Big mouth! by rem-steem

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hive-190212 · @rem-steem · May 19 '22

$22.86

Big mouth!

Being an introvert for my whole life I have clashed a lot in expressing myself. I have been in a situation thousands of times where I felt like I should disagree, I should talk back but I couldn't.

Especially when I started my professional life, I felt the urgency to talk for myself. But my introverted self didn't entitle me to say anything, to put up my voice.

But then I managed to make a slight *personally change*. It was not intentional though.

*Motherhood made me strong.*

It increased my protection mood naturally. I learned to raise my voice when anything went wrong with my child. Doing this for years allowed me become a different person gradually.

Now people tag me as a *big mouth*!

And I'm not ashamed about it.

![photo-1574892986284-ec7b6181bf04.jpg](https://images.hive.blog/DQmRxxrtyAE5nN89eLpRK66gsd92UEigP623xW5iP33x957/photo-1574892986284-ec7b6181bf04.jpg)
[img](https://unsplash.com/photos/TqS6pLZ0X-8)

For me, being big-mouthed is okay. It benefited me a lot to establish my points. In this world who would listen to an introvert? It may sound wired. But I feel subjective about it that it helped me.

In a big family, we know how it works. People will only listen and value those who are being heard. No one will notice the tight-lipped kid, right? I was always being the less privileged.

Maybe I have had enough. It was necessary to veer around my personality. I wouldn't say I became an extrovert. But I sure became more comfortable around people. That big-mouthed thing encouraged me to start a conversation on my own even with a stranger. I can sit with family members and take the lead in a conversation. I managed to establish my points.

It's a huge achievement for me.

Recently, I entered myself into an argument in a family gathering, after the wedding party of my brother. I cut off some invalid arguments of some of my older relatives. Others were saying I need to shut down but I didn't. Why would I? They got the chance to say the invalid words years after years because we didn't try to establish my points. Now it's time.

People don't like big-mouthed in general. But who cares! We don't live for others.

If you are big-mouthed, know that it's an advantage many of us are looking for. So chill.

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@darthhelios · May 19 '22

$0.02

>If you are big-mouthed, know that it's an advantage many of us are looking for. So chill.
>>Literally me. I am pretty good at it. My words can even kill you from inside science I am also good at understanding people. But sometimes it makes me lose myself. But I am always ready to accept my mistakes. So for people like us balance is too important. Most importantly if we could use this gift in the right place at the proper time believe me it can do wonders because I have walked on that path.

👍 rem-steem

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@rem-steem · May 22 '22

I agree with you. This behavior comes with some negative sides as well. But we should learn to balance and keep in mind about there is time and place for everything. 
Thanks for sharing your words.

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