Yesterday when I was spilling my nonsense through **Steemit** Something surprising happened.  A fellow Steemian @heymattsokol decided to write a counter argument article about my latest article titled **I Hate Every Aspect Of Social Media** . I was really happy about is because I always advocate the idea that Criticism is one of the biggest tool for improvement  and it is a good way of communication.



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#### Criticism is a Way of Communication

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Well in my first months in **Steemit** you can see me nagging about Why is this place like **Alice in Wonderland** ? I didn't see any criticism only thing I saw was  the praises and that bothered me little. Finally I got a criticism yesterday. If someone has a criticism for you that isn't something bad. They want to improve the work you provided for them. There is a thin line between argument and criticism however constructive criticism can be beneficial for both parties.  It might give you the idea about your product , audience  way of thinking. Well I saw a lot of people discussing sofar and I didn't see anyone changing their ideas however with constructive criticism you can find a middle way and create a collective thinking style with the positive ideas from both parties. Obviously that is a great way to develop a more complex way of thinking.

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#### Don't Take it Personally

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Well Criticism is an art of communication. However it is pretty hard to take it. I can guarantee that taking a criticism personally will never end up good for you. A single outburst can cause severe damages in your reputation or it might affect your project , work. The language you going to use in your response is really important. Because if you want to create a good criticism enviroment for sharing some ideas using a positive language  is always better. Overall I'm really glad that I finally get some counter argument . Thank you @heymattsokol


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**Images:** [1](https://www.gsb.stanford.edu/sites/gsb/files/styles/1630x_variable/public/resources/bendor-innovation.jpg?itok=_vLEq6nk), [2](http://www.mostinside.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/12/How-To-Revive-After-Being-Victimised-By-Harsh-Criticisms.png)


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#### <center> Thanks For Reading & Hasta La  Vista !</center>