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说话意思要表达清楚,切忌长篇大论 by rivalhw

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说话意思要表达清楚,切忌长篇大论
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<p>  今天看到一则新闻,是发生在以色列的一则案件。事情大致是这样的,有一对年轻夫妻打算租房子,在最后确认租房时,两人给房东发了一串表情:笑脸、彗星、香槟酒瓶、跳舞的兔女郎还有一只花栗鼠的表情符。那位房东以为对方同意租房子了,于是就把房屋信息从中介那里撤回,结果等夫妻俩不回短信以后,房东就把他们告上了法庭。听起来是不是很搞笑?<br>
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<p>  可能会有人说,这房东也是有问题,人家对方并没有明确说要租你的房子啊,为什么还要告别人呢?这个在我看来,这对年轻夫妇在同房东沟通时,虽然没有明文表达出自己要租房的文字,打在回应对方时发送的那一系列表情符,基本等同或者默认了确认的意思,否则如果不同意,完全可以明确表达,或者发送个类似No的表情符号,因为表达意思的不够准确,给那位房东造成了困扰,结果对方以为是要租房子,把信息从中介那里收回。<br>
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<p>  其实今天我要说的并不是表情符号,而是想讲下生活中的表达。现实生活中,因为表达不清楚,无论有意或者无意,都会给别人带来一定困扰甚至误解,无意还好,解释清楚就好,但却有这样一些人,表达时总是含含糊糊,本来很简单的意思,很明白的道理,偏偏却要长篇大论,滔滔不绝,还美其名曰:健谈。其实是废话连天。<br>
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<p>  在现代社会里,人们每天要面对大量的信息,各种各样的所谓学习和培训接踵而来,让人不由得眼花缭乱。我参加一些会议时,常常会看到这样一种情况,就是演讲者在台上长篇大论,夸夸其谈,说到激动处不由振臂高呼,情绪激动,但反观台下的人多数无精打采、王顾左右而言他,要么左右窃窃私语,要么埋头玩手机,这种会议通常是无趣的。<br>
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<p>  相比长篇大论滔滔不绝的人,就是表达意思的不准确或模糊了,这个更令人生厌,有些人喜欢在生活中玩那种故弄玄虚的一套,本来很简单的事情,偏偏挤眉弄耳,故作神秘,这个是一种,一般比较容易识别。<br>
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<p>  但又有一种人,说话就比较“高明”,让一般人很难识破。比如说一件事情,他会故意地放出一些话,但又不明说或点破,而在听者方面,就如同上述那位房东,自然而言就理解成对方潜意识暗示的那种意思,说话但又不说清楚,这种装腔作势的人现实中更是比比皆是。<br>
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<p>  当然,我认为我们做事时也应该更加谨慎些,很多时候想当然的想法也是一样不可取的。比如领导吩咐你去发资料给对方,你在发送之后,也应该同对方确认下包括内容核实等,而不是只是简单地发出去就认为对方一定会收到和理解,而当被问及时,却还在那里自我委屈:我明明发给对方了呀,这又关我什么错呢?<br>
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<p>  那么先前这件案子的结果怎样了呢?法院在弄清楚事情的原委后,明确认为这对夫妻在商谈中没有诚意,最后判处他们支付一个月的房租作为赔偿。<br>
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@angelina6688 ·
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这件事双方都有责任呢(⁄ ⁄•⁄ω⁄•⁄ ⁄)
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@joythink ·
我觉得租客有问题,你发那些个表情,想表达什么意思呢?又不是很熟,谁知道你的想法呢?对于房东来说,他撤回信息,是他自己对自己的行为不负责任,你追问一句,很难吗?也许不同的国家,对不同的表达方式的理解不一样吧
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@rivalhw ·
你这是各打三十大板。
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@asif4745 ·
wow nice post,,,,
 this is really amazing............/////////////
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@bontive ·
really
![117.jpg](https://steemitimages.com/DQmXroJ3dVXYvD7CGNq98Q6n3B8BsbhXu6bri1fxpxm2dUn/117.jpg)
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@breathewind ·
这个案件感觉像是不愿意表达清楚自己意思的人遇到了揣着明白装糊涂的人
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@bungaterakhir ·
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Nice post friend
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@deanliu · (edited)
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原文是這個,^_^ .....  [source](https://www.engadget.com/2017/05/21/israeli-court-emojis/)
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@rivalhw ·
:)
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@faisal79 ·
thank you so much for share with us
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@fr3eze ·
最后的判决还真的是没有问题。不过我是房东也不会贸贸然因为一些表情就做出决定。
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@gaul · (edited)
Good article
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@hannahwu ·
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😂还好我是个言简意赅的人~
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@hhjjkk ·
“你午饭吃什么了?”
“吃了”
“你午饭吃什么了!?”
“吃午饭啊”
“我问你,午饭吃了什么!?”
“吃米饭啊”
“光吃米饭,没有菜啊!?”
“有菜啊”

我身边两个朋友的日常对话,在旁边的我,憋的难受/捂脸
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@jose92 ·
很好的观念,值得学习
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@kikima ·
商业谈判时候,yes就是yes,No就是No,切记莫名两可!
生活中也是如此,有时候我们中国人由于好面子,喜欢说一大堆好话后再婉拒,给对方理解造成了错觉,其实一开始就言简意赅的表达自己的意愿是最好不过了!:)

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@leftbank ·
$0.57
不能同意更多!
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@mdmunna ·
wow very excellent post Thanks for sharing i will done upvote..
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@meixia ·
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我属于谨慎的人,要得到对方的准确答案才去做,如果对方说得模棱两可,我会去确定最终答案,得到回复才放心。
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@rivalhw ·
这是很好的做事方式。
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@meixia ·
因为被不靠谱的人坑过,所以吃一堑长一智。
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@mengkun ·
比如表情包,微笑😊
有的人就认为是:静静的看着你笑
所以表情也有很多滥用的!出现理解偏差。
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@nostalgic1212 ·
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在时间有限的情况下,我喜欢进行“有效沟通”,虽然这样子时候的我说话会看起来比较“冲”;
另外一点就是,要理解对方不想继续说下去了的暗示,是时候的终止对话,不能造成别人的困扰
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@rivalhw ·
对的。
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@nostalgic1212 ·
[塞翁失马| 听故事学中文](https://cnsteem.com/cn-study/@vickylin/ekesa-vicky-or)
大伟哥,我来投稿啦,希望没贴错地方😂
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@renzhichu ·
说话真的是个技术活,有些人可能本不想长篇大论,但总是做不到简明扼要,只能长篇大论了。
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@seabearflying ·
说话要切中要害!感谢分享!
如果可以,请回访我的新帖:关于鸭肉粥的一些。谢谢!
https://busy.org/busy/@seabearflying/2zej6n-or
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@tetas08 ·
$0.08
<html>
<h3><code>English Version On Today's Article:&nbsp;</code></h3>
<ol>
  <li>&nbsp;<em>Seeing a news today is a case in Israel. Things are roughly like this, a young couple intends to rent a house, in the final confirmation of the rental, they gave the landlord a string of expression: smiley face, comet, champagne bottle, dancing bunny girl and a chipmunk emoticon. The landlord thought that the other party agreed to rent a house, so he withdrew the house information from the agency. As a result, the couple brought them to court after the couple did not return the text message. Does this sound funny?&nbsp;</em></li>
  <li><em>&nbsp;Some people may say that this landlord is also having problems. People do not explicitly say that they want to rent your house. Why do you have to tell others? This seems to me, when the young couple communicated with the landlord, although they did not expressly express the words they wanted to rent, the series of emoticons they sent when they responded to each other were basically the same or default to the confirmed meaning. If you don't agree, you can express yourself clearly or send a No-like emoji because the expression is not accurate enough to cause trouble to the landlord. As a result, the other person thinks that he wants to rent a house and take the information back from the intermediary.</em></li>
  <li><em>&nbsp;Actually, what I want to say today is not an emoji but I want to talk about the expression in my life. In real life, because of unclear expression, whether intentional or unintentional, it will bring certain troubles and even misunderstandings to others. It is okay to explain it clearly. However, there are people who are always vague in their expression. The simple meaning, very clear reason, but it has to be lengthy, never stop, but also its name: talkative. In fact, it is nonsense.&nbsp;</em></li>
  <li><em>&nbsp;In modern society, people have to deal with a large amount of information every day. Various kinds of so-called learning and training come one after another. People can't help but dazzle. When I participate in some meetings, I often see a situation in which the speaker makes a big speech on the stage and boasts that he can't help shouting and excitement when he talks about excitement, but the majority of people under the table look listless and Wang Gu Speaking of him, either whispering around or burying his head on a cell phone, such meetings are usually boring.&nbsp;</em></li>
  <li><em>&nbsp;Compared with people who are talking about a long story, they are inaccurate or obscure. This is even more boring. Some people like to play in the life of a mystery set. , pretending to be mysterious, this is a kind of, generally easier to identify.&nbsp;</em></li>
  <li><em>&nbsp;However, there is another type of person who speaks more "smart" and makes it difficult for ordinary people to see through. For example, one thing, he will deliberately release some words, but it is not clear or break, and in terms of the listener, as the landlord mentioned above, it is natural to understand the meaning of the subconsciousness of the other side, but to speak Not to mention clearly, this kind of poser's reality is everywhere.&nbsp;</em></li>
  <li><em>&nbsp;Of course, I think we should be more cautious when we do things, and many times the thoughts of taking things for granted are just as undesirable. For example, the leader told you to send the information to the other party. After you send it, you should also confirm with the other person including verification of the contents, etc. Instead of simply sending it out, you think that the other party will surely receive and understand it. When asked, it will be timely. I was still wronged there: I sent it to the other party. What's wrong with me?&nbsp;</em></li>
  <li><em>&nbsp;What happened to the previous case? After clarifying the circumstances of the matter, the court clearly stated that the couple was not sincere in the negotiations and finally sentenced them to pay rent for one month as compensation. </em><br>
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<blockquote><strong>This Article Written By: </strong><a href="https://steemit.com/@rivalhw"><strong>rivalhw</strong></a><strong>&nbsp;</strong></blockquote>
<p><strong>Thanks My Friend For Share Such A Nice Article.</strong></p>
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@tumutanzi ·
$1.63
说话如此,写文章也是一样。
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@rivalhw ·
对的。
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@wangwenjing ·
表态时,需要用明确语言准确传达信息。有些人可能随意惯了,在重要事情上也将这种随意带进来,是非常不可取的。
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@wilhb81 ·
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@rivalhw 这件事,觉得两方最大的问题 = 没有确认双方的最终意愿。有些时候,该说的话,还是要说清楚~
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@rivalhw ·
说清楚,不啰嗦。
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