Mic testing!! Mic testing!! Let me tell you a little about myself. Lol funny to me though because this will be the first time I will be doing something like this. I am the only boy among the four children of my mother. And also the first child and only one son. Someone there is saying continue Mr first born lol. I was born a Muslim i.e into an Islam religion before I converted to being a Christian. 

Though it's not an easy journey, I never regretted it. My dad was a Muslim so also my mum but my mum came from is Christian home but she changed because of the love she had for my Dad. Everything was going well until something happened our home became shattered and once upon a time a lovely family and a peaceful home became hell, families were not helping matters. No more love in my family, or let me say between my mom and dad and this issue goes on for years and later promotes the dividing the love between the two parents and children. What do I mean by that? This one will say na you mom you like and this one will say na your dad you like and the attention was now focused on the presume one that seems to like any of them. 


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Hmm motherly love, but to my mom irrespective of the one she thinks like her or my dad she still cares for all of us equally. This issue was what made my mom go back to her previous religion which was Christianity and all of a sudden we the children asin the four of us also joined her wow! Yes someone is saying wow! But this is what happened even before the matter started My dad has never been a bias to religion we celebrated both when time to celebrate each religion festival come my dad will always say whomever any celebration meet while living celebrate it coz you never can tell which one will be your last celebration.

 But ever since the issue between them arises the argument has always come on the issue of religion, why will you pack my children to church none of them follows me to the mosque anymore the house now becomes more of a hell than it used to be. Funny enough i never chook mouth in the matter not because I am afraid but because I don't want to be biased, my mum will call me and talk to me about what my dad is doing that's wrong which am also aware of and but I will not say anything not because I don't have anything to say but I just choose to remain mute this always got my mom angry. 

She's not saying whatever she's saying to spoil my dad's image but she just needed someone to talk to as a way of relieving herself of the anger burden and grudges she's carrying as women like to talk out their mind. When she vex reaches some extent that I do not say anything all I will just tell her is that stay calm everything will be alright, be happy because it's only your husband that's giving you issue not we the children and as for religion let him come and talk it out with us him self but He never did lol....

I didn't say all coz time won't permit me but I just wanted us to learn from it, #marry your mate #marry whom you love #marry someone of the same religion #youth of our generation the most important marry someone with the fear of God. there are other lessons in there but to just mention this few. Mind you all marriages have issues be the God's ordained or self will choose but the ability to manage it matters a lot.