxie | 0 | 277,931,926 | 100% | ||
newbiegames | 0 | 3,354,610,028 | 100% | ||
gonetroppo | 0 | 4,510,507,633 | 100% | ||
psyceratopsb | 0 | 350,017,455 | 100% | ||
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xazid | 0 | 153,486,158 | 100% | ||
schoolofminnows | 0 | 6,593,103,850 | 100% | ||
playdice | 0 | 195,087,256 | 100% | ||
marihuya | 0 | 481,886,366 | 100% | ||
offended | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
dontcare | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
aksapphires | 0 | 364,965,461 | 100% | ||
poetsunited | 0 | 3,250,270,118 | 100% | ||
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genesis171 | 0 | 20,940,588 | 100% | ||
kally | 0 | 307,634,940 | 100% | ||
stormrobertson | 0 | 1,188,432,527 | 100% | ||
w00tl00t | 0 | 4,567,698,637 | 100% | ||
steemchessboard | 0 | 76,107,451 | 100% | ||
qam2112 | 0 | 350,646,711 | 100% | ||
buddhaboy | 0 | 101,218,522 | 100% | ||
creyestxsa94 | 0 | 1,676,027,103 | 100% | ||
johanludick | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
cakka | 0 | 56,096,415 | 100% | ||
cowboyblazerfan | 0 | 1,342,242,450 | 100% | ||
commentetiquette | 0 | 135,713,006 | 100% | ||
steemrollmix | 0 | 274,622,854 | 100% | ||
moonlightmining | 0 | 93,326,537 | 100% | ||
schooloffreeride | 0 | 215,901,859 | 100% | ||
hillhunters | 0 | 68,334,601 | 100% | ||
intshebe | 0 | 74,520,903 | 100% | ||
rockyridge | 0 | 129,158,643 | 100% | ||
strayanimals | 0 | 337,487,891 | 100% | ||
forballies | 0 | 332,898,872 | 100% | ||
pileofsteem | 0 | 2,501,439,934 | 100% | ||
margate | 0 | 68,287,086 | 100% | ||
mfethu | 0 | 280,784,298 | 100% | ||
mahala | 0 | 109,344,698 | 100% | ||
fruitjuice | 0 | 176,106,154 | 100% | ||
waarheid | 0 | 402,746,210 | 100% | ||
hobopunks | 0 | 133,627,121 | 100% | ||
goodbadandugly | 0 | 690,787,298 | 100% | ||
dungeonmaster | 0 | 59,147,947 | 100% | ||
plantl | 0 | 168,767,388 | 100% | ||
plantlovers | 0 | 151,808,582 | 100% | ||
heclgang | 0 | 643,018,157 | 100% | ||
joinandskate | 0 | 783,118,948 | 100% | ||
heclr | 0 | 129,075,641 | 100% | ||
amit86 | 0 | 1,206,722,219 | 100% | ||
efongym | 0 | 53,217,098 | 100% | ||
angelsands | 0 | 1,064,046,711 | 100% | ||
knownobody | 0 | 4,084,803,091 | 100% | ||
luxsheng | 0 | 2,727,292,401 | 100% | ||
crastinaterpro | 0 | 67,485,688 | 100% | ||
masterpostfinder | 0 | 3,951,883,347 | 100% | ||
leonidastouch | 0 | 563,363,358 | 100% | ||
zero666 | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
coconut-chanel | 0 | 646,902,037 | 100% | ||
steempunks-memes | 0 | 404,172,751 | 100% | ||
thorrey | 0 | 177,531,388 | 100% | ||
brsim | 0 | 11,582,167,426 | 100% | ||
gaby-crb | 0 | 10,083,035,194 | 100% | ||
hecldroog | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
fiftyshadesofguy | 0 | 259,736,364 | 100% | ||
cerysrussel | 0 | 137,237,152 | 100% | ||
finnelkin | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
henrijooste | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
niklasdreher | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
monkaydee293 | 0 | 79,021,975 | 50% | ||
lordfirewire | 0 | 1,513,868,213 | 100% | ||
fourchan | 0 | 157,599,629 | 100% | ||
cursoforexpro | 0 | 167,610,415 | 100% | ||
aerozopher | 0 | 1,780,099,945 | 100% | ||
enthef | 0 | 7,269,339,924 | 50% | ||
iamthegreat | 0 | 812,577,006 | 100% | ||
donsie | 0 | 124,792,306 | 100% | ||
djenny.floro | 0 | 2,197,605,567 | 50% | ||
dconnect | 0 | 1,157,236,718 | 100% | ||
fitinfunfood | 0 | 11,944,986,388 | 100% | ||
highroadseeds | 0 | 788,138,821 | 100% | ||
aydie1000 | 0 | 1,332,615,460 | 100% | ||
nw0 | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
dagga | 0 | 459,412,584 | 100% | ||
vidarreturns | 0 | 391,564,633 | 100% | ||
vampyremind | 0 | 1,596,852,031 | 100% | ||
vergil84 | 0 | 65,688,939 | 100% | ||
qwoyn-fund | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
epicgames | 0 | 133,983,681 | 100% | ||
ricki2000 | 0 | 110,099,643 | 100% | ||
accountsdump | 0 | 523,396,285 | 100% | ||
scamsalarm | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
cheebask84thc | 0 | 4,410,678 | 100% | ||
ourone | 0 | 1,897,238,241 | 100% | ||
childfoundation | 0 | 95,448,475 | 100% | ||
athomewithcraig | 0 | 274,413,090 | 100% | ||
shel-ly | 0 | 565,796,941 | 100% | ||
clehabs | 0 | 168,413,508 | 100% | ||
petercarl | 0 | 139,400,096 | 100% | ||
roney49 | 0 | 1,613,538,607 | 100% | ||
ciliegia | 0 | 136,450,521 | 100% | ||
kitchenelf | 0 | 40,681,504 | 100% | ||
perezadu | 0 | 122,501,854 | 100% | ||
esvisionaria | 0 | 150,890,352 | 100% | ||
markif | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
querdenker | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
ylecas | 0 | 154,963,419 | 100% | ||
teungkuhim | 0 | 240,801,675 | 100% | ||
isidro77 | 0 | 533,656,650 | 100% | ||
scashigi | 0 | 265,956,980 | 100% | ||
techprinted | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
luisrg87 | 0 | 97,979,744 | 100% | ||
ivrodri | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
windroid | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
mainu | 0 | 834,781,264 | 100% | ||
m0nst3r | 0 | 380,247,644 | 100% | ||
sonami | 0 | 32,508,420 | 100% | ||
ronnypelupessy | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
unix123 | 0 | 207,137,475 | 100% | ||
griega | 0 | 11,013,000,222 | 100% | ||
sushmita36 | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
allaboutcats | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
antiersolutions | 0 | 451,029,684 | 100% | ||
motiurjet | 0 | 257,676,899 | 100% | ||
fintechandcrypto | 0 | 109,483,011 | 100% | ||
diuhung | 0 | 116,078,506 | 100% | ||
techcam | 0 | 79,641,734 | 100% | ||
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mof | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
babatunde1992 | 0 | 27,378,121 | 100% | ||
nachar | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
chriscodes | 0 | 6,659,955,536 | 100% | ||
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the.melvo | 0 | 137,139,289 | 100% | ||
nan.warrior | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
poppie-schultz | 0 | 1,838,727,073 | 100% | ||
zaslavski1102 | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
yadir100 | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
just-another-day | 0 | 2,508,880 | 100% | ||
meditations | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
mokeloc | 0 | 103,821,501 | 100% | ||
repuracy | 0 | 252,616,108 | 100% | ||
dropthatcode | 0 | 172,318,286 | 100% | ||
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chandraromadona | 0 | 30,906,807 | 100% | ||
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gloriay | 0 | 415,521,645 | 100% | ||
younha | 0 | 81,920,050 | 100% | ||
earnfreecrypto | 0 | 2,623,754,343 | 100% | ||
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rustix | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
hongcai7 | 0 | 72,348,355 | 100% | ||
artbyw | 0 | 39,856,611 | 100% | ||
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chegbe | 0 | 2,470,746,247 | 100% | ||
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project2star | 0 | 740,262,013 | 100% | ||
randoms | 0 | 527,831,117 | 100% | ||
rosegyrl | 0 | 108,402,809 | 100% | ||
localevents | 0 | 483,576,778 | 100% | ||
bcconsciousness | 0 | 146,692,252 | 100% | ||
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petsandanimals | 0 | 2,423,294,051 | 100% | ||
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picknpay | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
thomsonreuters | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
soccerworldcup | 0 | 99,478,905 | 100% | ||
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kushayawena | 0 | 173,452,378 | 100% | ||
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umpilo | 0 | 179,207,879 | 100% | ||
inumbaone | 0 | 102,542,834 | 100% | ||
ngibonakakhulu | 0 | 110,564,674 | 100% | ||
upvoteandresteem | 0 | 56,973,408 | 100% | ||
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humanlogic | 0 | 365,390,611 | 100% | ||
fuckology | 0 | 456,903,301 | 100% | ||
cokebottle | 0 | 229,987,538 | 100% | ||
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jayzway | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
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