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如何对付拖延症? by rivalhw

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· @rivalhw ·
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如何对付拖延症?
今天看了一篇关于拖延症方面的文章,颇有所启发,原来知名人士也有跟我一样对拖延症的烦恼啊。:)

我读书的时候,有个同学很幽默,善于偷懒,但他对此却习以为常,经常放在嘴边的一句玩笑话,

“懒人推动社会发展嘛!”

想一想,似乎还挺有道理的。我们很多的发明,不就是应验了这句话嘛。

话说回来,人人都有拖延症,名人也不例外。我自己总结,为什么会有拖延症,有几个原因:

一是对未知事物的恐慌;

许多时候,我们出现拖延症的原因,就是对未知要做的事情感到恐惧,担心自己在重要的事情上没有取得进展,这点我跟作者的观点是相同的。

二是抱有过高的期望;

有时候发生拖延,就是对自己过高评估,比如总觉得自己会在截止日期前完成某项工作,或者能在很短时间内完成,等等。殊不知,等到真做的是否,发现时间已经很紧张,甚至工作量有些大,超出了自己的预想,开始有些后悔了。



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既然拖延症人人都有碰到,那如何缓解拖延症的发作呢?这里我谈下我自己的经验。

首先就是迅速行动起来。

无论做什么事情,或有什么想法,要做,就迅速行动起来,因为很多时候,如果你不开始行动,就很难想象接下来会碰到什么困难,只有行动起来,哪怕是思考,就足以让拖延症开始远离你。

其次就是降低期望值;

不要对自己要做的事情,尤其是还未开始前就抱有过高或太高的期望,否则,一碰到些困难,或者事情发生,你很容易就陷入一种从高往低的落差失落,甚至失望,这对你要做的事情,绝对是没有好处的。

三是将你要做的事情分解化。

很多时候我们迟迟未开始,主要原因是我们对于事情很迷茫,甚至不知道如何去完成。这个时候,将复杂的事情分解,尽量拆解成多个部分,既降低了难度,又提升了信心。后边开始的时候,每完成一个阶段或部分工作,看到笔记本上打勾,你的内心会充满一种成就感,随着不断的打勾完成,对于后边未完成的任务,也就更有信心了。

以上就是我对远离拖延症的一个个人经验总结。从此不再害怕拖延症,因为人人都有拖延症。如果你决定了要做某件事,迅速行动起来,是远离拖延症的最好解决方法。

你呢,是如何对付拖延症的?
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@adyiron ·
大伟哥,你这三种应对措施很好👍,我也去试试🙂
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@ailgoy ·
我冬天喜欢赖床,算不算拖延症患者🤣🤣
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@rivalhw ·
掐指一算,你那是懒症
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@ailgoy ·
哈哈🤭🤭🤭
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@carolin77 ·
我娃就是有拖延症,我是急性子,但他是慢性子
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@celeste413 ·
有时候不承认 但却是被拖延症耽误了很多事!
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@rivalhw · (edited)
没关系,想一想耽搁的都是别人的事,反正自己也没啥损失
👍  
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@celeste413 ·
哈哈哈😂😂😂
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@coco666 ·
好嘞 学起来
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@davidke20 ·
嗯。這個很早就領悟了。初二那年暗戀個女孩,一直猶豫拖延,結果兩個禮拜後她被另一個男生拖著了😅

高一那一年又暗戀個高年級的姐姐,不過那次我決定去老媽花店跟她合夥人訂了花去送給小姐姐。同一天我被叫上台體罰打屁股,下班後也被老媽問了一頓🤣知道答案了就不必再煩惱,可以專心學習,或找下一個目標🤣

自從那時候起,我再也沒有暗戀了。只要覺得喜歡就直接開足馬力追了。省得每天朝思暮想。
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@rivalhw · (edited)
掐指一算,你那不是拖延,是胆怯症。
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@huigezi ·
我觉得拖延症是一种绝症
我是晚期患者
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@rivalhw ·
你好,拖延症晚期患者!
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@love5200 ·
对对,就是想到立刻行动,不要拖拉,行动力太重要了,哈哈。
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@trina77 ·
这个我们成年人改正一下也是可以的,那小孩子的拖延症怎么搞,我很苦恼🫣
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@rivalhw ·
我能管好自己,但对孩子拖延,也很犯愁苦恼🫣
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