hmmm

This is why I have no drive to be awesome at 'business' - at least not someone else's business.

I don't wish to be dishonest to my 'self' in order to get ahead of other people as equally deserving as I.   

That doesn't sit well with me - I don't play the bullshit bingo in meetings, or tell managers what they want to hear.  Others have and I've watched them climb, and being paid well.

So yeah it's true, you gotta man/woman up if you want to be big in business, and at times that will include making those waves that push others aside while you surf on top :D

I have many dreams of mine, but in the society I live in I have to work too hard just to go after my dreams

GOOD POST

We all need to keep growing, and to grow we need to do some introspection. Funny, I was thinking about this same subject and about recognizing our mistakes and try to change them to keep growing, I made a similar post a few days ago. I feel this post is very much in the same line.

Heads up, Steem voter and the such are down for this week :/

Upvote and resteem done done.
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wow, it is an amazing post. really inspirational. some of the lines are very worthy. Growth in business especially requires a corresponding self-development. it is really amazing line. thanks for sharing. stay blessed. :)

“Because true belonging only happens when we present our authentic, imperfect selves to the world, our sense of belonging can never be greater than our level of self-acceptance.” “There is nothing more beautiful than seeing a person being themselves. Imagine going through your day being unapologetically you.”

Great post. What I learned in personal development that helping me the most is taking responsibility, commitment and acting despite the fear. Yes and you have to dream big:).

Sometimes i wonder of you are in my mind @surfermarly
I haven't always thought this way though
But with an introduction to a recent business which i joined, all the books I have read have changed my perspective and mentality into thinking this way!
Wisdom is knowledge and action, a knowledge becomes a fact after it has been tested by actions and it stands true. This post of forging yourself to align with your envisioned future has been tested and its trusted. But there is still one problem. According to fredrich Nietzsche;
*We all know the right thing to do, but doing it is the problem.*
**And still if you know what to do but do not do, it is said that you do not know.**
What are your opinions as regards dis ma'am?

When we strive to become better than we are, everything arounds us becomes better, too. Also, I think one of the biggest challenges of life is to be yourself in a world that is trying to make you like everyone else... Great post!

Buen post comi siempre saludos ;)

Hi Marly, a very interesting post and  after some hours of sleep I know now what to answer. Self development is to 100% necessary but self development includes to develope in your your direction. There are so many teachers who promises so many things but I think everybody has to find his own way. Like Muhammed Ali had his own style and Mike Tyson fought completely different. Da Vinci's Mona Lisa is different from Picasso's Jacqueline. 
You develope to be 100% yourself.

Thanks for sharing such an awesome message

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Robin Sharma is one of the best writers. I read his book "The monk who sold his Ferrari" and is one of the best books I read. 
I also enjoyed reading your blog. Great work!

Thanks for sharing, you just made me a better person

but our life is a current sequence of change in the sense of development - so being oneself does not mean standing still - in opposite, living up to the moment of experience, gained knowledge and understanding forms our "being" anew every single day - or maybe every seven years ;-) Some myths are stating, we leave our old skin behind once every seven years! Thus adapt to the changes the world around us has taken and our present being is undertaking with it...  My journey through life has so far been perfect with the "being myself" attitude - and for sure I am not at the same spot of being today as I was some decades or even years before.... cheers from the Seven Mountains in Germany

I love that first Quote!! It's so true! I've got friends who have invested $40,000+ into themselves in order to help them move forward in whatever venture they are going into!

What a motivating post!  Good luck to you in all of your goals and dreams!!

BECause change is the only constant thing in this world and by that we grow and become the better versions of ourselves. :)

So true!! I started my own business 3.5 years go and it has been one the hardest things I've ever done...I'm definitely not naturally a leader but I have had to step up in this role and it still challenges me daily. Thanks for another awesome post!

I agree with you, but it's not always [easy to be yourself](https://steemit.com/philosophy/@lifenbeauty/can-i-really-be-myself-am-i-free-to-do-so). Cheers! : )

Thanks for the post. I just remembered the line: Man grows with his tasks:-) suitable to the topic

Great information keep it up upvote and resteem

Impressive,Thanks for sharing your concept.

Always top inspirational posts from You

Do the math. Equation will tell the outcome.
Most people do not believe this long term equation and gives up .

Thanks for the important info..👍

Amazing dear.Thanks a  lot for sharing it.
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Absolutely true. I think people who are really successful end up giving pretty bad advice about success sometimes. They say "be yourself" and "just do what you love." 

The thing is, if you push yourself to become great, you have to become a person who is great. Once you achieve those dreams, that successful person *is* who you are, so those people who say that aren't lying. It is who they are, but that doesn't mean they started out that way. It doesn't mean everyone is bound for greatness no matter who they are. You have to *become* that great person, then you can be yourself and find success.

As far as doing what you love, people who become great at something will undoubtedly love it. Does everyone love doing math? Unlikely. Would people enjoy being a CEO of a revolutionary tech company with fame and brand value? Absolutely. That's a total dream job. I'm sure the person who has that job is really passionate about it and loves what they do. That doesn't mean they loved what they did when they had to study math to get into the career path that led to being a CEO. It doesn't mean they didn't have to work at jobs they didn't love along the way. Planning to pursue a job that you love is important, but you'll never get where you want to go if you aren't willing to do some unpleasant things along the way.

Anyways, great post! It's a point of view that is unfortunately hard to find these days.

Thanks for sharing your valuable concept.
Carry on my friend.