Amazing motivation! We have trust ourselve, right?

Sometimes self confidence often link on physical appearance. Those people who blessed with beautiful face, perfect body, and smooth skin have grant with self confidence. In our society where we live, these people is more attractive, they are famous, and easy to socialized with other. While on the other hand, these people being unknown, not being notice, and people stay away from them. Therefore, from the day the baby born, you can predict his/her fate. The world is so cruel and unfair to those who doesn't posses a good physical appearance, while with those who born with almost perfect apperance have all eyes on them. It so sad to think about but it is the reality of life.

Great post;)

We are all born confident, it is only when we begin to perceive the world around us that we start to compare ourselves to others and end up doubting our abilities.

Great article! We have to knew that the confidence without the experience it's nothing, We need to balance between this two elements to can be successful in the life.

There are a lot of myths to self confidence but the essential truth is that it is a fundamental to your well being, no matter how you chose to factor it there is no getting away from the fact that self confidence is crucial to being able to being a well rounded well adjusted balanced human being.

very simple: build confidence by doing the very things your uncomfortable doing, overtime you will be comfortable and that will translate to being more confident

Know ourselves is a crutial step for everything,thanks for sharing this great post.

Nice post.  Well said.  I think a lot of people focus too much on gaining confidence and not enough focus on competence.

I like the lines 

"Confidence Without Competence = Delusion
Competence Without Confidence = Unfulfilled Potential"

The universe has lost a lot because of both those scenarios. And the worst part is that People in Category 1 trample people in category 2. Which will lead to more power concentrating with people in Category 1. So this is more like a vicious cycle which needs to be broken form the both the sides(two diagonally opposite points) of the circle.

"When You Have Self Confidence You Can Master Anything"

IMO not exclusicly a myth because self confidence will allow for a much more efficient learn process because:
- You may face new challenges less fearful.
 - You may give yourself more positive feedback on your results.

Beautifully explained @suerisue. I love it being short and straight to the point. You sure have my vote

so cool  posting on steemit 
thank you

As a man, seeing a woman with confidence is a very attractive thing.
On the other hand, seeing a woman with no self confidence has the opposite effect. It's funny in life that the most competent people sometimes lack confidence whereas very incompetent people have way too much confidence. There needs to be more balance haha

so cool

good

buen contenido, la confianza en uno mismo nace desde que tu entiendes que todo se resuelve y puede hacerlo solo con creerlo, pensarlo todo los dias, buen post

So besides alcohol and not expecting too much on myself, any other suggestion to train or improve my self confidence?

Thanks for sharing, very interisting @suerisue

I see my self as a person with a pretty good developed confidence. 

I extremely disagree with the following statement: 

''There can be No Room For Self-Doubt''

I would say: ''There MUST be room for Self-Doubt.'' Self-Doubt is very healthy and it could give you better perspective on what you can achieve and what not. 
People with no Self-Doubt will try to climb ladders while its almost certain that they will fall-off. I see so many friends of mine doing this. 

Examples:

Starting a carrier with to less experience. 
Buying a home that you arent able to afford. 
Trying to catch the perfect relation.

Guess what? All a product of beeing overconfident and it almost always result in unhappiness and yes.. more self-doubt.

Confidence Without Competence = Delusion

Competence Without Confidence = Unfulfilled Potential

You're totally right !!!

Read "Daring Greatly" by Brianne Brown. It's fantastic.

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Nice post! I'm building my self-confidence as well now and I think everyone should. To be honest just by making myself better in certain area, better than somebody and trying to improve my life I can already see that I'm much confident of my actions.

Thanks @suerisue! I believe that there are some parts of us that are both, somehow, extrovert and introvert. I find it difficult sometimes to get enough confidence facing new audience and that self doubt is creeping up - it seems like something that I cannot escape from. However, preparation always help and I just hope we have enough time to prepare to get to where we want to be. Thank you for your post! It's very motivating! 😊

voice on your shoulder book by rich dad kiyosakis friend cant remember his name lol very good

*Confidence Without Competence = Delusion

Competence Without Confidence = Unfulfilled Potential*

Nicely put. Good post, @suerisue! Upvoted.

From which I have learned from many experiences, that self-confidence is built by taking actions. So, if you think you can not do something and then you try and accomplish it, this will indeed boost your self-confidence. By this principle I live.

Confidence is the key of success and can master of Human being as the potential ....

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I just cant but endorse what you saif. Self confidence is the key to living a productive life. If you dont believe in yourself who else who believe in you. The key to success is you accepting that you will be successful no matter what and before you can be successful,u must first believe in yourself .....

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Good one @suerisue! Just don't drink too much alcohol so it won't make you much over-confidence. lol

Modern day pop culture teaches us how to be confident, without competence... :D look at the social media influencers
http://www.troll.me/images/kanye-west/im-just-sayin.jpg

Which book is that? Good writing though. Keep sharing.

Great post! I agree with everything! It doesn't matter how confident you seem to other people, there's always a time or situation when a person feels more confident than the other :)