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· @rivalhw · (edited)
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谁焦虑了?
现在的商家,常常喜欢标新立异,原本这是好事,有创新才更有吸引力嘛。

但,像洗手间这类地方,是人们必须的地方,主要作用是方便,如果搞得太创新了,反而容易弄巧成拙,甚至有时让人尴尬不已。

我之前见过一些商场,把男、女的标志,弄得非常相似,都说人有三急,要不急还罢了,真碰上着急的人,急着想上厕所,好不容易找到商场厕所入口,对着两边男女不分的标志,真是既生气又无奈。

这也罢了,前几日,在网上看到有商家,整出更另类的标识,让人看了后,不觉哑然失笑,如下图,


![001.png](https://images.hive.blog/DQmRDUgXQoBj1pEhMths7oupdWLqH7iAVBd62JLReYkuacP/001.png)
据说这是某地洗手间的标识


如果让小朋友们看到,要问起来,还真是让人犯难,不知如何解释。

好在这个标识上边还有文字能识别,不然走到门口,还得来个脑筋急转弯先。囧

昨天晚上的时候,听到孩子妈妈训斥老大。

最近老大学习,很不认真,嗯,就是经常不在状态,偶尔还撒谎,明明作业没做完,问起来,却谎称说已经做完了,前几日,因为这个原因,被我狠狠地拍了下屁股,这不,不知道什么原因,又惹怒了孩子妈妈。

我听着外边传来的声音,孩子妈妈嗓门越来越大,想到老大最近的表现,心里也来气,心想这小子,真是让人操碎心。

等到平息后,我叫老大进来房间,问他原因,他站在那里也不吭声,一想就知道是他理亏,哑口无言,因此才不说话呗。

问孩子妈妈,果然是因为学习上的事情,老师发来错误订正,结果老大这家伙,非但不订正,还跟妈妈发脾气,惹得他妈妈大发雷霆,这才有了先前那一幕。

我听明原委,心里自然也生气呀,恨不得打他屁股,这孩子,怎么这么不让人省心呢?

虽然还是忍住了,但仍然忍不住责备他一番,这家伙也不吭声,就站在那里。

过一会,我叫他过来,父子两人坐在沙发上,我问他最近到底怎么回事?他还是不怎么说话。


![12_23_002.jpg](https://images.hive.blog/DQmYgMhvKoT9Cf5pZ8UZjc7WhMkRCuVKh9Zb2PFortLQCYT/12_23_002.jpg)


![12_23_003.jpg](https://images.hive.blog/DQmdSMSR1JJbsdr46nTE6LmbdMcVckseKwpXws8pozrkUby/12_23_003.jpg)


晚上睡觉时,我回想了下,老大的问题,主要是出在贪玩和不懂得安排自己时间,比如这个周末,周五回家跟弟弟玩,周六冬至这天也是玩,没怎么做作业,等到周日下午才开始做。

临近期末,每个学科的老师,都布置了许多作业,加起来作业量自然不少,老大下午一直在做,一直做到晚上7点多,估计心里也是很烦了,这个时候妈妈再让他做老师发的订正内容,自然很是抗拒。。。

问题就出在这里,于是就发生了先前那一幕。

孩子有问题,大人就没问题了吗?答案自然不是,我也有问题。孩子学习上碰到问题,应该是合理引导,而不是平时当甩手掌柜疏于管,一管就严厉。

还有个最大问题,是隐藏式的,就是作为成年人的我,过于焦虑,看到孩子不好好学习,过多对他的未来焦虑(或者说是把自己的焦虑潜移默化转嫁到孩子身上),自然而然,就很容易发脾气,打骂孩子。。。

估计,这便是问题的最根本所在了。

说到底,表面上看是为孩子好,其实是自己在过多焦虑了。

次日孩子上学后,我对老婆讲,等今天他回家后,尽量不要再责骂他,还是要多鼓励,毕竟,让他养成一个好的心态,远比提高那点成绩,要重要的多的多。
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@celeste413 ·
”我听着外边传来的声音,孩子妈妈嗓门越来越大,想到老大最近的表现,心里也来气,心想这小子,真是让人操碎心。“
哈哈  看出来了 哥嫂同心  没有治不了的孩子呀~ 不过确实养成好习惯更重要,现在学习卷得那么厉害,但是对小孩并不一定很好~
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@cherryzz ·
这洗手间的图标。。。

其实也真的是大人焦虑,总找对标来对比自己的孩子,其实每个孩子都有优点,都很优秀😀
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@rivalhw ·
其实是大人过于焦虑了
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@coco666 ·
有的洗手间图标 确实分不清 只能跟着前面的😂
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@darknightlive ·
娃有娃的生活啊,哎!帮不了多少的
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@rivalhw ·
我也想佛系,可惜很难做到啊😀😀
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@davidke20 · (edited)
RE: 谁焦虑了?
我是被那个方块砖厕所识标吸引进来的🤣 大伟知道我们马国和泰国很多“中”性人吧🤣🤣🤣

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@rivalhw ·
还真不知道哦🤣🤣
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@davidke20 ·
嗯嗯。我们这里粤语形容他/她们为,万能插槽

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@jychbetter ·
哪天我也拍一下,塞尔维亚厕所标志
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@liumei ·
没有完美的人、没有完美的孩子。各自都有各自的路,人生是用来体验的👬👭👫
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@love5200 ·
洗手间的标识弄得十分相似,这个真的不能理解啊,万一走错了真尴尬。。
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@trina77 ·
小孩子贪玩是天性呢!如果能够合理安排时间倒是不用过多焦虑,可孩子自主性总是要差一些
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@rivalhw ·
是啊,自主性差
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@zhangyan-123 ·
确实是心态更重要,有时候大人会把自己的焦虑投射到孩子身上,最近看的一本书,《陪伴孩子终生成长》,我觉得很不错!
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