晚上洗澡的时候,听见有人敲门,我猜测一定是老大,因为只有他才会做这样“不礼貌”的事情。 洗过澡后,我走进房间,看到老大和二宝各自坐在桌子前,老大正在复习英语单词,二宝在那里背诵唐诗,我装作不知情问, “刚才是谁在敲门?” 老大赶快抬起头,一手指下弟弟,跟我告状, “弟弟刚才把那个玩具弄坏了”。 我看了下弟弟,他好像知道自己干了错事,只是低着头,没说话。 见我没说话,老大又神补一刀, “他还把坏了的玩具放到玩具箱子里了。。。” 我这时候忍不住开口了, “弟弟是那样的吗?” 二宝还是没说话,只是脸上露出一丝羞怯,和那种做了错事的囧表情。 “玩具弄坏了不要紧,爸爸不会批评你们的,毕竟不是故意的。”我跟他们两兄弟说, “但是,玩具弄坏了,却悄悄放到玩具箱,假装没发生一样,这样的行为可就不对了哦”。 二宝听到我这话,脸更害羞了,头也更低了。 “知道错了,爸爸就不批评你了,下次注意就好!”我摸了下二宝的头,他点了点头,应该是听进去了。 ![bicycle-gdaeda1a6b_1280.jpg](https://images.hive.blog/DQmRiZ59rxZcMtAqVd864jW5XDjKCBxuM9c4DJLAmwz6PvL/bicycle-gdaeda1a6b_1280.jpg) Image by <a href="https://pixabay.com/users/engin_akyurt-3656355/?utm_source=link-attribution&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=image&utm_content=3045580" class="keychainify-checked">Engin Akyurt</a> from <a href="https://pixabay.com//?utm_source=link-attribution&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=image&utm_content=3045580" class="keychainify-checked">Pixabay</a> 我前阵子看到一个关于教育孩子的方法,大致是讲,当孩子犯错时,已经知道自己错误了,就不要再继续批评孩子,更不要喋喋不休。另外,后续时类似行为,也要多留意,有时候不一定是孩子故意的,很可能是因为年龄太小,贪玩,或者很容易就忘记了,发生了再提醒下,只要改正了,及时表扬他,以后注意不要再犯,就很好了。 这个方法我个人觉得很适合我,我已经尝试在学以致用,身体力行。 我其实喜欢多了解孩子的一些情况,尤其是当他们背着你做了一些不想让你知道的事情,这个时候,告状似乎是个很好的了解“信息”的聚道。但我又不喜欢“告状”,原因不言而喻,告状容易破坏伤害人与人之间的感情。囧 还好,孩子之间只是偶尔“告状”,大概是他们觉得告诉给我,我会更公正地评断吧。 pixabay.com是我用了几年的图库,前几天时,准备在上边找张免费图片,结果提示如下图信息, ![009.png](https://images.hive.blog/DQmSUdNZZaPb12EVvRgS8AekBQK6sUPVK5uPyFmhMe8VnPr/009.png) 大意是不允许Russia地区的人访问,我看了下,我当时链接的VPN地址, ![010.png](https://images.hive.blog/DQmf847oNCmg3ekNanGChsLa75UmvmVZSFB59cEFronncPJ/010.png) 因为这VPN链接如果你不选择的话,默认是随机的,这次链接上的恰好是俄罗斯。 俄罗斯跟乌克兰之间的战争,大家都知道,只是,不让老百姓使用图库,这有点让人不理解,毕竟战争又不是普通老百姓能决定的事情,这又算不算的上 “城门失火殃及池鱼”呢?
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是不是老大平时挨批比较多, 所以用告状的方式拉老二下水,看看老二被批是啥样。🤣
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这种教育方式非常的好,我也学习到了。
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这脚踏车,这壁画,不就是马来西亚槟城著名的旅游景点。真怀念... (只有我的留言离题了)😅
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这副画我也非常喜欢呢,赞
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大伟哥是位细心的好爸爸。如何教育好下一代真是门学问。
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好方法,真棒哟!👍👍
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哇,学到了👍👍👍
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大伟老师是位非常有耐心的好爸爸👍👍👍
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👍👍👍教育孩子有方法!
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