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我想,我可能已经“失去了”少年时的一位好友
昶是我中学时的同学,也是我少年时的好友。

昶的家境不是特别好,母亲在家,父亲靠卖豆腐养活他们一家人,供昶读书。

我跟昶那时候关系很好,昶的家离我外婆家很近,去外婆家或者假期的时候,我经常会去昶家里。昶的父母很热情,知道我跟昶是同学关系又好,每次见到我都是乐呵呵。

我跟昶那时候是哥们,经常在一起玩,有时候时间晚了,干脆当天就睡在昶家里。那时候我们坚信,我们的友谊会这样一直持久下去,就像电视里演的那样。

昶读完中学后就没再读书,据说去了外省某个城市打工去了,那时候没网络,没手机,电话都难得打一次,好几年都没昶的消息。

我过年有次回家,初二去我外婆家拜年时,专门去了昶家里,发现昶过年也没回家,看到我,昶的父母很是高兴,昶的父亲激动的搓着手,似乎不知道该放到哪里,而昶的妈妈高兴之余可能想起了以前,眼神中难免有些失落。

我问昶的父母,他们也不知道昶在干什么,家里没电话,接个电话需要去村长家里,昶跟他们联系的很少,上一次昶打来电话,已经差不多快半年前的事情了。

我毕业后去了沿海城市,开始了新的环境和生活。上班的生活是新鲜的,我在单位里认识了许多新同事,也结识了几个不错的朋友。那时候单身,过着“一人吃饱,全家不饿”的的生活,自然是无忧无虑。

有一天,我忽然收到昶发的信息,嗯,是在QQ上收到的信息,那时候还没有微信。昶在QQ里问我过的怎么样?没聊几句后,问我能不能借他些钱,他手头有些紧。

老实说,我那时候手上攒了点钱,但是不巧的是,前一天刚好汇给家里了,刚好卡里的钱也只够自己到下个月发工资。

我回复昶,说手上暂时没有,等到下个月发了工资。。。

我说这话的时候,的确是这么想的,说的心安理得。可结果呢,我把这件事给忘了。。。等到想起来后,已经是几个月后的事情了。

这期间,我没有收到昶给我发的信息,我当时还宽慰自己,昶没再问我,大概率是暂时不急用钱了。

嗯,在钱这方面谁没私心啊,既然对方没再问,我也不好总再去问吧?


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前两年的时候,有个同学来广州,晚上一起聚的时候,同学说起昶,好像是在老家省城工作,喝到高兴处,同学打了视频电话,电话那头昶正躺在床上,一如以前读书时的滑稽搞笑模样。同学知道我跟昶之前关系很好,让我跟昶聊。

我接过电话,昶看到我,先前的笑容立马收住,表情变得很不自然,我也很尴尬,随意聊了几句后,便借故将手机递还同学。

嗯,那天后,我加了昶的微信,昶也通过了我的好友,但我们俩人都没说话,一个字都没说。

前几天的时候,我忽然想起了昶,找到他的微信,试探发了个信息,

“昶”

我很担心微信提示我,

“某某开启了朋友验证,你还不是他(她)朋友。。。”

好在看到信息成功发了出去,说明昶没把我从他的好友列表里删除。

但是,已经过去几天了,昶依旧没有回复我信息。

我想,我可能已经“失去了”少年时的一位好友。
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@acactus1013 ·
有多少朋友 因为借钱。越走越远……哈哈放宽心吧,那不是真正的朋友。
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@ailgoy ·
多年前我同学找我借钱,那时候我也困难没有钱借,想到曾经很要好,于是我刷了2千信用卡借给她,说好到下个月发工资还我的,结果她转头就把我拉黑了~🤣🤣
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@angelina6688 ·
以前很多骗子都是盗号好友Qq然后借钱,很多案例的。网上找我借钱的我都当做骗子,真正借钱都是当面或者打电话
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@bxt ·
借钱这个事儿,碰到不讲究的是真没辙,借钱的是大爷,不催人家不着急。 之前借给同学1000, 好多年后才还,还的时候还是800 , 她可能记错了,我也没说啥,因为当时也没借条,也不是现在的微信转账,一点儿证据都没有。这事儿就那么过去了,不过心里还是有点别扭的,就当赞助了吧! 
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@celeste413 ·
大伟哥如果把钱借给他了,那就是人财两失😆😆我就经历过借钱给同学,结果拖了七年没还清,最后被他删除了,还骂我的事~
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@love5200 ·
或许他正在经历着什么,如果微信还在,后续某一天看到了会回复;其实年少的友谊很难得,不要因为误会而失去。给他一点时间。
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@magicmonk ·
@tipu curate 6
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@sunflor ·
有些年少的朋友就是这样渐行渐远,心里有些遗憾,但也是没办法
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@trina77 ·
这…我怎么突然想到是不是这半年他过的并不好,我可能有点担心,不过话说回来你们这么多年没有联系,都已经不是过去的你们了,不在一座城市,交集就更少了
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@yichen111 ·
年少的情谊越长大越觉得珍贵,那时候比较单纯,比较纯粹。
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@zhangyan-123 ·
借钱这个事情确实都有私心,我们之前借给别人的钱,也是说好一周后还,结果几年才还,而且人都走了😂
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