I quote each of us with you.
> If something unpleasant happened to me, I necessarily "learned a lesson" - I analyzed what I did wrong and changed myself and my actions so that in the future nothing like this would happen again.

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How many changes and do not improve yourself, but difficulties and troubles persist. And as a result, you do not get anything except a heightened sense of guilt over the fact that again something has not been foreseen, not taken into account, not thought of.

Our actions, no matter how carefully designed and improved they are, only partially determine the result, which depends very much on randomness, layout, the will of other people and a dozen more diverse factors, including weather and pressure.

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Of course, you can not offend anyone. But you can not do anything so that no one will offend you.

It's pointless to look back and look for your own shortcomings that need to be corrected "for the future".

To learn to be positive, practical and effective relates to what is happening to me, for example, I need to change very much for the better.