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· @rivalhw ·
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左右为难
我向来是反对孩子们去看短视频的,尤其是某音上的短视频。

原因很简单,上边充斥了大量的垃圾视频,而这些视频多数是利用了人性的一些弱点,让人看了后往往欲罢不能,更有许多短视频内容,故意虚张声势、故弄玄虚,甚至许多错误的观点等。。。这些都是我反对孩子们看这些短视频的足够理由。

当然,还有一个重要原因,就是短视频看多了,很容易影响人的注意力集中,长此下去,人会变得很浮躁,对此我深有体会,作为成年人尚且如此不能自拔,况孩童乎?

然而,最近我的观点稍微有些转变,其中的原因是,我发现孩子们有意无意时,总是会跟我聊下一些地理知识,比如世界某个国家的面积和人口等。

开始的时间,我以为他们只是好奇,小孩子嘛,好奇心是有的,但往往热度来的快,也消失的快。但是过了一段时间,我发现他们不仅热情没有消减,反而更热衷于一起讨论了。

这就让我很好奇了,怎么会对这些内容这么感兴趣?

直接问这兄弟俩,自然是没有答案。我问了下老婆,她告诉我,这些都是孩子们自己在短视频上看到的,但是因为我平时禁止他们看短视频,因此他们在我跟前不会看,往往是背着我,偷偷在私下里看这些内容。

我翻看了下视频历史记录,果然许多关于这方面的内容。



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我叫来孩子们,跟他们聊了会,并问他们是不是最近在看短视频?

开始的时候,两个小家伙支支吾吾还不说。显然,他们是记得我之前跟他们讲过,不要看哪些短视频,自然不会承认了。

我宽慰孩子,承诺不会批评他们,当然,前提是要讲实话,虽然我事先已经知道了情况。

见状如此,两个小家伙终于忍不住,你一言我一语讲开了。情况果然跟我事先了解的一样,几乎都是从短视频上看到的。

看得出,两个小家伙对此乐此不疲,非常喜欢。

我忽然想到,在允许孩子看短视频这件事情上,我似乎过于武断了。

我的本意自然不言而喻,但是忽略了一点,短视频上仍然有许多有益的内容,比如孩子们看的这些就是足够的例子。

另外一点,在这个到处充斥着短视频的移动互联网时代,你很难完全和彻底禁止孩子们去看短视频。退一步讲,让成年人的我们完全断绝看短视频,这几乎都无法做到。

既然禁不住,再说了,短视频上也不完全都是不好的内容,那索性就不禁止了,以后可以看短视频,光明正大那种,不用再“偷偷摸摸”。

听到我这样讲,孩子们顿时喜笑颜开,两人还不忘记对望一下,我猜想,他们内心一定会很惊讶,怎么他们的老爸,忽然态度一百八十度大转弯了呢?

虽说以后不再禁止孩子们看短视频,但还是要监督下,不能由他们任性“发展”,还是我的观点,短视频上还是很多垃圾内容,孩子们收看的内容,我会时不时私下里翻看下历史记录,一旦发现有不好的内容,就要提醒下他们。

我忽然想到,万一这两个小家伙哪一天发现了“秘密”,每次看过短视频后,将一些自认为不好的记录从历史记录里偷偷删掉,那我岂不是永远都发现不了?

想到这里,我顿时心里又一阵心烦意乱。

这不放开不行,放开了却很不让人省心啊!真是让我左右为难啊!
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@adyiron ·
给宝贝们一定量的时间看视频,一定要规定时间,另外家长必须监督
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@annepink ·
✔️家长尽量要监督!偶尔看些有益的是可以!放开就要监督!
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@rivalhw ·
监督是必须的
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@tipu ·
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@biaojie ·
网路信息时代,有些时候孩子们需要借助,但又缺乏自律性及筛选好坏的能力,确实很难
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@carolin77 ·
我关注了好些科普类账号,哈哈,是给我自己涨知识,当故事看
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@celeste413 ·
好像小孩子都有这个问题噢  很难控制得了!感觉大伟哥这个看历史记录的方式不错!👍👍
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@love5200 ·
是的,小朋友短视频还是少看。。主要是短视频的水准鱼龙混杂的,都不知道推送给他们的是怎样的视频。。
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@rivalhw ·
确实,太多烂视频小孩子分不清
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@mrpointp ·
西雅也是如此,看见手机和电视就目不转睛。不过话说我们小时候也一样,只要大人不限制,可以看一整天电视。
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@mrspointm ·
得时刻监督着才行 我自己刷短视频有时候不知不觉就刷了一小时 好像也没有收到任何有益的信息 最后卸载
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@rivalhw ·
成年人都这样,孩子更难把握了
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@sylvia1997 ·
做父母真难
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@zhangyan-123 ·
确实放开了也担心看的内容有问题,我家娃也是爱看短视频,还喜欢玩游戏,我感觉这也是他的一种社交,内容方面确实有些担心!😂
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