我不少同学朋友都在硬撑着要二胎，主要是为了给老大找个伴

感觉我们小区里要二胎的“勇士”还是不少的。
我就不趟这趟浑水了。。。。。。
养不起，也不想一辈子被孩子束缚(´ー`)y━~~

看来，只是地方不同，抓计生手段都差不多。我感觉，孩子的教育问题都是跟风惹的祸，大家都不跟也挺好。

English Version Of This Awesome Article Written By Teacher @rivalhw!
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#### Second child? Three children?

Those who have read Mo Yan's novel “Big Breast and Buttocks” will certainly be impressed by some of the family planning-related issues in the novel. In fact, after I read it, I feel that although it is a novel, it actually happened.

About 30 years ago, when my mother was pregnant with my sister, she also went to her relatives and her family to escape from her and her pregnant women. Now young people may not feel much about it. We must know that The family planning policy of the country did not take long to implement, and it was very strict. Therefore, when implementing the policy below, it is relatively simple and crude. For example, the family planning inspectors will come to the village regularly to check and find that there is a single birth. Women are required to undergo sterilization, and if they are men, they should do ligation. Of course, because only one person in the same family can do it, the average man rarely does ligation, but most women do sterilization.

For those who have just had a second child, they will be forced to undergo abortion once they are found. For those surviving families, the solution is more consistent, that is, fines. If fines are handed in, they will not be pursued. If the fines are not paid, the staff members will come to the house to remind them that if they have not paid the fines, they will be forcibly removed from the house. However, rural people generally did not have too many valuable assets, perhaps the most valuable are the livestock at home, such as cattle, sheep, pigs, etc., so it is often seen when every family planning staff comes to the village, pregnant women scattered away, people who did not pay fines panic. The land was closed, but all this did not seem to be effective. Those people had some measures. The doors and walls could even be pushed down. The cattle, sheep and pigs would naturally be forced to pull away and confiscated the fines for the excesses, leaving a messy and messy mess.

Of course, if we recall this period of history after thirty years, we will feel that some of them are more cruel, but they also understand that they can understand. Because of patriarchal thinking, families without boys want boys, and families with boys also want more lives. In "many people are more powerful," many children are just "more pairs of chopsticks," etc. Under the thinking of the people, the skyrocketing population is inevitable. It is also true that because the population is growing too fast, the government has to adopt a mandatory family planning policy.

Time flies, time flies. Nearly forty years later, with the skyrocketing housing prices and the increasing pressure on cities to survive, coupled with changes in people’s traditional attitudes, most families are generally a child, even after the previous year’s policy officially released their second child, the population’s The growth rate is far below today’s estimate, and the main reason is that “it is easy to have children and it is difficult to raise children”.

Why do you say that? Let’s not say that modern young people almost empty their “six purses” (male and female, father and mother, and grandparents) when they buy a house, as well as the pressure for repayment, and the cost of attending school for children. If it is a public school, the cost is relatively low. Many, but other extra-curricular interests and hobbies, training fees, etc., are mixed up every month is not a small sum of expenditure, there are the most critical, the child who brought? After all, the number of families that can afford to use babysitters is still small, and the news of the dark side of the society that is occasionally exposed, unless it is really impossible, is always unsettling.

After thinking about it, it is still safer to trust it to the school. However, from time to time, even the listing company’s own kindergarten, including Ctrip, has children being abused.

At this time, grandparents are very old. The most important thing is that many people of the previous generation came to live in the city. Adapting to life in the city is also a problem. The rest can only be resigned by both husband and wife to take the child full time at home, but at the thought that the loan is not returned, the child's various education and training costs, family expenses, etc., the head began to grow, and would like to resign from full-time child Hey, you still have to wait for it.

As for wanting to regenerate a child? Not to mention three children, the second child did not dare to look down.

Even if we fully liberalize the family planning policy, I believe that for most people, this is not too exciting, and at most it is only one more news.

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#### This is indeed a very good Novel and you summarized it very well dear @rivalhw. Keep it up and always stay blessed!

鹅民不够用  赶紧爆人口

@rivalhw, This novel I like, I have never read it, where can I get a novel, is there a form of Pdf, or is on the website, let me search.

I agree, despite the fiction, but it is also true. i`am From Indonesia.

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<p><strong>Hello Sir,</strong></p>
<p>Good evening!&nbsp;</p>
<p>How are you?</p>
<p>Hopefully you are good at the grace of God.Today is your first blog post, I started the translation in three international languages by expressing my heartfelt respect and love for you.</p>
<p><strong>English version:</strong></p>
<p>Those who have read Mo Yan's novel “Big Breast and Buttocks” will certainly be impressed by some of the family planning-related issues in the novel. In fact, after I read it, I feel that, although it is a novel, it actually happened.<br>
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<p>About 30 years ago, when my mother was pregnant with my sister, she also went to her relatives and her family to escape from her and her pregnant women. Now young people may not feel much about it. We must know that the country’s The family planning policy did not take long to implement, and it was very strict. Therefore, the implementation of policies below is relatively simple and crude. For example, family planning inspectors regularly come to the village to check and find that if one pregnancy occurs, one birth will occur. Women are required to undergo sterilization, and if they are men, they should do ligation. Of course, because only one person in the same family can do it, the average man rarely does ligation, but most women do sterilization.<br>
</p>
<p>For those who have just had a second child, they will be forced to undergo abortion surgery once they are found. For those surviving families, the solution is more consistent, that is, fines. If fines are handed in, they will not be pursued. If the fines are not paid, the staff members will come to the house to remind them that if they have not paid the fines, they will be forcibly removed from the house at home. However, rural people generally did not Too many valuable assets, perhaps the most valuable are the livestock at home, such as cattle, sheep, pigs, etc., so it is often seen when the family planning staff came to the village, pregnant women scattered away, people who did not pay fines panic. The land was closed, but all this did not seem to be effective. Those people had some measures. The doors and walls could even be pushed down. The cattle, sheep and pigs would naturally be forced to pull away and confiscated the fines for the excesses, leaving a messy and messy mess.<br>
</p>
<p>Of course, if we recall this period of history after thirty years, we will feel that some of them are more cruel, but they also understand that they can understand. Because of patriarchal thinking, no boy's family wants a boy, and a boy's family also wants to live a few more times. In "many people are more powerful," many children are just "more pairs of chopsticks," etc. Under the thinking of the people, the skyrocketing population is inevitable. It is also true that because the population is growing too fast, the government has to adopt a mandatory family planning policy.</p>
<p>Time flies, time flies. Nearly forty years later, with the skyrocketing housing prices and the increasing pressure on cities to survive, coupled with changes in people’s traditional attitudes, most families are generally a child, even after the previous year’s policy officially released their second child, the population’s The growth rate is far below today's estimate, and the most important reason is that "it is easy to have children and it is difficult to raise children."</p>
<p>Why do you say that? Let’s not say that modern young people almost empty their “six purses” (male and female, father and mother, and grandparents) when they buy a house, as well as the pressure for repayment, and the cost of attending school for children, if the public school is relatively inexpensive. Many, but other extra-curricular interests and hobbies, training fees, etc., are mixed up every month is not a small sum of expenditure, there are the most critical, the child who brought? After all, the number of families that can afford to use babysitters is still small, and the news of the dark side of the society that is occasionally exposed, unless it is really impossible, will always make people unable to be practical.<br>
</p>
<p>After thinking about it, it is still safer to trust it to the school. However, from time to time, even the listing company’s own kindergarten, including Ctrip, has children being abused.<br>
</p>
<p>At this time, grandparents are very old. The most important thing is that many people of the previous generation came to live in the city. Adapting to life in the city is also a problem. The only thing left is for the husband and wife to resign and take the child full time at home. However, at the thought that the loan is not returned, the child’s education and training expenses, and family expenses, the head begins to grow and he wants to resign. Hey, you still have to wait for it.</p>
<p>As for wanting to regenerate a child? Not to mention three children, the second child did not dare to look down.</p>
<p>Even if we fully liberalize the family planning policy, I believe that for most people, this is not too exciting, and at most it is only one more news.&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>Dear visitors, please read the previous blog post of sir;</strong></p>
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<p>Sir, give my sincere honor to your family and give your children my affection.</p>
<p>I pray to God to be your longevity.</p>
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<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;olvio</p>
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偷偷告诉你们,我有三个女儿,还好不在大中国,不然要苦必死了!!

其实对于很多现在的年轻人来说连一胎都不想生或者说是不敢生，养不起。

在大中国，有胆量生的都是勇士！！佩服~

我遇到过一位朋友，貌似是安徽的，她说她妈妈为了躲避工作人员，逃到了墓地，然后恰巧，她要诞生了……于是她在墓地里出生了......

放开二孩儿对于我们没感觉，总觉得70后是委屈的一代人，压力山大啊！

政策随便一放开，我们也就随便一听，该怎样还怎样，哈哈😄