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Don't Let Your Mind Be Your Own Worst Enemy by sauravrungta

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Don't Let Your Mind Be Your Own Worst Enemy
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We humans have been blessed with a unique gift. A gift that has not been seen in any other species. I am, of course, talking about intelligence. It's because of this trait of ours that our lives are not limited to just survival.

Thanks to our brains, we have managed to do so much more than we had ever thought possible. In fact, we keep surprising ourselves by pushing the boundaries of what we think is possible on a regular basis.

It is no doubt that our minds are our biggest ally. However, I am sure that many a time, you must have felt quite the opposite. Even good things can lead to bad consequences if not used judiciously.

Every now and then we are reminded of why and how our minds can turn out to be our own worst enemy. It's a pity. Such a wonderful thing and we allow it to work against us.

# Stuck In A Mental Prison
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Our brains have a really impressive ability to remember past events. In vivid detail, I might add. It also has the ability to imagine the future and dream of things we would like to achieve. Again, in vivid details.

Both these are useful qualities to have. One allows us to learn and apply those lessons that we have learnt in the past. Another allows us to have something to work towards. However, both these can also form a mental prison, escaping which can get really difficult.

You see, when we think about the past, we tend to think of all the bad things that have happened to us. Things like pain, suffering, betrayal, losses, and so much more. The gravity of this past can be really strong.

The same goes for when we are trying to imagine the future. It can lead to stress and anxiety, especially if we have steered off our planned course or we have failed to reach the milestones that we had set for ourselves. Also, the uncertainty of the future can be another sticking point.

So, basically, what has happened and what is yet to happen can both throw us into the arms of distress and depression. So many people struggle due to this on a daily basis. It is quite alarming, to be honest.

Fortunately, there are ways to get out of the mental prison. Meditation, talking to loved ones, therapy, travelling, taking time off, and so many more ways can help calm our minds and make us realize that happiness, truly is a state of mind. If we lost it, we can also find it.
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@bashadow ·
Learning to look back on the good and the bad and balance the two out is very helpful. If one only looks back and see the bad, then they should start to try and see the good times they had also, like the thrill of the first time on the bicycle with the training wheels removed, don't look back and see the first crash, the first split lip, but look back to just before that point, the thrill. Balance the past good and the bad.

When looking forward, yes one does tend to go dystopian sometimes, or to set unrealistic goals, and then have the life quashed out of them feeling of being a failure. Balance the view out, see the bad that can happen, be aware of the bad that can happen, prepare for the bad that can happen, but also look forward to the good that can happen, the new bridges to build and to cross, the new destination to travel, the new people to meet, the new ideas to give birth to. Yes not all visions come to fruition, but to have none is to have no life worth living. 

Don't forget the now, here, the ground on which you built with your past and the ground upon which you stand as you look forward, now is the balance point, now is where the heart is, the life is, where the dreams are borne, and the heartaches of the past are resolved.

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@sauravrungta ·
You hit the nail right on the head. We need to achieve a balance. Good and bad are both natural parts of life and we need to understand this - both while looking back at the past and looking forward to the future. I couldn't have said it any better myself. Thank you :)
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@manisha.jain9 ·
I totally agree with you, our mind can actually be our beat friend and our enemy too.
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@sauravrungta ·
Yes, exactly!
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