昨天下午的时候,孩子他奶奶发来微信语音,问二宝的眼镜怎么没看到? 我想了下,应该是放到他妈妈的包里了。事情的起因是这样的,早上我们因为要赶在上班高峰期前赶回广州,所以一大早,天才刚刚发亮,我们就出发往回赶了。因为起床太早,两个孩子都还没怎么睡醒,一脸睡意朦胧,一上高速,三个人都在车上睡着了。而孩子妈妈,为了方便二宝睡觉,就顺手将他的眼镜放在自己包里了。 等送孩子妈妈到了她办公楼下,我再将两个孩子送回家后,就直接去了公司,眼镜自然就忘记了,直到他奶奶问起,才想起这事。 我在微信中回应了下,没隔一会,孩子奶奶发来了语音,大意是讲,带上眼镜是为了纠正孩子的视力,我们却粗心大意云云。 我很了解我妈的脾气,这也是她多年养成的一个习惯。其实她也是心里为孩子好,但说话的语气让人听了还是有些抵触情绪,也正是因为我太熟悉我妈的这种说话语气了,已经觉得习以为常,我媳妇有时候有点抵触,但作为几十年都习惯的家长权威,我不好当面直接跟我妈讲,只好事情过后委婉跟她提示下。我妈也承认,她有时候意识到自己这个说话的语气问题,但就是很难改,毕竟几十年都是这样。 我从前只是简单的认为,这是我妈个人的问题,包括我妈从年轻到现在遇事情一般都比较强硬的性格引起的。但我没意识到,其实我也深受我妈这种说话的语气影响,至少讲,碰到负面的情绪时,我不能很好的排解,而是多数时会不由自主地下意识转移到其它地方,比如对孩子或对我媳妇发脾气,又比如有时候遇到脾气不好的人时自己说话也更容易暴躁,这些都非常不好,说明我在这方面还是很不成熟。 其实说话,就是要把自己的想法表达出来,希望对方能接受,至少不能让别人听了后感觉不愉快,即便你的出发点和目的都是为了对方好,也是可以把话说得更让人舒服些,对吧? 好在我现在意识到了自己这个问题,亡羊补牢,还不算太晚吧。:) 另一个我认为我的不足之处,就是对于家庭的关系处理不够关注和细致,每逢遇到一些事情时,不能够正面积极去对待和处理,多数情况下总是选择鸵鸟般消极逃避,可能我本身就不太擅长处理这种家庭的一些琐碎事情吧。用我妈的口气来说, 你在外边那么多事都能处理的很不错,怎么家里的这点小事都搞不好? 其实说真的,我的确很怵家里的琐碎事,包括处理婆媳关系、小孩子教育,甚至如打扫卫生等。 但谁又能逃避开这些呢?古人还讲,一屋不扫何以扫天下呢?家里的小事做不好,又谈何自诩可以处理好其它“大事”呢? 有时候想起来这些琐碎事情,头都开始大了! ![passage-5155252_1920.jpg](https://images.hive.blog/DQmZ4LmSu4EbEMwCFMEDsKE6S7me4yB3v1rVLV2dT5yVHs6/passage-5155252_1920.jpg) 该图片由<a href="https://pixabay.com/zh/users/suju-165106/?utm_source=link-attribution&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=image&utm_content=5155252">Susanne Jutzeler, suju-foto</a>在<a href="https://pixabay.com/zh/?utm_source=link-attribution&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=image&utm_content=5155252">Pixabay</a>上发布
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---|---|---|---|---|---|
abit | 0 | 27,830,948,866,598 | 100% | ||
gerber | 0 | 119,523,462,481 | 1.7% | ||
ezzy | 0 | 131,618,280,731 | 1.7% | ||
deanliu | 0 | 3,699,583,601,997 | 100% | ||
exyle | 0 | 129,692,983,350 | 1.7% | ||
joythewanderer | 0 | 513,716,098,921 | 50% | ||
lemooljiang | 0 | 343,124,236,765 | 100% | ||
laoyao | 0 | 45,156,006,083 | 100% | ||
somebody | 0 | 79,527,972 | 100% | ||
skysunny | 0 | 209,914,931 | 100% | ||
midnightoil | 0 | 160,125,494,351 | 100% | ||
xiaohui | 0 | 914,521,485,227 | 100% | ||
oflyhigh | 0 | 4,849,524,090,192 | 100% | ||
yulan | 0 | 16,377,472,350 | 100% | ||
rivalhw | 0 | 2,547,320,102,823 | 100% | ||
helene | 0 | 1,190,650,825,694 | 100% | ||
ffcrossculture | 0 | 386,960,832,981 | 100% | ||
sweetsssj | 0 | 15,230,105,278,096 | 40% | ||
someguy123 | 0 | 77,413,717,610 | 2.55% | ||
judasp | 0 | 362,179,231,624 | 100% | ||
dapeng | 0 | 44,012,729,245 | 100% | ||
lucknie | 0 | 26,563,231,393 | 100% | ||
dumping | 0 | 2,699,934,373 | 100% | ||
blackbunny | 0 | 72,306,504,796 | 100% | ||
lingfei | 0 | 78,964,829,268 | 100% | ||
sudutpandang | 0 | 6,561,347,078 | 100% | ||
ranchorelaxo | 0 | 39,156,356,004,115 | 100% | ||
laodr | 0 | 3,588,149,889 | 100% | ||
htliao | 0 | 26,529,895,075 | 100% | ||
dune69 | 0 | 8,226,671,564 | 1.7% | ||
forykw | 0 | 1,911,320,734 | 0.85% | ||
cryptoemperor | 0 | 3,953,154,863 | 10% | ||
mys | 0 | 207,508,517 | 0.17% | ||
exec | 0 | 244,326,959,545 | 100% | ||
eval | 0 | 810,679,312 | 100% | ||
swaraj | 0 | 39,556,783,164 | 100% | ||
susanli3769 | 0 | 264,647,324,254 | 100% | ||
andre-verbrick | 0 | 468,271,530,816 | 100% | ||
shitsignals | 0 | 654,267,484 | 1.7% | ||
catwomanteresa | 0 | 335,715,811,025 | 100% | ||
liangfengyouren | 0 | 3,438,687,371 | 50% | ||
mangoanddaddy | 0 | 3,277,098,193 | 80% | ||
fr3eze | 0 | 278,943,717,819 | 100% | ||
cn-reader | 0 | 29,275,764,106 | 100% | ||
felander | 0 | 8,554,988,108 | 1.7% | ||
santigs | 0 | 17,457,368,548 | 50% | ||
kimzwarch | 0 | 8,517,042,101 | 4% | ||
adi.pisces | 0 | 2,312,455,182 | 100% | ||
accelerator | 0 | 60,273,116,847 | 5% | ||
yogacoach | 0 | 720,420,047 | 0.85% | ||
chenlocus | 0 | 30,880,806,410 | 100% | ||
deathwing | 0 | 2,320,574,585 | 1.7% | ||
dancingapple | 0 | 24,314,623,446 | 100% | ||
xiaoshancun | 0 | 11,320,696,295 | 100% | ||
blc | 0 | 4,016,014,642 | 100% | ||
metten | 0 | 13,993,210,845 | 100% | ||
caladan | 0 | 5,878,635,326 | 1.7% | ||
cn-book | 0 | 1,587,774,095 | 100% | ||
emrebeyler | 0 | 30,146,757,095 | 1.7% | ||
jacktan | 0 | 2,838,868,118 | 50% | ||
cn-movie | 0 | 185,189,298 | 100% | ||
angelina6688 | 0 | 4,630,177,292 | 100% | ||
itchyfeetdonica | 0 | 49,710,213,328 | 50% | ||
vivia | 0 | 4,508,842,335 | 100% | ||
yikloongye | 0 | 130,735,408 | 100% | ||
fun2learn | 0 | 4,378,276,178 | 3% | ||
nealmcspadden | 0 | 21,792,668,273 | 1.7% | ||
purefood | 0 | 24,246,527,369 | 1.7% | ||
xiaoli | 0 | 444,781,739 | 100% | ||
yumisee | 0 | 1,381,419,431 | 100% | ||
calist | 0 | 4,696,215,706 | 100% | ||
joeliew | 0 | 3,426,127,234 | 100% | ||
wilhb81 | 0 | 102,262,390,665 | 25% | ||
hkit98 | 0 | 393,725,722 | 100% | ||
elvinmas001 | 0 | 348,645,764 | 100% | ||
watersoo | 0 | 2,971,275,445 | 100% | ||
vamos-amigo | 0 | 3,881,683,265 | 100% | ||
iipoh06 | 0 | 512,150,817 | 100% | ||
annabellenoelle | 0 | 1,036,744,021 | 100% | ||
futurecurrency | 0 | 18,908,573,668 | 37% | ||
yethui | 0 | 627,206,896 | 100% | ||
riczlook | 0 | 19,715,234 | 100% | ||
ethanlee | 0 | 5,698,545,367 | 100% | ||
andrewnoel | 0 | 121,955,581 | 100% | ||
bestboom | 0 | 6,800,056,786 | 1.7% | ||
liewsc | 0 | 2,955,230,320 | 50% | ||
tanzy | 0 | 1,387,587,511 | 50% | ||
freddio | 0 | 21,458,180,175 | 15% | ||
themightyvolcano | 0 | 2,619,551,271 | 1.7% | ||
quochuy | 0 | 244,835,754,866 | 17.03% | ||
competeapp | 0 | 37,340,709,639 | 100% | ||
cn-malaysia | 0 | 1,497,672,600 | 100% | ||
swisswitness | 0 | 978,132,650 | 1.7% | ||
we-are-lucky | 0 | 10,821,282,538 | 60.49% | ||
moneybaby | 0 | 841,458,690 | 2.5% | ||
suonghuynh | 0 | 15,255,203,656 | 6% | ||
abcallen | 0 | 39,164,813,365 | 80% | ||
dalz | 0 | 2,324,506,804 | 0.85% | ||
sunai | 0 | 1,117,691,523 | 100% | ||
julian2013 | 0 | 81,517,099,691 | 50% | ||
dlike | 0 | 20,836,031,865 | 1.7% | ||
silvertop | 0 | 57,561,353,528 | 100% | ||
voxmortis | 0 | 1,137,313,510 | 0.5% | ||
laissez-faire | 0 | 32,346,701 | 100% | ||
voter002 | 0 | 11,205,026,479 | 91.78% | ||
pet.society | 0 | 197,564,045,409 | 4% | ||
merlin7 | 0 | 21,873,804,417 | 1.7% | ||
pollygonewild | 0 | 119,633,904 | 100% | ||
foodblogresteem | 0 | 127,640,964 | 100% | ||
followjohngalt | 0 | 9,656,160,608 | 1.7% | ||
lizachong | 0 | 801,625,715 | 50% | ||
starrouge | 0 | 609,095,514 | 30% | ||
wherein | 0 | 274,816,330,472 | 60% | ||
zerofive | 0 | 567,751,822 | 30% | ||
majowonline | 0 | 142,979,205 | 35% | ||
cnstm | 0 | 169,708,992,385 | 60% | ||
permaculturedude | 0 | 616,180,864 | 1.7% | ||
jacoblai | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
lianjingmedia | 0 | 582,403,305 | 60% | ||
bobdavids | 0 | 102,769,704 | 100% | ||
vcdragon | 0 | 8,381,441,194 | 100% | ||
mfblack | 0 | 7,947,495,967 | 1.61% | ||
epicdice | 0 | 149,552,609,270 | 20% | ||
helgalubevi | 0 | 14,389,810,294 | 100% | ||
dailyke20 | 0 | 18,390,845,398 | 100% | ||
isaaclim | 0 | 17,324,220,497 | 100% | ||
firefuture | 0 | 965,576,963 | 1.7% | ||
milu-the-dog | 0 | 679,394,625 | 1.7% | ||
triplea.bot | 0 | 564,639,400 | 1.7% | ||
steem.leo | 0 | 36,131,506,484 | 1.7% | ||
freddio.sport | 0 | 6,168,191,032 | 15% | ||
asteroids | 0 | 1,666,149,270 | 1.53% | ||
acguitar1 | 0 | 2,007,014,054 | 100% | ||
thranax | 0 | 11,081,215,775 | 15% | ||
crymaze | 0 | 3,241,860,769 | 50% | ||
crypmace | 0 | 3,241,860,769 | 50% | ||
maxuvd | 0 | 25,455,925,654 | 6% | ||
maxuve | 0 | 27,699,433,172 | 6% | ||
dark-queen | 0 | 6,513,128,088 | 50% | ||
moleah | 0 | 30,766,198,844 | 100% | ||
blackpassion | 0 | 3,118,987,101 | 50% | ||
ilidan | 0 | 6,378,084,102 | 50% | ||
gerbo | 0 | 0 | 1.7% | ||
steemjiang | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
starnote | 0 | 325,428,499 | 100% | ||
moochain.net | 0 | 327,832,059 | 100% | ||
lemool | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
moochain.com | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
liebin | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
bettyliu | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
younggle | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
dinggle | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
moocer | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
steem-zh | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
coursechain | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
youngoole | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
mice-k | 0 | 8,172,407,157 | 1.7% | ||
imooc | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
curamax | 0 | 764,673,209 | 1.7% | ||
steemcityrewards | 0 | 90,510,617 | 1.7% | ||
lovequeen | 0 | 263,170,232,063 | 77% | ||
mountaingod | 0 | 375,136,178,087 | 100% | ||
wikicoin | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
starchain | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
steemzh | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
openbazzar | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
steemipfs | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
hive-224466 | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
softworld | 0 | 588,189,852,058 | 49% | ||
dcityrewards | 0 | 47,565,770,627 | 1.7% | ||
portraits | 0 | 0 | 50% | ||
hivecur | 0 | 43,594,556,968 | 1.7% | ||
chartreader | 0 | 45,262,022 | 1.7% | ||
hivecur2 | 0 | 3,326,201,631 | 3% | ||
mina.royaie | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
evahe | 0 | 1,489,529,381 | 100% |
我好努力,但是也处理不说,发现不是你努力可以了,真是学问
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不是都说男人就是夹心饼干吗?在中间左右两难:) 清官难断家务事,大家都有同样的问题。家里的事确实如你说的,一定要讲出来。不要放心里。
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我觉得有时候我是那块夹心饼干,汉堡 囧
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大伟 夹心饼干 汉堡🍔 也不错啊!至少你愿意夹在其中🤭 不像苏大强那么能装... 能屈... 😂
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