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Hola mi querida comunidad de Hive, el día de hoy les quiero hablar acerca de una pequeña reflexión que tuve acerca del amor, sobre todo de cómo es abstracto y único para cada persona. Todos tenemos diferentes formas de amar e igual que todos los artistas; a pesar de que incluso pinten los mismos estilos; tienen su propia y única forma de pintar. Entonces el hecho de que todos tengamos formas de amar diferentes y que aunque se parezca incluso, no son iguales y esto a veces nos hace que nos cueste entender cómo nos aman los otros, y a veces damos por sentado que la gente sabe que la amamos aunque no se los digamos y se lo demostremos a nuestra manera, como también a veces hay gente qué nos demuestra su amor a su manera muy peculiar y única pero nosotros no nos damos cuenta de que esa persona nos está diciendo que nos ama.

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Lenguaje del amor es el más extenso, no existe una regla o una guía que nos diga cómo amar;  todos vamos aprendiendo a medida que crecemos al demostrar ese amor. Existen personas donde el amor se demuestra con comida y que cuando piensas en amor inmediatamente piensas en cocinar o en comer algo que alguien que haya preparado; también existen algunos que su lenguaje del amor es el dinero, que para sentirse amado necesitan que les estén constantemente dando objetos materiales o que necesitan estar dando constantemente objetos materiales para dar a entender su amor. No quiero debatir acerca de si estás formas de amor están bien o están mal, cada persona tiene derecho a expresar su amor como mejor le parezca, sin embargo creo que es importante que tengamos y sepamos apreciar esos pequeños detalles que las otras personas hacen por nosotros, que a veces no nos damos cuenta o simplemente nos pasan de largo pero que en realidad son grandes gestos de amor son grandes formas que la gente tiene con poquito de demostrarnos lo mucho que le importamos.

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Para mí existen muchos pequeños actos de amor que realmente son obras de arte, para empezar por las noches cuando acuesto a dormir a mi hija y me levanto para hacer alguna otra actividad, luego cuando yo procedo a acostarme a dormir ella siempre se acerca a mí porque, su lenguaje del amor es buscarme porque yo soy su seguridad, su protección, ella sabe que mientras yo esté a su lado todo va a estar bien. Si tuviera que hablar de mi hermana diría que mi acto de amor hacia mi hermana es tener en cuenta lo que le gusta o no para la comida, evitando los ingredientes que no le gustan para que ella pueda comer tranquilamente. Esta es una forma en que yo le demuestro amor a mi hermana y aunque no todo el tiempo le diga que la amo ella sabe que siempre estoy aquí para ella. 

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El acto de amor que de mi padre qué más recuerdo era el hecho de que intentaba cocinar a pesar de que le salía muy mal; él desde que se separó de mi mama, cuando nos tocaba a mi hermana y a mí pasar tiempo con él, se esforzaba por hacernos desayuno o café, a nosotras nos encanta el café y a pesar de que el café siempre le quedaba aguado, nosotras igual nos los tomamos porque sentíamos que será su forma de decirnos lo especiales que éramos en su corazón, también fue una persona que nos decía mucho que nos amaba y que nos demostraba con abrazos, besos que nos quería además de esos actos pequeños que no necesariamente para todos significan amor.


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Entonces mi reflexión viene lo siguiente, creo que gran parte de el arte de amar significa esos pequeños detalles que a veces damos por sentado, que simplemente son del día día y son tan comunes qué no los tomamos en cuenta; incluso a veces nos sentimos tristes o nos sentimos solos y en estos momentos en nuestro estado no podemos recordar a veces una persona que nos amé; pero sin embargo existen muchos pequeños detalles, qué la gente nos da como pequeñas muestras del amor que sienten por nosotros y que nosotros pasamos por alto, es importante no dejar de agradecer estos pequeños gestos, no dejar de tomarlos en cuenta y no dejar de hacerlos porque creemos que la otra persona no los valora. Después de todo como ya les había comentado antes el amor es un arte como la pintura; creo que es la mejor forma de describirlo dado que existen muchos estilos, existen muchas maneras y se va formando de a poco con cada pequeño gesto, con cada pequeño trazo qué el pintor marca en su lienzo, de esa misma forma el amor es un arte que se cultiva de a poco y que con mucho esfuerzo y mucho cariño puede llegar a ser algo verdaderamente hermoso.


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# Love is like a Painting


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Hello my dear Hive community, today I want to talk to you about a little reflection I had about love, especially how it is abstract and unique to each person. We all have different ways of loving and just like all artists; even though they even paint in the same styles; they have their unique way of painting. So the fact that we all have different ways of loving and even though they are similar, they are not the same sometimes makes it difficult for us to understand how others love us, and sometimes we take for granted that people know that we love them even if we do not tell them and we show it in our way, as well as sometimes some people show us their love in their own very peculiar and unique way but we do not realize that this person is telling us that he/she loves us.


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The language of love is the most extensive, no rule or guide tells us how to love; we all learn as we grow to show that love. There are people where love is demonstrated with food and when you think of the love you immediately think of cooking or eating something that someone has prepared; there are also some people whose love language is money, who to feel loved need to be constantly given material objects or who need to be constantly giving material objects to show their love. I do not want to debate about whether these forms of love are right or wrong, each person has the right to express their love as they see fit, however, I think it is important that we have and know how to appreciate those little things that other people do for us, that sometimes we do not realize or just pass us by but are great gestures of love are great ways that people have with little to show us how much they care about us.

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For me many small acts of love are works of art, to begin with at night when I put my daughter to sleep and get up to do some other activity, then when I proceed to lay her down to sleep she always comes to me because, her love language is to look for me. After all, I am her security, her protection, she knows that as long as I am by her side everything will be fine. If I had to talk about my sister I would say that my act of love towards my sister is to take into account her likes and dislikes for food, avoiding the ingredients she doesn't like so that she can eat peacefully. This is one way that I show love to my sister and even if I don't tell her all the time that I love her she knows that I am always here for her. 

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The act of love that I remember most about my father was the fact that he would try to cook even though he was very bad at it; Since he separated from my mother when it was my sister's and my turn to spend time with him, he made an effort to make us breakfast or coffee, we love coffee and even though the coffee was always watered down, we still drank it because we felt it was his way of telling us how special we were in his heart, he was also a person who told us he loved us a lot and who showed us with hugs and kisses that he loved us, besides those small acts that not necessarily mean love for everyone.


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Then my reflection comes the following, I believe that a great part of the art of living means those small details that sometimes we take for granted, that simply is of the day to day and are so common that we do not take them into account; even sometimes we feel sad or we feel lonely and in these moments in our state, we can not remember sometimes a person who loved us; nevertheless there are many small details, which people give us as small tokens of the love they feel for us and that we overlook, it is important not to stop thanking these small gestures, do not stop taking them into account and do not stop doing them because we believe that the other person does not value them. After all, as I mentioned before, love is an art like painting; I think that is the best way to describe it since there are many styles, there are many ways and it is formed little by little with each small gesture, with each small stroke that the painter marks on his canvas, in the same way, love is an art that is cultivated little by little and that with much effort and much affection can become something truly beautiful.

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