beautiful post. my big brother @sauravrungta l like post & resteem this post

When i readed your post the first thing that camed to my mind is , The love feelings , you love a person that dont have the same feelings for you and the one that loves you , well you dont have feelings for him crazy world...

nice thoughts...

Why are we always attracted to the wrong people? The reason is that what we are interested in is our own reflection. We value ourselves as much as we value ourselves, and we are loved as much as we think we deserve. Moreover, because of fear of change, we are attracted to people who will accept us as we are, and we always go the same way. @sauravrungta

I agree, wanting something we don't have can be difficult, "The grass isn't always greener on the other side of the fence" is easy to say but hard to live by, especially when it comes to feeling grateful for and not jealous of others.

If we understood the value and mystery in a fluttering leaf or a blade of grass our hearts would never lack fulfillment, gratitude, and inspiration.

Beautiful post

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I can relate to this a lot.
I pre-ordered a new tablet that looked really cool in the kickstarter campaign of the StartUp that was building it. I was really hyped and thought the technology was awesome.

However, it took more than half a year before the kickstarter ended, the production was finished, and mine was ready to be shipped. In the meantime, the enthusiasm had more or less died as I knew I was getting it for so long. Result? I haven't even opened it yet despite getting it two weeks ago!

You believe in gratitude consciousness .

People usually know the real value of things when they loose it. People take things for granted, but whenever we loose it. It suddently becomes the most important things. Thats why memories sometimes seems better than the reiality :)

Having gratitude for life seems like an advantage to me. If we are always thinking about the next thing or wondering why things didn't go differently, we'll be trapped in our mind instead of being present in the moment. When we have gratitude for what we have, all around us, it helps us stay in the moment, which is where we have all our power to act and work towards adding(and in doing so, receiving) value.

People who don't feel 'sorry' and/or 'guilt' of the wrongdoings are the one who are happy in life. This is one part of the human psychology. The feeling of 'no guilt' brings additional desires. No repentance, and they just move on, until when nobody knows. People who have a feeling of guilt are the people who are less happy, and have no such additional plainly desires.  But then again, human behavior, psychology and philosophy coming together is such a vague thing. 

This is a beautiful post @sauravrungta.  True to your lines, "Maybe in understanding others, I will be able to understand myself too". That's what we all should be doing.

I really loved it, It was such a wonderful Blog. After reading this essay, I thought about a beautiful Quote I have shown in my classes, and I want to share it to you "When asked if my cup is half-full or half-empty, my only response is that I have a cup".  It does not matter how much we've got, the most important thing is to appreciate we currently get in our hands.

Interesting post again @sauravrungta. 
I think our brain is the cause. Our spirit is constantly searching. Almost everyone suffers from it, because almost everyone lives from his / her thoughts. Even though we differ in terms of personality, we all think. Our brains are not made to be satisfied with this moment, they are made to solve problems. They are therefore made to search (for a solution to a seeming lack in our life).

Understand the illusion that we can find that 'more' - and can remain satisfied with it. You can not do that, it never stops. You will always want more. Or rather, your mind will always want more. It is not our fault, it is our brain's fault :)

Because we forget to be grateful for what we have.

We are weird like that.  We always are so excited about buying something but once we have it,  we don't  value it.  A tendency  to take anything  granted over a period of time.

<blockquote>"...my favorite things to do. To observe people and to try and understand why they do what they do. Maybe in understanding others, I will be able to understand myself too."</blockquote>
This is precisely why I so love this type of field.
When I read your specified post as if you were writing my thoughts.
You have an amazing ability to translate your thoughts into writing,
I think it's the most charming thing there is, the ability to express emotion with words.

nice

I think that humans are collectors and hoarders, even at a young age we covet our toys, teddy bears, etc., with the latest addition most likely to be our favorite...at least for a little while. 

I believe having something new like your laptop example, fulfills us on an emotional level. It's just a little strange that we should have such a relationship to an inanimate object.

Your post is exactly like what happend to me and it's terrible for being in this situation.

Feelings developed to serve a function, they drive us. Desire for something drives us to do what it takes to get it. Fear of losing something drives us to protect it.
It is only natural that we won't feel those feelings for things that we have and aren't threatened.
As of value, well, I believe we do have value for the things we have, but we don't often check that value. It's like pain. When you're in pain you notice it, but when the pain goes away, it is much harder noticing it's not there any more, you have to be very mindful of yourself to be able to do that.
If I think about things that I have, and what value they have to me, I can tell they do. Some of the things, anyway. There are definitely things I have acquired and then didn't have any desire for.

We Only Value Things We Don’t Have?

Yeah, we do!

We tend to think, what if - I had this, I was him, if if I bear this much of bank balance.... blah blah...

While we forget, "what we currently bear with us is more precious than the 'uncertain oes'."
'."It's also true - one should sense the things they want to achieve, why?? because it will help them picture the realness around them. 

And, passively it will push towards unrelenting works and the roadmap to success.

Thank you @sauravrungta for this beautiful message!

PS: Would you mind sharing your Discord or Steemit  chatroom link with me? I am extremely looking connect to your rward to exchanging connect to your  words of wisdom closely!

Hi there,
Thank you for such a thoughtful post! I also want to admit that I like to observe people :) Only because of the curiosity of how they live their lives. I have also lived in many different cultures and have learned so much from that. It really does make you reflect on how you do things yourself. 

It is a very important subject. It might even be THE key to happiness? Material things comes and go and we will always keep striving for more and better. It has been proven MANY times that it doesn't make us happy. Actually the opposite. The people who live a minimalistic life are shown to be happier. 

I keep a gratitude journal to remind myself every morning and night about all the things I have in my life and each time I feel more and more rich. I would recommend to everyone I meet to do the same. If we focus on all the things we already have we feel fulfilled <3 

Gratefulness is the key,
Thank you for sharing!

A lot of love and happiness to you!

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From what I've seen it all comes down to powerful drives of personal hopes, dreams, and fears.  We have visions of the person we want to be then we try to set ourselves up to be that person or we have inner demons which drive us to something we believe will comfort us or keep us safe. It sounds trite to say it, but knowing what you are capable of, what you are actually willing to do, and your long term interests brings a lot less waste and drama into your life. 

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Humanity always finds something to ask yourself. This is usually not what they are.

"We think we will be happy if we have a lot of money. If we have a home, we are brand new, our house has a balcony, hele hele has a terrace, if everyone loves a brand car, if the car's tannery opens, we can see the sky we never looked at ..."

This is one of my articles, one paragraph, a little bit of a similar topic.
Congratulations on a nice article.
If you want to read:
https://steemit.com/writer/@slayer10/mutluluk-happiness-eng-tr