借钱那点事儿 by rivalhw

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cn-reader · @rivalhw · Sep 26 '19 (edited)

$4.55

借钱那点事儿

大约十五年前，那时我在一家单位上班。一位曾经的同事来找我，开始也没说什么事，还在我那住了几天。因为之前在这同一家单位共过事，大家相处的还是很不错，我也是有吃有喝招待对方。

　　住了几天后，他说家里有事就走了。

　　没过阵子，有一天，我接到对方打来的电话，在电话里，对方跟我说他妈妈得了什么重病，大约内容是很严重的样子，急需要手术。。。

　　我直接就问他是不是需要借钱？对方迟疑了下说是，并说了个数目。

　　挂断电话后，因为当时还是上午上班时间，但我一直心里挂记这事，待中午一下班，就急忙奔向离公司最近的一家银行，取了3000块钱，当即给对方转了过去。

　　后来，再后来就没有下文了。直到十五年后的今天，我依旧没有这个前同事加我自认为“好友”的任何消息，感觉他从此就如同人间蒸发了般。

　　3000块钱今天看来是不多，但要知道在十五年前，那是我当时近一个月的工资啊。

![piggy-2889044_960_720.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmdKLW3YD5PVYkqzNz9jZCK6PqqrGMcW36Q6ksQw76pUvZ/piggy-2889044_960_720.jpg)
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　　无独有偶，也是在那一年，有一天，我接到一个老乡的电话，开始寒暄了几句，后边也提到了借钱事，说是谈了个女朋友，手上紧些，等发了工资后就马上还。

　　我也是没二话，当时就通过ATM机转给了对方。

　　这次倒没失踪，但奇怪的是，我这位老乡从此就像得了失忆症，从那后再没提起过这事。后来也断断续续跟我联系着，就是从不提当初借过钱这事。

　　也许是对方忘记了？我当时这样安慰自己，有几次甚至都忍不住想挑明了跟对方讲，

　　“当初你借我钱的事你是不是忘了啊？”

　　我甚至都为对方想好了下坡的台阶。

　　“不好意思啊，你看我把这事给忘了。”

　　“啊，没关系的，我就知道是你忘记了，没事没事”。

　　但就是每次见面甚至电话，我都没开过这个口，直到十几年过去，他的娃都十多岁了，依旧没提还钱这事。

　　从此我对借钱这事就有了阴影，我轻易不会去找人借钱，有需要找银行多方便啊，别人找我借钱我就很犯怵。

　　“不借吧？怕驳了对方面子，彼此尴尬。”

　　“借吧？不仅担心钱没了影子，日后见面反而更尴尬。”

　　再加上三十而立成家后，总觉得从前那般率真性情的朋友感觉越来越少，这一借钱，搞不好又加剧了其流失，更加惨淡，想找几个人喝酒都觉困难。

　　好在后来也没有多少人再找我借钱。有那么几次别人找我，也大多被我含含糊糊地掩饰过去了。

　　不是担心钱没了，是真的怕借一个就真的又少一个。

　　真借了，对方一直又不还，见了面对方还未开口说什么，自己反而倒像做错了事的孩子，先内心羞愧起来了，就怕对方先提前借钱这事。

　　你说，这叫什么事儿？

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@annepink · Sep 26 '19

唉╯﹏╰我也是遇过 这样的事... 感觉自己像‘‘有钱人’’似的... 其实自己都穷的要命  心肠软不好🤦‍♀️ 加起来借了都有几万块了... 都没收回来😭
自我反省了一下: 以后不能太过信任人  特别这年头借钱借不得  我是从不问别人借钱的

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@fr3eze · Sep 26 '19

有句话说得好，没有做好收不回钱的心理准备，就别借钱。一旦借了，就当失去了这笔钱。其实说起来容易，很难做到呢。

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@fundurian · Sep 26 '19

我也遇过，借了之后就永远不还了，最好别借

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@hannahwu · Sep 26 '19

$0.02

之前借了同事五万，要了三年，才要到了，现在基本上友尽。
真是谈钱伤感情。

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@hqy · Sep 26 '19

这就叫什么鸟都有。😀😀

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@hykwf233 · Sep 27 '19

最害怕挂着亲戚的名义却没啥来往的来借钱。曾被一个借口搞婚外恋而使对方怀孕的表哥借钱来打胎。平生最痛恨这种人，不借之余还教育了他一顿。不知道事情真假，反正每次看望他父母时都不再搭理我，真心感到心塞！

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@julian2013 · Sep 26 '19

没感觉，因为我是借钱的……

!shop

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@oflyhigh · Sep 26 '19

@rivalhw 
大伟哥，我得了失忆症，急需治疗
大概还差3000块钱的样子
能否帮我一把？微信转给我就行
等我治好了，就还你。

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@partiko · Sep 26 '19

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@sunnyjolly · Sep 26 '19

大伟哥，是属于达则兼济天下那种吗，(#^.^#)

👍 rivalhw

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@teamcn-shop · Sep 26 '19

你好鸭，大伟哥!
@julian2013赠送1枚SHOP币给你！
![](https://ipfs.busy.org/ipfs/QmXmMvqUag8xsUmrwWzYiqwBojWR4ijaGet8xS9m3znLtJ)

目前你总共有： 97.99枚SHOP币
<p><sup>查看或者交易 <code>SHOP币</code> 请到 <a href="https://steem-engine.com/?p=market&t=SHOP">steem-engine.com</a>.</sup></p>
无聊吗？跟我猜拳吧！ **石头，剪刀，布～**

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