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Save your Relationship from ugly Arguments
There is always one who gets more love and the other one who loves more. The latter here is the one who usually takes the first step in fixing an argument, and the former learns.Relationships can be tough on you when everything you expected out of it doesn鈥檛 seem to be happening and everything you feared of, starts showing its signs. To be honest, it鈥檚 all a mind game and sometimes, we end up getting exactly the opposite of we want because of our fear.Every couple argues. Some of them do it overtly by yelling at each other while others do it covertly by avoiding contact and conversation. Whatever the method, the result is the same - hurt feelings and disenchantment.

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<center>[Source](https://www.nelive.in/sites/default/files/articles/Fighting-Couple_1.jpg)</center>

There are many reasons for why relationships broken. We  are not perfect and we can only work on improving things , use our minds to understand and analyzes the situation in our own way and try to really understand a problem. Saving a relationship from falling apart needs some serious actions that might sound easy to do but it require a lot of patience and much more sense of understanding and compensation towards each other. Sometimes, the relationships we hold the closest to ourselves require the most amount of hard work. Be it with siblings, parents, friends or your significant other. Here are some tips that I鈥檝e recently come across. Hope it help you!

When was the last time you said "I love you" to your partner, with the same feeling of "I mean it" in your heart? Or are you just saying those three magic words for the sake of itThere are various topics that we would rather not to choose talk about, no matter how much it is needed to be talked about. We don鈥檛 realize the importance of the communication. Delivering your point of view as well as your concerns helps in developing a greater understanding towards each other. Not everybody has the guts to do, because of which a lot of assumptions are formed and a relationship keeps weakening. Having problems in a relationship is not as big a deal as not talking about it is. If anything, it makes matters even worse and everything that has not been communicated comes out in the form actions that suggest respect and annoyance. Unfortunately, respect lost for each other takes a lot of efforts to gain back.

***I think many people give up too easily. We live in an "instant" world so when relationships doesn't work instantly, they move on. Fixing a relationship also first starts with fixing yourself and the other person has to do the same, but we tend to do it backwards and try to fix each other. Research showen couples who argue more than twenty percent of the time are probably not going to survive. So stay away from argument and save your relationship.***
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@amotivational · 
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@bobbyshubham · 
So True.  Avoiding arguments is really helpful.
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@buster544 · 
Relationships are like being in a boat, some calm days and some rough seas, it鈥檚 best to learn to navigate through them cautiously when stormy and enjoy those that are calm, but like a boat, if you don鈥檛 work on it, if one doesn鈥檛 give it attention, and some love , it will leave you stranded weather you believe things are stormy or not.
 Very good article馃榾
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@djbrat · 
Relationships are very difficult, even when there is a lot of love. I have had my fair share of difficulties in my relationships, and the one I'm currently in now. I loved this, thank you so much (((hugs)))
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@hamidullah · 
Right ,,,
every relation is made up by emotion,

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@izge · 
This is such an informative amazing content. Thanks for sharing.
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@lafzaia · 
Right ,,,
every relation is made up by emotion,,,if it don't have,This three sake of word will clean up from world,,
i like your post..
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@mus · (edited)
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Due to huge gov-disincentives and and an all-round screwed up societal atmosphere and structure, I no longer see relationships in the West as possible.
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@yajaira · 
La base de una relaci贸n es la comunicaci贸n y el respeto. Claro el amor es lo primordial. Pero cuando se pierden las dos primeras,ni el amor salva la relaci贸n.
Por eso es importante aprender a escuchar y aprender a expresar lo que sentimos.
Con gritos e insultos no se resuelve nada. Solo se obtiene una brecha grande entre dos personas que un momento de la relaci贸n el amor, la comunicaci贸n y el respeto lleg贸 a existir plenamente.
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